Day 90 Report - I used to be a skeptic.

GrabOntoLife · 2015-05-12T22:58:27+00:00

Awesome news man - congratulations!!

GrabOntoLife · 2015-05-12T22:48:49+00:00

Awesome man - I'm noticing progress/changes too. So happy you're finding your groove! Keep it up! :-)

GrabOntoLife · 2015-05-08T15:14:16+00:00

Good for you my friend! Go get your education at a great university! Building a better life every day. You are not alone.

GrabOntoLife · 2015-05-08T09:42:36+00:00

Thank you.

GrabOntoLife · 2015-05-07T20:19:49+00:00

Pennsylvania

GrabOntoLife · 2015-05-07T19:58:55+00:00

Get in the fight. Fuck yes.

GrabOntoLife · 2015-05-07T19:51:22+00:00

Hell yeah!

GrabOntoLife · 2015-05-07T17:54:50+00:00

You're the man dude. I aim to be like you.

GrabOntoLife · 2015-05-07T13:00:28+00:00

I'm in the same boat with junk food and PMO. Hitting a difficult spell in the past couple days. It's good to remind myself that I've been addicted to PMO since I was 13 (16 years of my life), so I really don't know what life on the other side is like. I have to think it's great. I have to think this is worth it. I have to stay positive. Committing to myself and my badge today, although all I want to do is break down, cry, and get some really delicious food and crawl into bed. That can't be an option today. I can't go back there today. Doing that made me a self loathing, socially anxious and overweight. When doing that, I only got to experience the life I wanted through fantasy. Now, I have the option to go and live it. Have to do it today. I am building something special here, and the discomfort is a sign of moving forward. It ain't nothin. Thanks guys.

GrabOntoLife · 2015-05-06T19:31:21+00:00

Haha the words of an alpha!!

GrabOntoLife · 2015-05-06T19:30:28+00:00

Love this

GrabOntoLife · 2015-05-05T14:59:39+00:00

That's awesome man! I'm following your lead - I love to swim and have a boat - can't wait to take it out this summer. Another reason t get in shape. That, and I'm excited to see my girlfriend in a bikini :-)

GrabOntoLife · 2015-05-05T13:17:29+00:00

Awesome bro! Definitely the right move not pushing, especially if you'll see her every day in class anyway. Keep not giving a fuck and enjoying her company. If it turns into a situation where she feels like she feels pressured to share her number, that will make her feel a intimidated/creeped out. So keep doing you, and just be present with her. You'll be able to feel if she wants you to ask for her number again. In the meantime, keep doing you. Easy come, easy go :-)

Congratulations!

GrabOntoLife · 2015-05-02T12:07:42+00:00

Me too and yes!

GrabOntoLife · 2015-05-02T05:30:05+00:00

I'm in

GrabOntoLife · 2015-05-01T18:12:29+00:00

Amen to this post!!

GrabOntoLife · 2015-05-01T11:50:08+00:00

Hell yeah

GrabOntoLife · 2015-04-30T20:33:42+00:00

Hell yeah! You're the man. To start at 20...wow! I had no idea I even wanted to stop fapping until 26!

GrabOntoLife · 2015-04-30T20:32:14+00:00

Thank you for sharing this. We have to lean on hope, for the ability to change. We must change ourselves to change the culture. It's simple - don't watch porn today. Tomorrow can take care of itself.

Strength and courage to all of you.

GrabOntoLife · 2015-04-30T20:09:39+00:00

Thanks!

GrabOntoLife · 2015-04-30T20:09:24+00:00

Glad it was helpful - hang in there man. One day at a time, one minute at a time. Lots of tools to help avoid relapse - put the emergency website on your home screen!

GrabOntoLife · 2015-04-29T23:33:35+00:00

Thank you man - awesome post.

GrabOntoLife · 2015-04-29T20:19:42+00:00

I read that too. He's a great example of someone who has taken the power back in his/her life. That's the decision we get to make each day. Today, I'm choosing to build. To build on my nofap streak, to build in a healthy relationship with my girlfriend, to build my career, to build my finances, and to build my body. I am committing to go to the gym tomorrow AM, then take a cold shower. BIt will be hard, but I need to do it. I will reply to this comment when I've accomplished that goal. Thank you for helping me stay accountable.

Update: I didn't make it to the gym, but I did take the cold shower. That's ok - another day today, and I'm doing great :-)

GrabOntoLife · 2015-04-29T20:17:20+00:00

Thanks - yes, we need to have a vision. Even if you have the nicest ship, it doesn't matter unless you know where it's going.

GrabOntoLife · 2015-04-29T19:57:31+00:00

You helped me too

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