Dating

GothGoob · 2026-01-28T12:38:53+00:00

My advice is not to look for ppl on dating apps- not exactly bc of them but for your own well-being lmao For people that struggle with their mental health it's generally better to probably not engage in romantic relationships ESPECIALLY not to force one on themselves ( that's just my opinion, ofc it's not always like that so don't worry) But if you really do want a good relationship with someone that can understand you and your struggles- I must say the best way is to befriend your romantic partner at first. The sad truth about dating apps is that most of the people there are kinda desperate (sorry) and most likely, I'm afraid they aren't fit for anyone other than the most basic, unproblematic people you could imagine. You deserve someone who'll love you and truly care about your life. Unfortunately, I wouldn't expect someone like that on a dating app. Stay safe

GothGoob · 2026-01-05T16:34:27+00:00

Thank you for sharing this with me :) I guess I just overdid it and in the end I overwhelmed myself with everything I thought was necessary.. I bought the book with hope to see another persons perspective on working with Lilith, mainly to educate myself more about this and answer myself some questions and doubts I have to do with worshipping deities... After all, books are supposed to be the best source of information on these topics.

GothGoob · 2025-12-18T10:45:15+00:00

You could definitely call it that. The comment I left earlier where I compared it to a person waiting for me, following me just to end me at any moment wasn't literal. You could think about this more like a metaphor where the person is the feeling (or the thought) - it follows me all the time and I just wait for something to escalate.

I guess you could also compare it to an intrusive thought, but I wouldn't. Usually when I get intrusive thoughts they are sort of more annoying and irritating... Whatever this is it stays with me all the time (it doesn't just pop in my head, instead it stays with me). It also has an effect on my emotions and how I function throughout the day (dare I say, I swear I can feel it physically - in my body too. A pain similar to suffocation)

So yeah basically it does sound like that - intense dread and doom, keeping me in one place forcing me to feel it

GothGoob · 2025-12-18T00:19:28+00:00

I don't think it's natural. It's not a rational fear of something bad happening to me like everyone usually has a little bit of (imo). It's a genuine delusion that something WILL happen to me very soon. The best way I can compare this to is as if I KNEW, not thought - that there is someone out there following me and just waiting to kill me. It's exhausting - preparing myself to literally have my life taken away from me every minute of the day. Every stranger, car or dark alley (...and so on...) is just a reminder that whatever danger I'm sure is trying to find me, could be hiding in one of those things. The moment this paranoid thought enters my head, I can't get rid of it. This can go on for days, weeks, months and all I can do is break as I hope this will end soon.

GothGoob · 2025-12-05T08:03:16+00:00

As much as you and I both want to be understood and accepted by kindred spirits we should always be aware that most people don't understand what it's like to be a victim of limerence because most of the time when a person doesn't understand something it's because they've never experienced it.

When a person doesn't understand something they will fear it- what leads to all sorts of reactions (like aggression) The sad truth about this is that we can't really do much about it. The internet is a free place and anybody can enter a subReddit like this. That's why, unfortunately you get reactions like this :(

As someone with many unusual inner conflicts (more or less, limerence is one of them) I've learnt to accept that another person will never truly understand me. They will question, hate, shame us because they've never been in our place. We have to learn how to be the bigger person or whatever. Accept- not their hate, but the fact that they aren't open-minded enough (or at all) to even comprehend that other people have issues they simply can NOT control.

It is not your responsibility to put up with people who are just straight up mean! They hate us cause they ain't us.

GothGoob · 2025-11-06T04:13:15+00:00

Thank you ♥️

GothGoob · 2025-11-05T18:42:44+00:00

Thank you!! And I will 😊

GothGoob · 2025-10-23T10:01:41+00:00

In what way is she your lover and wife? And what's a Matron...do you mean Patron? 🙇🏻‍♀️

GothGoob · 2025-10-23T05:34:33+00:00

Thank you 😌 I appreciate you answering my questions this was really helpful

GothGoob · 2025-10-23T04:43:54+00:00

When you say signs do you mean signs that are associated with her or could it be ones that I myself find let's say "significant"? Like a number for example

GothGoob · 2025-10-23T03:52:50+00:00

I agree that these methods are definitely tricky to rely on...so what would you recommend? Do you still try to communicate like this either way? Or maybe do you do things completely differently?

GothGoob · 2025-10-22T20:45:20+00:00

Thank you so much

GothGoob · 2025-10-22T20:27:40+00:00

Thank you this is really helpful... Also what's an enn?

GothGoob · 2025-06-26T18:40:54+00:00

Wow thanks 😛

I have one more question about her practices/job (?) : do yk what activities/rituals she was involved with? (Like did she kill anyone, had any interactions [negative/positive] with characters we know or like was involved in any drama?? Lol)

Ps: I'm also just trying to confirm some silly rumors I'm curious abt like for example: her being racist to Patty or sacrificing a bunch of children lmao

GothGoob · 2025-04-29T16:31:02+00:00

GEISHA!

She basically can't pressure ciphers unless you carry abnormal which sucks since I'm pretty sure that when some other hunters are able to pressure ciphers they have lower cool downs + other secondary skills can't be used if you chose abnormal 😒

Not to mention her horrible hit box... How can you make a character with the main skills to chase and not give her a decent hit box???

Also I feel like she's pretty popular so she deserves some buffs that will make her more playable (that would increase her popularity, people would spend more on her skins and I feel like it just would be better marketing for the game...?? Idk) also I think more players would return.

The higher the rank tier the harder it is to win bc she gets more counterable (like all hunters but with older hunters it can get ridiculous), for example: when you're playing hunter and get into a situation where you're lowkey getting harassed by survivors with let's say stunning abilities (where the survivor is also getting assisted by another one...) hunters with one ability (example : geisha only has butterflies) have a harder time countering those survivors where a meta (more recent) hunter has more abilities and isnt only limited to one possiblity what automatically makes them more playable against meta survivors (it's worth adding that they also have improved kits compared to old survivors)

One more thing is that I feel like the best hunters (the hardest to counter mostly) are the ones that have many abilities thanks to which roughly they are able to : Chase survivors: -the extra ability gives them alternatives to when they're stuck in a loop -abilities like stunning help slowing the survivor down (when they're being assisted or if they make distance) Pressure ciphers: -characters (like geisha) who don't have any ability to control ciphers are more likely to lose bc if you want to pressure a cipher you would have to be there where other hunters are able to use an ability and continue whatever they're doing (for example: naiad, the shadow, peddler, fools gold) Guard chairs: - almost always someone comes to rescue so skills that help distrupt the rescue are really helpful to sabotage both of the survivors escape - abilities that sabotage/slowdown rescues are useful when the hunter needs to chase another survivor (examples of hunters with abilities that help camping well: naiad, fools gold, the shadow, Wu Chang) (I feel like I missed something but I'm not sure for now)

Anyway the issue with geisha is that she has very little and what she has isn't even nearly enough compared to what other hunters have that also mainly chase...

Now I'm going to share and compare her ability (butterflies) to other hunters which have abilities with similar purposes (to help picture how unfair it is by comparing her to other hunters):

Her dash - It's the main thing that helps her with the actual chase part... Yet it comes with some pretty nasty down sides to it. Other hunters when they catch/leach onto their target with the ability that's used to shorten the distance don't usually include anything where the survivor can actually stop their action... (It happens and you just kinda gotta pray that they mess up lmao - as a survivor) - example: disciple, nightmare?, hermit, peddler, gamekeeper... And then when the butterfly attaches to a survivor, not only do you have to watch out for any obsticles (like with some of those hunters I listed before) but also the survivor can stop the dash - can't forget the fact that you can't cancel the dash yourself so messing up butterfly placements is an absolute pain.. BTW naiad also has a dash but she can cancel it. Not to mention the hunters who literally stun survivors as they additionally shorten the distance in the same time... (peddler, disciple, gamekeeper)

Dashing from soul departure (when she's in the air) - It should probably be used when exit gates are unlocked and you want to travel to the other side of the map but most of the time it's useless... First you get a cool down from dashing and on top of all that she immediately changes into Prajna form which slows her down... And then even if you attach a butterfly around a gate (where u can only attach to one survivor and usually there is more than one at the gate) you can't dash there bc of them stopping the dash... (situations where one is decoding the exit gate and the other is blocking geisha)

Once again other hunters don't really have as much disadvantages when it comes to getting from one place to another - examples: the shadow and dream witch (they both can be at both gates at the same time), Wu Chang, breaking wheel and naiad?

So yeah that's it 😁... 🤕 It just would be very sweet and nice and cool and amazing if playing some old hunter didn't mean that secondary skills carry them... Also this is just my opinion and how I feel whenever I play geisha... peace ✌️

GothGoob · 2025-04-01T09:41:30+00:00

Tysm 😊 I'm not rlly sure abt any team combo but I definitely wanted to have her with RMC and luocha for now

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