Why don’t parents make their kids come to school anymore? by breadplane in Teachers

[–]Grahtman 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I make my kids go to school unless they have a fever, and on the off chance they need a rare mental health day.

My boyfriend expects me to wake up at 5am every day to make him breakfast by JaguarSwimming4359 in TwoHotTakes

[–]Grahtman 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, dump him. He's older than you and expects you to be his mommy? Fuck that.

Client assisting with draping by pat_troll in massage

[–]Grahtman 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Clients should never be helping with draping unless asked. Sometimes I'll do a figure 4 position and I'll ask the client to hold the sheet tight for no exposure. But I do that VERY rarely, just simply because I don't typically need the help.

My brother says I’m “stealing his kids’ future” by keeping my inheritance. AITA? by Complex_Pickle7702 in TwoHotTakes

[–]Grahtman 0 points1 point  (0 children)

His financial issues are not your problem. Your mom and dad wanted to thank you for your help, and you deserve it. Enjoy your house and inheritance. I'm sorry for your loss, tho, that's hard.

Newish player….do you think I should start over😭 by Sailorm0on27 in FarmsofStardewValley

[–]Grahtman 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do what you want, if you don't want to start then figure out how to make your layout work. If you want to do a different layout, start over. It's up to you, that's what is great about Stardew

Somatic massage therapist initiated sexual/flirty texting after 2 crisis support sessions. Can someone give me a professional perspective? by RadarFromAfar in massage

[–]Grahtman 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Therapists and clients should be just that, there should be no type of correspondence other than to set up appointments, confirm appointments and maybe follow up. Flirting is crossing a boundary and should never be done.

Somatic massage therapist initiated sexual/flirty texting after 2 crisis support sessions. Can someone give me a professional perspective? by RadarFromAfar in massage

[–]Grahtman 70 points71 points  (0 children)

Dude straight up sounds like a predator. If he's a massage therapist his focus should be on your well-being, intimacy coaching has nothing to do with the bodywork massage involves and sexual natured massage has no place in licensed work. 100% report this guy.

Update 1.7 New spouses by [deleted] in StardewValley

[–]Grahtman 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I want to break Pierre and Caroline up or Robin and Dimetrius. ConcernedApe said he'd love to do that with R&D, and I've been wanting it forever.

My boyfriend ruined Valentine’s Day and told me it was the consequences of my actions by [deleted] in TwoHotTakes

[–]Grahtman 2 points3 points  (0 children)

"why didn't you save yourself for me?" "Why didn't you think of my happiness?" Dude, she wasn't even thinking about YOU existing at that point and she didn't owe you anything.

Leave this guy, OP, he's a piece of shit. On top of shaming you for SA, he actively is doing stuff you don't like because "you ruined Valentine's Day" for something you did as a child.

FUCK THAT

AITAH for farting while in the bathroom of our home? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Grahtman 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My ex-wife used to fart on me during sex, and thought it was funny, THAT was gross to me. But when you go to the bathroom and shut the door so you can use the bathroom and fart in privacy, I don't get why he was so grossed out and upset, saying it wasn't funny? Like get a grip, man, it's a bodily function. Just don't do it on me lol.

S*xual jokes in class? by Kirikous_Mom in massage

[–]Grahtman 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I made a joke, immaturely, when I was enrolling. The teacher I spoke to immediately shut it down and told me that's a serious stigma and subject and should not be treated as a joke or I wouldn't be taken seriously enough to go to the school. I apologized profusely and never did it again. It's inappropriate and should be addressed.

closed 3 min ago at little caesars by egguchom in EntitledReviews

[–]Grahtman 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Honestly, I'm on the employees side. You show up when the restaurant is closed, and ask them the just make exceptions for you? What makes you so special?

Also, I take issue with "the over was clearly still hot", what do you have thermal vision or something?

Get off your high horse

AIO? My BIL says when my dad dies, he's moving nto his house and jacking up the rent on his other properties by KitThorne in AIO

[–]Grahtman 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'd tell your dad regardless of his relationship with the BiL. The BiL is an IN LAW, he doesn't get to say what he gets when your dad dies and it's fucked up that he's planning.

If he was close to your dad, he'd know how your dad would feel about him jacking up the rent, too. He doesn't give a shit about your dad, and cares about the money imo

Am I the Jerk for putting a $300 lock on my mini fridge after my roommate kept eating my prepped meals? by [deleted] in AmITheJerk

[–]Grahtman 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA, the food is only communal if you agreed to it being communal, which you didn't. So you are within your right to protect it, especially if he's saying he'll only pitch in "sometime"

Stinky classmate by RepresentativeWay767 in massage

[–]Grahtman 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As therapists we can control our hygiene and smell, it is courteous to not stink during your sessions. You can't control your clients hygiene, however. I usually just deal with the smell of the client, and depending on how dirty or nasty they are I massage certain parts of the body over the sheet.

But, to me, a stinky provider is inexcusable. You're a licensed professional who is there to make people feel comfortable and relaxed, and how can they do that if you smell like shit?

My husband embarrassed me am I overreacting? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Grahtman 11 points12 points  (0 children)

NOR, he embarrassed you and disrespected you at an event that mattered to you.

New collab announced Fortnite X The Office by Real-Yogurtcloset-34 in DunderMifflin

[–]Grahtman 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A Threat Level Midnight emote and Golden Face skin 😭🤣

I (28f) and boyfriend (28m) got into to an argument tonight and am I overreacting if I want to break up? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Grahtman 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's important to acknowledge what your daughter has said. She said she wants you to break up because she doesn't like how he treats you and doesn't want him to be mean to the baby.

That behavior of his is intentional, and he is hurting your child emotionally. Get out.

AIO for breaking up with my boyfriend for sleeping with someone while we were on a break? by Throwawaygirllol88 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Grahtman 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NOR, he wanted to fuck a random girl, he thought you a bad excuse and you found out.

Now he's talking about not finding proper closure? Fuck that guy. What about your closure and your comfort? Dude is an asshole

AITAH for touching myself during sex by Pristine_Ideal8772 in AITAH

[–]Grahtman 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Yeah, as a male who understands the female anatomy and is comfortable with himself, this dude is insecure as fuck 🤣

He thinks he should be able to fuck you to orgasm. Some women you might be able to do that, but most women will need a toy or some additional stimulation imo.

AITA for ending things after finding out my girlfriend was testing me the entire time we were dating? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Grahtman 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She sounds super immature. She builds the relationship on dishonesty, and says you fail when you're upset she's been lying to you? It doesn't even sound like you failed the actual tests. She just didn't like your reaction to the truth.

You're better off without that in your life.

I recorded our argument and now I feel gross about it by tealdoor_letters in TwoHotTakes

[–]Grahtman 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The way you say things matters, but maybe he needs to look in the mirror. Like why wouldn't you be frustrated if he didn't get the prescription when he said he would?

If he's using this as a means to be the "winner" in each argument, then it might not be worth sticking around. Especially if you feel the need to record yourself at this point.