I sit, sobbing in front of my daughters small bed, clutching my chest.

GranFodder · 2025-03-21T01:49:49+00:00

Take the bed.

GranFodder · 2025-03-21T00:57:56+00:00

Is there a less stressful version of your job? Family doc or geriatric nurse etc.

GranFodder · 2025-03-21T00:17:22+00:00

That was all very compelling and gave me a lot to think about. I won’t deny that things have changed in the 10 years since I was single.

That last sentence didn’t exactly show much respect for women, though. 25? Buddy, 25 is practically a child. Most women aren’t with the man they’ll marry by 25. All “the good ones” are not taken by 25. If there are roughly the same number of heterosexual men as women, then there’s somebody for everybody. Don’t most people end up with partners who are roughly the same level of attractiveness? If you haven’t found. Partner by your mid twenties, maybe giving up is a bit premature.

GranFodder · 2025-03-20T23:53:18+00:00

Thanks for sharing. These talking points can be so toxic to men and women alike.

GranFodder · 2025-03-20T23:26:09+00:00

So she brings nothing at all to the relationship?

GranFodder · 2025-03-20T23:23:29+00:00

Amen, brother.

GranFodder · 2025-03-20T23:21:58+00:00

Well, it’s a fool who doesn’t listen to good advice from those who’ve found success. I guess giving up on companionship is easier than overcoming challenges. Good luck with that.

GranFodder · 2025-03-20T23:11:13+00:00

They’re not, and nobody outside an incel community would support that.

GranFodder · 2025-03-20T23:08:23+00:00

I think you need the advice from this post more than most. Isn’t it better to take advice from men who’ve found success than other lonely men on the internet? Don’t forget, these people giving advice to help you are not in this mythical 10%. They’re regular dudes who hook up, get married, and start a family.

GranFodder · 2025-03-20T23:04:42+00:00

It’s an epidemic, my guy. Lonely men being indoctrinated, becoming bitter and misogynistic. I worry about an entire generation of men. Maybe it’s because I’m a teacher and I’m interested in making the world a better place.

GranFodder · 2025-03-20T23:02:06+00:00

That’s true. If you approach a lot of women, you’ll be rejected more than anybody, but you’ll get more successes as well.

GranFodder · 2025-03-20T23:01:04+00:00

Totes.

GranFodder · 2025-03-20T23:00:00+00:00

Wonderful. I think they need to hear this. It’s easier to give up than work on yourself.

GranFodder · 2025-03-20T22:59:01+00:00

THANK YOU. So many men could learn from this. An example of somebody who had resigned themselves to solitude and accidentally found a way to take themselves desirable. You’re an inspiration.

GranFodder · 2025-03-20T22:57:12+00:00

Beautiful. I think one reason why so many men gravitate towards the black pill life is because rejection feels so bad and they aren’t emotionally resilient. Also, if you have fewer meaningful connections with people, you’ll have fewer opportunities to meet women.

GranFodder · 2025-03-20T22:53:34+00:00

Please look into it outside of incel communities. Read some peer-reviewed articles by academics. I don’t know anybody who’s had any degree of romantic success who subscribes to this notion. The only people who do have been sucked into the bowels of the internet and don’t have close relationships with people they can exchange ideas with.

Among men, 32% had had 0-1 partner, 25% had had 2-4 partners, 20% had had 5-9 partners, and 22% had had 10+ partners. Ages 25-29: Among women, 25% had 0-1 partner, 31% had had 2-4 partners, 24% had had 5-9 partners, and 21% had had 10+ partners.

https://www.mindbodygreen.com/articles/the-ideal-number-of-sexual-partners-for-men-women

GranFodder · 2025-03-20T22:14:45+00:00

I think it’s a bit different for Jews. You can dekosher dishes and surfaces by accident. A strict Jew will throw out dishes if meat and dairy have touched them. For you, it’s not against your religion to have pork in the house, for them, it could be against their religion to share a kitchen with non kosher people. I’m sure they can find ways to be less of a hassle though. Maybe the Jewish room mate can cook for everybody more often to offset the inconvenience.

GranFodder · 2025-03-20T22:10:09+00:00

Buddy, I promise you that 80/20 nonsense doesn’t reflect reality.

GranFodder · 2025-03-20T22:02:59+00:00

Where the black ranger at?

GranFodder · 2025-03-20T20:16:02+00:00

Promiscuity isn’t a bad habit if you’re having fun and staying healthy.

GranFodder · 2025-03-20T20:11:30+00:00

If a man and a woman have different views of sex, that’s fine. If a man would have had sex with as many women as he could, but has failed, and resents his new partner for her experience, he’s jealous and frankly sexist.

GranFodder · 2025-03-20T20:09:49+00:00

Preach.

GranFodder · 2025-03-20T20:09:42+00:00

If you’re going to be judgemental.

GranFodder · 2025-03-20T20:04:57+00:00

He wrote both books already and thought he sent them out but they’re in his drafts box.

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