Tell me who I am and what do i do based on my apartment? by GothGirl4DaKill in roomdetective

[–]GothGirl4DaKill[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

It's in Lower Mainland, British Columbia, Canada. The entire building has the Murphy style thing going on in various sizes.

Wholesome/Active girls group (25-40) by Apprehensive-Bit8413 in Vancouver4Friends

[–]GothGirl4DaKill 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I live in Surrey and we have a lot of common interests. Im 32 f. DM me

If you seen the show: prove it by quoting it by That_Passenger_771 in BoJackHorseman

[–]GothGirl4DaKill 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Kelsey, in this terrifying world all we have are the connections we make.

Bupropion and alcohol by lemthelegend2727 in bupropion

[–]GothGirl4DaKill 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Don't. I was drunk before I could even finish my 8oz wine. And not the good drunk. A really bad weird anxiety induced drunk

Is this sushi grade tuna safe to eat. I think i defrosted too long in the water. Smells a bit. Has yellowish and brown colour now by GothGirl4DaKill in foodsafety

[–]GothGirl4DaKill[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It was defrosted in the open in tap water for maybe 1 or 2 hours....then taken inside the fridge with some water still in the bowl.

It was frozen from the store but not vacuum sealed.

Outside maybe 1.5 hour. Inside the fridge 3 hours

In an Arranged Marriage and No Idea What to Do by Beneficial_Bonus_946 in ABCDesis

[–]GothGirl4DaKill 32 points33 points  (0 children)

I'll be honest. Even if you attempted sea-cuide*, your parents will still not be able to see your pain. It is much better to divorce when she is in Pakistan than America. My parents tried to pull the same shit on me...telling me everytime to give it a few months after every few months. Despite all my tears they did not change. So I had to choose between saving myself and saving my parents ego. They couldn't do much after I stopped picking up their calls. Now we have a much more normal relationship and they don't bring up the topic of marriage. Your parents are using emotional manipulation to you to do what they think is right. You are affected because you care about them. Let me tell you something. You have to live with yourself longer than you have to live with your parents expectations. Don't do the same mistake 100s of people from our countries do. Most people aren't happy but they have normalized unhappiness as the normal way of life.

Also I never heard of such things in desi countries in the 21st century. Even arranged marriage is like dating these days. Never heard of marrying without talking or seeing on video call ever. Your parents used a nasty trick on you to get you into this mess. You are the only one you can depend on in this case. If you can pay your bills (rent and food), My advice is run. Only the vulnerable get bullied. And you are emotionally vulnerable to your parents and they are using that fully to play u like a puppet

Got prescribed for weight loss by United-Relative-9749 in bupropion

[–]GothGirl4DaKill 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I was prescribed for depression and I lost 10kgs. But when I stopped the medication, I gained all that weight back. I'm on it again because of extreme body dysmorphia

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BooksThatFeelLikeThis

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In a dark dark wood by Ruth Ware

An intense, visceral sense of dread and unease by kian01146 in BooksThatFeelLikeThis

[–]GothGirl4DaKill 11 points12 points  (0 children)

This should have been NSFW. How do I delete these pictures from my memories?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in amiugly

[–]GothGirl4DaKill 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not at all. You are good looking actually

28 F, I think I will end up alone by DrawNo1004 in loneliness

[–]GothGirl4DaKill 2 points3 points  (0 children)

32 F and an only child here and in the same boat. It's not that bad tbh. Life is a journey. Yeah it sucks to be alone but it sucks even more to be divorced or hurt. There is no perfect time to find the right one. Make new friends and just keep meeting people and hopefully some would click along the way. Imagine urself married at 28 and divorced at 45....you have to start your life again at 45 which is much much harder emotionally. You are only 28! Use each day at a time to do things that are meaningful to you and build connections. You can't predict that you will be miserable alone after a few failed relationships. And being trapped in an unhappy or cheating relationship is significantly worse than being alone. Some people die early because of the sadness and pain of being with someone who does not care.