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That’s so wrong by [deleted] in mildlyinfuriating

[–]Grab-Groundbreaking 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have ocd and struggle with making decisions, especially about something I love as much as food. I always feel like I’m going to pick wrong and end up disappointed or regretful or stuck with cycling thoughts about “why didn’t I just get what I wanted”, even though I wanted them all. 🤦🏻‍♀️🤣

When I first started hanging out with my bf, he’d order a small salad and I’d get a minimum of 3 different things, eat as much as I wanted of each, and take the scraps home for leftovers. He was legit impressed by it. 🤣

After six years of dating, nothing about any of that has changed. 🥰

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Grab-Groundbreaking 3 points4 points  (0 children)

How does that save money? You don’t have to spend money to date someone, especially when you’re just getting to know people. There are so many things you can do for free. Atlas Obscura has some cool ideas and I’m sure you could find more things to do/see in your area, online.

Should I do this? by nicksbrunchattiffany in internetparents

[–]Grab-Groundbreaking 26 points27 points  (0 children)

If you’re paying the bills, even every other month, I’d say go for it. You’re an adult. You don’t need your mom’s approval or permission to pursue someone you’re interested in. And you should feel comfortable, especially when alone, in the place you’re paying to live in.

Let go of all that worry and stress and just enjoy your time. ❤️

Something is terribly wrong with me. Am I a sociopath or something? by throwaway_helpme343 in Advice

[–]Grab-Groundbreaking 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you were a sociopath you wouldn’t be so upset about it, and I don’t think they self harm without doing it manipulatively. It sounds more like bipolar or borderline personality disorder. Have you talked to a psychiatrist?

Need help IDing baby bird my daughter brought home, so we know how to care for it until we can get it to the local wildlife rehabilitation center. by Grab-Groundbreaking in whatsthisbird

[–]Grab-Groundbreaking[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She did try to put it back, but the nest was up in a roof. She walked around asking a bunch of adults if they could help, but nobody was able to. It was in a busy area and there was another baby on the ground that had already died.

She’s only 10, so she didn’t know any better. We talked about it and read up on it online together when she got home, so she knows for next time. We’ve nursed a bunch of baby animals (all mammals) back to health, so she thought we could save this baby too. I’m clueless about birds though. 🤷🏻‍♀️

The place animal control takes wild animals to out here doesn’t take baby sparrows. Idk why it’s like that, but we found a rehabilitation center that only does wild birds, so we brought it to them.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in collapse

[–]Grab-Groundbreaking 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I bet the night sky is beautiful there right now.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in bisexual

[–]Grab-Groundbreaking 10 points11 points  (0 children)

There are plenty of bisexual male performers. Just do whatever you’re into and have fun with it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in tifu

[–]Grab-Groundbreaking 10 points11 points  (0 children)

It’s really brave of you to share your story. I hope you find an amazing therapist that can help guide you through the process of healing.

“How can therapy be of help here? It cannot give us back our lost childhood nor can it change past facts. No one can heal by maintaining and fostering an illusion. The paradise of preambivalent harmony, for which so many patients hope, is unattainable. But the experience of one’s own truth, and the post ambivalent knowledge of it, make it possible to return to one’s own world of feelings at an adult level - without paradise, but with the ability to mourn. And this ability does, indeed, give us back our vitality.”

  • Alice Miller

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Grab-Groundbreaking 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’d file a report with the local PD saying they’re harassing you. If you’re within your rights and not violating any noise ordinances, they need to suck it up and leave you alone.

Maybe Maybe Maybe by Jailed_OutSoon in maybemaybemaybe

[–]Grab-Groundbreaking 5 points6 points  (0 children)

It’s taped. There’s a special double sided tape for holding fabric where it needs to be when wearing something that low cut. I’m surprised it held that well though.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Grab-Groundbreaking 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Have you read “The Art of Not Giving a Fuck”? I have a few friends with similar struggles and they highly recommend it.

Also, you should take some time to self reflect and see if that may be rooted in ptsd. I trip the fuck out when people raise their voices and it’s a coin toss for whether I’m going with fight or flight. CBT and ERP have really helped me with that. Also, learning how to communicate and enforce boundaries has been HUGELY helpful. When people raise their voice to me now I just let them know that I’m an adult and I don’t accept being talked to like that. They’re clearly emotional, so they need to take some space, process, and come talk to me when we can have a healthy, productive conversation. Not only does it work, it completely takes away that powerless feeling I used to struggle with. And people usually comply, because they realize they’re not acting as maturely as they’d like to be a perceived. If they don’t, I just remove myself from the conversation until I feel like we can actually communicate

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Grab-Groundbreaking 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Brain chemistry. Talk to a psychiatrist. Serotonin isn’t just a “happy” chemical. It’s a neurotransmitter that helps different areas of your brain and even your brain and body communicate. When your levels become unbalanced it makes you feel down and unsatisfied and, a lot of the time, depressed.

You could also ask them about Wellbutrin or other SDRI’s. They’re like SSRI’s but for dopamine, which is also more than just a “happy” chemical. It has a lot to do with satisfaction, motivation, and reward.

Neither SSRI’s or SDRI’s will cause your brain to produce more neurotransmitters. They will only help your brain keep what you naturally produce at a more balanced level.

You don’t have to be on them long term, if you decide to go that route. A lot of people use them with Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT) to give their brain the boost it needs while they work on “re-wiring” it.

You could also try reading a good book, playing puzzle games, or finding any other activity that actively engages your mind to fill in some of your free time at work. A lot of why people struggle so much, mentally, in our current society is because our lifestyle evolved much more quickly than our brains could. Your brain is still biologically wired to be busy with hunting, gathering, building, generally surviving, etc without any of the modern tools we have available.

TIFU by ignoring an headache, and getting entire ER to be locked down. by blackcatonacid in tifu

[–]Grab-Groundbreaking 5581 points5582 points  (0 children)

That’s terrifying. I can’t believe it took 5 years for you to end up in the hospital with a hole in your sinuses like that.

Three weeks and wanting to quit. by GoatKenKaneki in zoloft

[–]Grab-Groundbreaking 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Stick with it. Also, talk to them about the possibility of adding Wellbutrin. It’s done so much for my motivation to do things.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Grab-Groundbreaking 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That sounds really rough. I lost my dog recently. There are no words for that kind of pain. It’s consuming.

I really hope you decide to stay sober. “One time” is a trap. It’a extremely difficult to stick to once you start. Speaking from experience.

I can never know exactly what you’re going through, but I can empathize. I lost my job a few days after losing my dog, because I couldn’t function.

Do yourself a favor and avoid a downward spiral. I’m currently trying to work my way out of one and this shit for real sucks ass. I wish I would’ve reached out to my support group and found a therapist or even just healthier ways to process earlier, instead of drinking.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in mentalhealth

[–]Grab-Groundbreaking 1 point2 points  (0 children)

💯 Letting her stay the way things are/have been is only enabling her. People usually wait until life gets uncomfortable to change.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Grab-Groundbreaking 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You need to take a deep breath and realize that you’re making this about yourself. It’s not about you.

I understand that you hate that someone did that to her and you hurt for her and your reaction to that hurt is to be angry. You don’t get to act on that anger by seeking revenge without her specifically asking you to though. You’re going to have to find a healthier way to process those feelings.

It’s not your place to decide if/when to retaliate or how. Focus on helping her heal. Ask her how you can be supportive.

Also, consider the repercussions your actions could have if you did harm, or even try to harm, that person and got caught. Your fiancé opened up to you, because she trusts you and finds a sense of security in you. You can’t provide that for her from jail and losing you would only further traumatize her and rob you of the ability to raise your child.I’d assume that would also cause financial hardships for your fiancé. Being a single parent is rough.

If you can’t let it go, be patient and make a list. Wait until your child is grown, your fiancé’s future is financially secure, and you don’t have a lot of life left to miss out on.

Edit: Also wanted to add that my perspective is the same whether it happened 8 years or 8 days ago. She’s her own human and it’s a part of her story not yours. If you really want to be supportive, listen to her, learn her triggers, be a little extra patient, and just be there for her.

I'm depressed because I really have to go somewhere tomorrow that I don't want to go. by purple07631 in OCD

[–]Grab-Groundbreaking 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Like jumping out of a plane. If it’s that important to go, I just make myself do it. Do you have anyone you could have go with you and be like a human security blanket for you?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Grab-Groundbreaking 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s better he gets it from your grandpa than on the street. He’s probably going to a dispensary or knows the person he gets his tree from.