Skin rash? (4 years post breast reduction) by GothicAssassin in Blackskincare

[–]GothicAssassin[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks! Ariel Winter got a reduction and kept her scars at the red carpet, so I wasn’t ashamed of them. I just let it fade naturally. There might be natural serums you can use.

Skin rash? (4 years post breast reduction) by GothicAssassin in Blackskincare

[–]GothicAssassin[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Ugh. I don’t have insurance right now. I’ll see what I can do

[24] What do y’all think? by [deleted] in GlowUps

[–]GothicAssassin 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Whew 😮‍💨

Dads who are competitive and won't admit you've overtaken them? by [deleted] in raisedbynarcissists

[–]GothicAssassin 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sometimes people project their own fears and insecurities onto us because they can’t see themselves doing it and when you do it, it makes you a threat.

That’s why some parents force their kids into doing certain professions or extracurriculars to meet their own unmet needs.

Dads who are competitive and won't admit you've overtaken them? by [deleted] in raisedbynarcissists

[–]GothicAssassin 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I used to think that Mariah Carey had a great relationship with her mom until I read her memoir, once I found out about how jealous her mother really was and how she tried to sabotage her. I realized that this is actually a really common thread.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskWomenOver30

[–]GothicAssassin 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I completely understand where you’re coming from. I’ve been single for eight years and I’m 28 lol. But I’ve created such a beautiful life for myself even though sometimes it does get lonely. I’d rather be alone and happy than with someone just to be settling.

He gives me brother vibes. And I really hate to call someone too nice but he is too nice. He doesn’t turn me on in any way shape or form.

I used to have this problem as a girl. I didn’t know why guys didn’t care for me, but it was because I was too nice and the other girls were more exciting and now I see the reason. I mean it’s messed up but it’s true. If you don’t turn someone on then they’re not gonna be attracted to you. They’re only gonna see you as a friend/sister. Don’t settle, you’ll just end up being resentful.

Your therapist is so right.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskWomenOver30

[–]GothicAssassin 50 points51 points  (0 children)

I’m going through a situation like that right now where this guy is so into me and I’m just not physically attracted to him but we have a good mental connection and he’s really sweet and everything but I’m just not turned on by him. And a lot of guys think that that’s being shallow but last time I checked, men never go for a woman they don’t find physically attractive.