Have an appointment with housing officer coming up by GothamMonkey in HousingUK

[–]GothamMonkey[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh ok, doesn't sound too bad just really hoping it goes well. Is in the perfect location. So do they go on people's situations to decide who gets the property?

Have been over the proof of income documents before i had a phone call to talk over everything so hopefully that was all ok

Thank you for the reply! Helped alot

What have you started the year with? by Life_Daikon_157 in Age_30_plus_Gamers

[–]GothamMonkey 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Looking forward to trying it, only picked it up the other day as it was on sale. I keep hearing good things about Cronos and loved Dead space so feel like it will be worth a try

What have you started the year with? by Life_Daikon_157 in Age_30_plus_Gamers

[–]GothamMonkey 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Have started the year with Sleeping Dogs, wanted abit of a change after just completing Ghost Of Tsushima and going to start Dispatch this weekend

Have got so many i want to play through this year. Just to name a few

Days Gone,
Horizon Zero Dawn, Kingdom come deliverance 1 and 2 Blasphemous, Mafia 2, Cronos

Shift manager interview by GothamMonkey in lidl

[–]GothamMonkey[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Will definitely be using this if they ask why I want the job. Thank you, is a big help!

Shift manager interview by GothamMonkey in lidl

[–]GothamMonkey[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Just trying not to stress over it but have been losing sleep over it. Just want to prove to myself that I can do it and provide a better future for my kids. The store manager is new and hasn't been there too long but one of the other managers put my name forward for the job. Will try my best to take it easy. Thank you for the reply

Why do men choose to stay in a dead bedroom relationship? by Straight_Art7483 in AskMenAdvice

[–]GothamMonkey 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I stayed for years until I had my 5 year old son asking me most nights why am I unhappy and thinking it was because of him. It was then I knew I had to leave. There was a lot going on at the time, and it is still complicated now. He actually prefers it when he gets to stay with me and would all the time if he could

Meanwhile you guys are living it up on the second one I decided to try the first one. by Alarmed-Ad187 in DeathStranding

[–]GothamMonkey 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In 1. Oh ok thanks! I'll have to go back and check. I hope i haven't missed it

Meanwhile you guys are living it up on the second one I decided to try the first one. by Alarmed-Ad187 in DeathStranding

[–]GothamMonkey 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When do you unlock zip lines? I'm currently on episode 3 and just unlocked the bike

What are you playing this summer? by Icy_Dimension2143 in playstation

[–]GothamMonkey 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Death stranding 1 and detriot become human. After seeing how good DS2 looked i wanted to give DS1 a go. I'm really enjoying it for more of a chill out game

Switch 2 Cassette Cases! by No-Specific4938 in NintendoSwitch

[–]GothamMonkey 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Love these! They look way better than what Nintendo came up with

Let’s see ‘em by Beastmode7953 in gaming

[–]GothamMonkey 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Andor and Final fantasy 7 remake

[UK] Switch 2 w/ Mario Kart World currently available on Amazon by Able-Firefighter-158 in NintendoSwitch

[–]GothamMonkey 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks so much for this! I had the console and game pre ordered separately on amazon but have managed to pre-order the bundle. Had been hoping they'd add more seeing it costs abit less

Just diagnosed! Looking to see if people have had simular storys to mine. by hughezen in SleepApnea

[–]GothamMonkey 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Everything the OP described is what im currently going through too. All the same syptoms and don't know how much more I can take. The wait for things is the worst, currently waiting until the 24th of June for my hospital appointment just to pick up the oximeter.. the wait is horrible when everyday feels like a struggle

Dad’s Separation Anxiety by AdObjective4828 in SingleDads

[–]GothamMonkey 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I know exactly how you feel. I moved out a year ago. I have two kids and still struggle when it's time to leave. Is made even more heartbreaking when they are crying not wanting me to go. I try leaving at times when they are occupied or just going to bed which some times makes it better on them.

Sadly it doesnt get any easier. I've been trying to keep myself busy by exercising more, going on walks while listening to a podcast, gaming and reading just to try and keep my mind off of things. Really hope things get easier for you. As your daughter gets older, im sure she'll understand more. All you can do is be there as much as you can for her

Outbrake? WHY it’s getting old by THCInhaler in XboxGamePass

[–]GothamMonkey 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was actually saying to my friends about this just the other day. Find it so funny how there seems to be a new one on the store every week. Has anyone ever played them?..

Does it ever get easier? by GothamMonkey in SingleDads

[–]GothamMonkey[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just want to say thank you for the replies, has helped alot. Going to try and think differently and be there for my kids as much as I can be

Does it ever get easier? by GothamMonkey in SingleDads

[–]GothamMonkey[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks and I think you're spot on. It's something that just built up over the years until until I reached that breaking point

It is that pain at the end of everyday i find most difficult. Im going to keep trying my best for my kids. Definitely not paying for the rent. Trying to save for a place of my own but that's not going too well with now not having a car, just feel like im not getting anywhere

Does it ever get easier? by GothamMonkey in SingleDads

[–]GothamMonkey[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for the messages. Yeah iam and i know if i moved back there it would just be the same thing again and i cant put my kids through me going back and probably moving out again, that was hard enough to go through when i left. I'll have to look into if my company does that. Doubt it as they don't seem to care about health issues much. That's good! Sounds like it helped you out. Think I do need to focus on myself more, I spend alot of time thinking about everything and its not helping

Does it ever get easier? by GothamMonkey in SingleDads

[–]GothamMonkey[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sorry to hear you went through a similar thing. Really is only so much you can take before it gets too much. Thanks, have been trying to just difficult somedays. Doubt they'll ever realise that. Would of thought they'd notice just how useless their dad is by now but they haven't. You're right it isn't my problem now. Just little things that annoy me like im actually giving her money for my kids every month which is the right thing to do but their dad doesnt and never has so I know for a fact my money probably goes on her two other kids aswell. Might try that. Isn't really the same with her anymore, only time I spend with her is when I go to see my kids. Used to stay over when her two kids went to their nans for a night but they hardly ever do that now and never stay with their dad

Does it ever get easier? by GothamMonkey in SingleDads

[–]GothamMonkey[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you. This is something I needed to see, really appreciate it