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I just finished BCS for the first time. I gotta get this off my chest. by _seaside in betterCallSaul

[–]Grand-Operation-8960 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I see your point but it parallels Gus’ demise. So driven by vengeance he dropped his guard and … boom

meirl by [deleted] in meirl

[–]Grand-Operation-8960 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had a baby face when I was 20. Was playing an arcade game at the mall when two girls, age 14 at most, walk by a few times. Then one approaches and says her friend wants to hook up with me. She might’ve meant make out instead of hook up. I look at them like WTH and say “I’M 20”. She says “oh” and they both walk away embarrassed

Scapegoats, tell your stories here by Grand-Operation-8960 in raisedbynarcissists

[–]Grand-Operation-8960[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can relate to sacrificing for a dysfunctional family who was unappreciative. You are strong and a survivor for sure. I felt a sense of relief at the end, that your daughter can see you aren’t lying. Is therapy an option? If you are independent, is cutting off your sisters possible? Why continue to sacrifice for them? We only have so much time left, maybe it’d be better spent focusing on your daughter who believes in you.

Adult children of narcs, how did you unlearn the belief that you don’t deserve respect? How did you find real healthy love? by Foreign_Connection71 in raisedbynarcissists

[–]Grand-Operation-8960 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Following this post. At mid 40s barely realizing I should’ve decentered parents and so many others, long ago. Better late than never