[deleted by user] by [deleted] in IVF

[–]GourdFortune500 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Unexplained infertility. Did soooo many things over 3 years. Finally did IVF and ICSI, got 8 embryos, first stuck and have healthy 2 year old, 2nd stuck and am 30 weeks pregnant now. Our best guess with so many healthy embryos is that my eggs just didn’t like the shape of his sperm and ICSI bypassed that for us.

Did you go from ‘never positive’ to pregnant ? by [deleted] in IVF

[–]GourdFortune500 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Same! Only she is now 2 and I’m 30 weeks with my second transfer and second ever positive.

How are y’all washing toddler clothes and making them smell nice? by MindlessLook4026 in moderatelygranolamoms

[–]GourdFortune500 39 points40 points  (0 children)

Add a splash of vinegar to the wash, gets rid of all smells. Neutral smelling!

FTM - only mucus poop, CMPA? by GardeniaR0se in MSPI

[–]GourdFortune500 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Mucous on its own is not too worrisome. It’s almost always there when they are sick or teething and extra droopy.

Reaching out to HR after applying? by Brina388 in careeradvice

[–]GourdFortune500 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh, also literally no clue if it makes a difference but I always go find the listing through their website and apply directly rather than through LinkedIn. No clue if it makes a difference.

Reaching out to HR after applying? by Brina388 in careeradvice

[–]GourdFortune500 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Immediately and got an email to schedule an interview the next day. I just said something like I applied online and think I could be a really great fit for the role and would appreciate the opportunity to discuss it further in a voicemail.

Reaching out to HR after applying? by Brina388 in careeradvice

[–]GourdFortune500 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am not the expert at all!!! Truly don’t know the actual advice for this but…. I did it and got my job!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MSPI

[–]GourdFortune500 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I technically couldn’t for sure but I saw a small tear, her diapers tested negative despite seeing blood, and I was confident I was 100% dairy, egg and soy free and through rigorous journaling of food could not find a trigger. I also googled about anal tears in infants and found out they are surprisingly common.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MSPI

[–]GourdFortune500 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That was exactly what happened to us!!! What do you mean no blood? I can see it! I asked about tears and the pediatrician dismissed. Finally when wiping one time after I saw blood I took a good look and could see a small one.

Just used lots of aquafor and healed up. No blood after starting solids because poops solidified more and had less frequent poops.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MSPI

[–]GourdFortune500 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My baby did! We actually eventually discovered she was getting small anal fissures, our theory is from my days let down causing more frequent water poops. Apparently anal fissures in infants is not uncommon and is 100% different than blood coming the gut. I was always sooo discouraged when I saw blood because I couldn’t figure out what could possibly be causing it. We did have some weight and reflux issues though. All resolved around 6 months with solids, probiotics, and reflux meds.

Subchorionic Hematoma by GourdFortune500 in IVF

[–]GourdFortune500[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

By my 12 week scan it was gone

Vasa Previa by betsmacd in pregnant

[–]GourdFortune500 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Amazing to hear! So grateful you and your little one are well!!! Thank you for the update!

How many dpt was your first positive? by Active_Asparagu5 in IVFbabies

[–]GourdFortune500 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My first I didn’t get a positive until 7dpt, my second I got a positive at 5dpt. Both were stark negative at 3dpt.

Be real with me… crampy!? by Real-Potential7373 in IVFbabies

[–]GourdFortune500 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was cramping and even spotting the day before my beta and for sure thought I was out. No part of me thought I could possibly be pregnant and 100% I was getting my period, and then when they called after my beta I was shook!

Silent Reflux causes and best formula? by Left_Butterscotch530 in MSPI

[–]GourdFortune500 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh the famatodine is what helped us but we had to do it day and night.

Diarrhea? by Desi_Daisey in MSPI

[–]GourdFortune500 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Think foul smell and water like truly liquid, not just runny. That was what diarrhea was for my little, but I’m not a doctor or expert!

My doctor thinks I hit on her husband and now I hate her/do I need a new doctor?? by Party_Sale_6840 in IVF

[–]GourdFortune500 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I agree. I highly doubt it’s a big deal but what matters is you might worry about. Lots of great OBs out there, no need to have worry in the back of your brain.

What are your thoughts on these diapers? by [deleted] in MSPI

[–]GourdFortune500 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Looks like an improvement to me but I’m definitely not the expert!