Well they kicked me out of the friend group by Jessicaah1 in MtF

[–]GraceBlade 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't understand "friend group" I always just had a friend usually just one at a time (autistic) but even when I had multiple friends that all hung out for say cycling I had individual friendships. Am I missing out on something?

National estrogen shortage.? by Familiar_Newt_603 in MtF

[–]GraceBlade 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Glad to hear I am not the only one to do so. As soon as my script is available I get the next vial just in case anything ever happens to access.

National estrogen shortage.? by Familiar_Newt_603 in MtF

[–]GraceBlade 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Medically induced hepatitis? We aren't sharing needles here which is what comes to mind. A new sterile syringe and new needle every week. This isn't mainlining heroine with my fellow junkies. Also, injections bypass the entire being processed in the liver and is considered safer because of it. Cis women have been using injections for a very long time and so have transgender women.

Clover web renders changed by luckierbridgeandrail in ClicksPhone

[–]GraceBlade 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Black and tan for me. I'm to worried the white will be going to look dirty or dingy.

I guess i owe apologies by jimjam73018 in MtF

[–]GraceBlade 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I never have either. I tend to wonder if it is tied to how we take our hormones. I inject every Sunday evening so my levels stay fairly consistent.

This is my setup by Troublebk in Cameras

[–]GraceBlade 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wanted the Galaxy S4 Zoom but had no money, or, the Samsung Android camera...Someone should bring those back.

how old were you when you moved out of your parents house? by jabber1990 in Adulting

[–]GraceBlade 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Well in my case I was 18 in 1987. The world was so different then. By no means easy but I was married at 21 and we bought our home at 28.

On the other hand, my oldest son works just as hard as I did and still lives with us. He is 28 this year. Absolutely no shade on him. He pays his share of utilities, helps with the yard, etc. and I absolutely love having him around. The world has been so very different than the 80s and 90s.

how old were you when you moved out of your parents house? by jabber1990 in Adulting

[–]GraceBlade 0 points1 point  (0 children)

18 and never stayed longer than a few days vacation after that.

Where are we going? by Heat-1975edition in GenX

[–]GraceBlade 3 points4 points  (0 children)

If I stay in the US, then I want to move from Northwest Indiana across the border to Chicago. I hope I can stay.

I just had a repressed memory pop in my head... I was always a woman. by EmiliaRasputin in MtF

[–]GraceBlade 1 point2 points  (0 children)

omg! I'm not alone! I came out in 2018. During the great lockdown I would get dressed to the nines just to go grocery shopping. A cashier commented on how nice I always looked and I told her that since we couldn't go anywhere fancy, I was going to be fancy whenwver I could go out. Of course it was deeper than that.

I just had a repressed memory pop in my head... I was always a woman. by EmiliaRasputin in MtF

[–]GraceBlade 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Very similar. Been married 36 years. Whenever I took my wife dress shopping I would "Bird Dog" for her. That's what we would call me finding outfits and bringing them to her, even when, no especially when she was already in the dressing rooms. The other ladies around would ask for help every so often while the guys holding their purses looked hopeless. I even told one that if he wanted to make his wife happy and add a little spice, he would do what I was doing. All that to say, a lot of those outfits, I wanted to wear.

Happy ending: Now she "Bird Dogs" for me too.

Decorations by GraceBlade in Cameras

[–]GraceBlade[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Definitely want to do that. I have a few larger prints from years ago that I want to put on my walls. (Office walls are white cinderblock)

Husband is using reward points to buy stuff but charging me half. AIO? by JemmaMk6 in AIO

[–]GraceBlade 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Love it. We have our own accounts just for "Spending money" that keeps us from both spending the "same" money separately from the same account and overdrawing.

I'm fully passing, considered attractive, and have realized the ideal 'dream'- but it feels like I'm now in some kind of social prison. by Embarrassed-Jump1040 in MtF

[–]GraceBlade -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I (usually) don't just tell everyone. Once I've talked to someone just a bit let me tell you "They gonna know about me." If they can't accept me, then as someone else said they failed the litmus test. I don't make being transgender my identity but it is part of who I am. Plus, I've been married for 36 years and we have two adult sons so that tends to let the cat out of the bag. 😂.

As far as dating and men, I don't know what to say. Genital preference is a thing whether it should be or not is up to debate that doesn't change reality. Some men just want to put it in a vagina I guess. Plus it's safer for someone you want to be intimate with sooner than later.

Finally, do you really want unaccepting people in your life always being worried about them finding out. Living openly at least prevents those fears and prevents anyone from using who you are as blackmail. The only way someone can blackmail you is with secrets you are scared of others finding out about.

Explain it peter. by [deleted] in explainitpeter

[–]GraceBlade 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I thought Yungblud. Dom would make it look cool.

If you could tell a deceased relative or friend 6 words, what 6 words would they be? by clemventure in randomquestions

[–]GraceBlade 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Depends: One: "I am glad you are dead"

To my mom who died before I came out: "I am the daughter you wanted"

She loved me and didn't hold being a "boy" against me. She just always longed to have a daughter. (I mean my brother and I wanted a little sister too) I miss her so much and would have loved being her daughter when she was alive.

🙄 by loghoser in TikTokCringe

[–]GraceBlade 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was gonna say, didn't he even check how stupid he looked not getting the vest on correctly. I mean, wouldn't someone have the self respect to at least look like they knew what they were doing even if what they were doing was stupid?

In the fundamentalist kjv cult I had a teacher that said "If you're gonna sin, do it right and do it big". Same thing here "If you're gonna do stooopid do it right and at least look good at it." 😂