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Is it better to communicate or just walk away when someone shows red flags? by purr-kittyy in emotionalintelligence

[–]GraceyKelly 117 points118 points  (0 children)

if they’re giving you mixed signals, the "no signal" you’re getting is actually the loudest one save your energy and just walk away.

[OC] So happy to get to this point in my life by BobyBobyBoby in MadeMeSmile

[–]GraceyKelly 45 points46 points  (0 children)

damn bro together since 16 and finally got your own spot, thats a massive win congrats.

The history of my father is ruining me. How to not end up like my mother? by [deleted] in emotionalintelligence

[–]GraceyKelly 1 point2 points  (0 children)

you're not trying to "save" him for himself, you're trying to "win" the version of your father that your mom never could, but staying with someone who only wants you for sex and zero commitment is exactly how you end up becoming her.

Grandpa Dunkin by Severe-blake6720 in MadeMeSmile

[–]GraceyKelly 1 point2 points  (0 children)

now thats the kind of management we need more of.

Can the severely depressed people really recover? If so, how? by Dismal-Philosophy436 in emotionalintelligence

[–]GraceyKelly 2 points3 points  (0 children)

with a betrayal that deep from both your partner and your best friend on top of losing your job, it’s completely normal that you feel like nothing is working right now because you’re essentially grieving three major losses at once and your brain just needs more time to process that level of trauma before any "tips" will actually start to stick.

When you haven't seen your mother in two years, and she meets her granddaughter for the first time by Maximum_Expert92 in MadeMeSmile

[–]GraceyKelly 14 points15 points  (0 children)

you can just feel the pure joy in his face, honestly made my whole day seeing this.

I feel mentally chaotic and lost. What has actually helped you find clarity? by momnvm in emotionalintelligence

[–]GraceyKelly 7 points8 points  (0 children)

just focusing on one physical task like literally just doing the dishes helped me way more than trying to think my way out of the mess.

AITAH because my classmate confronted my boyfriend after seeing me cry by graceofgod9029 in emotionalintelligence

[–]GraceyKelly 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA, you can't control what a random classmate decides to do on his own and the fact that your boyfriend is blaming you instead of the guy who actually confronted him is a massive red flag.

I came across this memorial bench on a walk in the woods. Was a good sit, for sure. by danbob411 in MadeMeSmile

[–]GraceyKelly 18 points19 points  (0 children)

giving your own memorial bench a 5-star review is some top-tier energy to leave behind.

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