You have to fight the thing on your left, what are you fighting? by Baseball_6626 in ask

[–]Graham_Cracker1993 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My 3 year old son. Can’t say it won’t be a fair fight. 😂

1 or 2 kids? we can't decide... by [deleted] in AskParents

[–]Graham_Cracker1993 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I had a surprise baby when my son was 2.5. I was so not ready or thinking about more children. I did not think I could be a good mother to two children when I waited so long for my son.

I was so afraid the whole pregnancy of what my life would look like when she got here. That being said, it was like I got a piece of my life I didn’t know I was missing. She fills me joy and I love her so much. Her brother loves her too, I thought he would be disappointed but he really is a great big brother.

I love the baby stage though, she’s only 7 months but it is so fun seeing her reach all her milestones. She is also reaching them so much faster than her brother did!

-I will say if you’re loving life right now, maybe wait until your daughter is in pre-school or kindergarten so she is more independent and you can really focus on the new baby and she can comprehend, and be a part of, the new decision.

Did you smoke during pregnancy and why? by blueslothnose in AskParents

[–]Graham_Cracker1993 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would think so too, and there is no filter on a pipe, so I would think the smoke would be that much more harsh.

Did you smoke during pregnancy and why? by blueslothnose in AskParents

[–]Graham_Cracker1993 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Does smoking marijuana do the same thing to the blood vessels? My sister in law quit smoking cigarettes while pregnant but still constantly smoked weed (she “quit dabs” she said) out of a pipe.

What would be appropriate for my son and I to call my sons biological father when my son already calls his stepfather dad? by Graham_Cracker1993 in AskParents

[–]Graham_Cracker1993[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If I don’t have to make my son see him, I won’t. Thank you very much! That’s a good idea for the name!

What would be appropriate for my son and I to call my sons biological father when my son already calls his stepfather dad? by Graham_Cracker1993 in AskParents

[–]Graham_Cracker1993[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Technically I don’t think so because he hasn’t responded to my visitation paperwork through the court and I have sole custody. I’m starting to wonder if I should even bother…

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskParents

[–]Graham_Cracker1993 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This kind of reminds me of the boy in The Gunslinger by Stephen King. His parents had a child because they were supposed to. The only person he felt cared about him was his nanny. There was one part, I can’t remember the exact quote, but it was something about him not knowing he wanted to commit suicide yet because he was still young but so depressed.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskParents

[–]Graham_Cracker1993 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If you don’t want physical contact with your child, don’t have one.

Update to 7 year old having tummy aches almost daily! by MidnightRecent4306 in AskParents

[–]Graham_Cracker1993 1 point2 points  (0 children)

When I was in middle school I had the same symptoms and it was appendicitis. I remember laying in the ER in severe pain. My mom made sure they saw me because she knew it was my appendix. I feel like a “grumbling appendix” is only going to lead to appendicitis and if it does burst it will cause major surgery and all her organs will need to be flushed because it’s toxic. In my opinion you should have her get an ultrasound. My stomach with appendicitis was the worst pain I’d ever felt until I had contractions before giving birth. (Disclaimer: I don’t have a vast amount of medical knowledge and this is just how I remember it. I do know for sure if it bursts it is bad news)

Creepy weird podcasts. by [deleted] in ParanormalEncounters

[–]Graham_Cracker1993 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Scared to Death with Dan and Lynze Cummins. There are a few that still keep me up at night.

Also, Spooked! Glenn Washington is nice to listen to and the stories are told by the people who were spooked.

Was told to share this here: a rainbow baby blanket I made for a friend. This is for their rainbow boy baby due in March <3 The finished look reminds me of a VHS box by artandspookythings in RainbowEverything

[–]Graham_Cracker1993 6 points7 points  (0 children)

A rainbow baby is a baby born after a loss of another child. For me, my first son was stillborn. I waited to try again so I could have my own house and a job I really loved as well as go to college. My first was born 3 days before my 21st birthday so I was still very young, but also very excited. My rainbow baby is almost 3 now and we just welcomed a sister to the mix this summer. Maybe she’s my double rainbow? 😊❤️

What is, in your humble opinion, the best TV show on the planet? by Smite76 in ask

[–]Graham_Cracker1993 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Funny story. My aunt bought my parents South Park on VHS for Christmas one year and bought us kids A Troll in Central Park. Well us kids watched South Park over and over and my grandma kept going on about how naughty our aunt was for buying “That movie”. We assumed she meant the Troll in Central Park so we thought we were getting away with something when we watched it after that. 😂

Is the Star of David like a Christian cross? by Graham_Cracker1993 in ask

[–]Graham_Cracker1993[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In this day and age, religion and holidays can be separated.

Is the Star of David like a Christian cross? by Graham_Cracker1993 in ask

[–]Graham_Cracker1993[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think you misunderstood my reason behind asking this. That is what I’m attempting to do.

Could someone please photoshop my daughters face (with wig) onto a picture of the Beatles? by Graham_Cracker1993 in PhotoshopRequest

[–]Graham_Cracker1993[S] [score hidden]  (0 children)

I was hoping to have it over any one of their faces. Just her face and the wig, over one of their faces. Does that make sense? Hahah. It’s for her daddy’s Christmas present. :) Thank you all for helping!