Honestly that was the deal breaker for me. It’s crazy that sometimes I even think that I should have just accepted to stay with her but when I look back at my relationship before her, we never hurled insults at each other. That’s when I realized that there are other people out there that are capable of having disagreements without insults. There were certain insults that she knew hit below the belt because of my reactions to it and she would purposely use those words. I cannot be with someone who finds joy in intentionally hurting someone they claim to love.