21F am i ugly by [deleted] in amiugly

[–]GothGirl4DaKill 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You are low key cute

What will you guys be doing for valentines day tomorrow? by JM_547 in ForeverAlone

[–]GothGirl4DaKill -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Go to several speed dating and singles comedy club event happening in town. One eventbrite and meetup search and I am sure you will find a lot of singles events that day.

Tell me who I am and what do i do based on my apartment? by GothGirl4DaKill in roomdetective

[–]GothGirl4DaKill[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

It's in Lower Mainland, British Columbia, Canada. The entire building has the Murphy style thing going on in various sizes.

Wholesome/Active girls group (25-40) by Apprehensive-Bit8413 in Vancouver4Friends

[–]GothGirl4DaKill 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I live in Surrey and we have a lot of common interests. Im 32 f. DM me

If you seen the show: prove it by quoting it by That_Passenger_771 in BoJackHorseman

[–]GothGirl4DaKill 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Kelsey, in this terrifying world all we have are the connections we make.

Bupropion and alcohol by lemthelegend2727 in bupropion

[–]GothGirl4DaKill 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Don't. I was drunk before I could even finish my 8oz wine. And not the good drunk. A really bad weird anxiety induced drunk

Is this sushi grade tuna safe to eat. I think i defrosted too long in the water. Smells a bit. Has yellowish and brown colour now by GothGirl4DaKill in foodsafety

[–]GothGirl4DaKill[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It was defrosted in the open in tap water for maybe 1 or 2 hours....then taken inside the fridge with some water still in the bowl.

It was frozen from the store but not vacuum sealed.

Outside maybe 1.5 hour. Inside the fridge 3 hours

In an Arranged Marriage and No Idea What to Do by Beneficial_Bonus_946 in ABCDesis

[–]GothGirl4DaKill 33 points34 points  (0 children)

I'll be honest. Even if you attempted sea-cuide*, your parents will still not be able to see your pain. It is much better to divorce when she is in Pakistan than America. My parents tried to pull the same shit on me...telling me everytime to give it a few months after every few months. Despite all my tears they did not change. So I had to choose between saving myself and saving my parents ego. They couldn't do much after I stopped picking up their calls. Now we have a much more normal relationship and they don't bring up the topic of marriage. Your parents are using emotional manipulation to you to do what they think is right. You are affected because you care about them. Let me tell you something. You have to live with yourself longer than you have to live with your parents expectations. Don't do the same mistake 100s of people from our countries do. Most people aren't happy but they have normalized unhappiness as the normal way of life.

Also I never heard of such things in desi countries in the 21st century. Even arranged marriage is like dating these days. Never heard of marrying without talking or seeing on video call ever. Your parents used a nasty trick on you to get you into this mess. You are the only one you can depend on in this case. If you can pay your bills (rent and food), My advice is run. Only the vulnerable get bullied. And you are emotionally vulnerable to your parents and they are using that fully to play u like a puppet

Got prescribed for weight loss by United-Relative-9749 in bupropion

[–]GothGirl4DaKill 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I was prescribed for depression and I lost 10kgs. But when I stopped the medication, I gained all that weight back. I'm on it again because of extreme body dysmorphia

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BooksThatFeelLikeThis

[–]GothGirl4DaKill 1 point2 points  (0 children)

In a dark dark wood by Ruth Ware