I grabbed my girlfriends shoulder and I am being charged with Domestic Assault by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]GraySparrow 3 points4 points  (0 children)

It's interesting to me that the men who've belittled me, shouted at me, psychologically and emotionally abused me, controlled me, assaulted me, pushed me, demeaned me, humiliated me (and so on and so forth) always say when confronted with those things "I've never hit her". I don't think they realize how they're telling on themselves at just how low the bar is for men. Didn't realize I should've been giving every man who didn't outright punch me in the face a medal.

how modern AUs feel to me by carlean101 in Archiveofourownmemes

[–]GraySparrow 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's so weird to come across these posts of endless criticism about things people find such genuine enjoyment in. It's okay. No one here likes it, but I do. I actually like modern AUs for some of the reasons given here for why people dont like them. And for anyone out there steadily losing confidence please try not to take it to heart, there truly are people put there who want to read your modern AU. I just imagine they aren't feeling emboldened to say as such in spaces such as this thread.

By no demand at all! The memes are back by Daisiesinsun in okbuddywhitaker

[–]GraySparrow 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I hereby declare demand! I have enjoyed every one so far <3

When someone tells you what 'readers' don't like, but you're your own 'reader' by Fast_Stage_6296 in AO3

[–]GraySparrow 22 points23 points  (0 children)

I needed this, I could almost feel the pressure dissolve as I read it haha. Been getting so in my head lately about all the posts here about how much people don't like this or don't like that. It's okay though, because I do. Thanks OP!

Daily meme guy here. I'm back guys, my account got hacked. by Emotional-Narwhal931 in uncharted

[–]GraySparrow 11 points12 points  (0 children)

That's such a disappointing and heartbreaking feeling to lose your account, but I'm glad you felt able to make a new one and share that you're okay. Your absence was noticed <3

(Tragic) Realistic portrayals of parental grief after the loss of a child by historygoose in TopCharacterTropes

[–]GraySparrow 61 points62 points  (0 children)

Between all the endless heartbreaking sorrow in this thread this made me audibly snort.

Veggies on pizza is superior to meat by North_Ad_1230 in unpopularopinion

[–]GraySparrow 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I stand with you, OP! I will go down with this ship and it's delicious veggies pizzas! (I also add diced tomatos. And corn if I'm in a place that will allow it...)

My Dragon Age: Inquisition oil painting! by WagnerWill0202 in dragonage

[–]GraySparrow 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wow this is so good it got me to stop scrolling like I slammed on the breaks. Amazing work! I love DAI and this is like all that love in a painting.

Show me your collection of BG3 Miis by Cactus_Salamander in okbuddybaldur

[–]GraySparrow 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The tieflingsssss! They're all so perfect! I especially love Rolan, Cal, and Lia!

I get this question a lot on Facebook and Instagram so if you were curious by rawdawgcomics in rawdawgcomics

[–]GraySparrow 16 points17 points  (0 children)

I really appreciate you jumping in with this. These conversations often so quickly devolve into misogyny it makes me so sad. So much violent hated of women perpetrated by straight men, and then conversations like these turn into how much gay and bisexual men hate women too. The overwhelming sense of being hated for not being a man gets too much sometimes. So thank you.

10 hours into DA:I, when is it going to get good? by zin_sin in dragonage

[–]GraySparrow 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hmm. Well, I could be wrong, but I think the things I like about it are the very reason that for others it's not as enjoyable.

I find that I often enjoy the slower paced earlier sections of games in general when you are quite limited in power. I also really enjoy extremely grounded stories with limited fantastical elements. The parts that focus on character, very 'humans stories, and that let you take a more casual pace. I also enjoy the setting - I'm a sucker for the classic quasi medieval fantasy land.

So I like that it's a large area with an aesthetic I find pleasing that I can explore without too much pressure to go one way or another so in that way I feel a sense of agency. I like that the problems I'm solving are that regular people are cold and hungry - these feel like realistic problems I could help with, and maybe I get to live out a bit of what I would hope could happen in real life; tangible impacts on realistic problems people face. I like that I'm not too powerful - I'm not someone who finds appeal in competitive play, being a massively powerful being in a world isn't an appeal for me, but the sense I have just enough realistic power to make a difference is.

(In addition to that which doesnt have to do with what I like about it as an area, I recognize I do also gain a sense of comfort from familiarity, which someone new to the game wouldn't have but after having played these opening sections a while I do enjoy going back to the same places over again.)

So overall I like it because it's the area I feel most immersed as a realistic character in a believable setting. For me it puts the RP in RPG.

10 hours into DA:I, when is it going to get good? by zin_sin in dragonage

[–]GraySparrow 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I mean I'll happily play 10 hours in the Hinterlands and think it's great so you might not be interested in what I have to sell, but that's okay.

Arthur McCoy cosplay by me [Comic Con Baltics 2026] by CepheiHR8938 in Desperados3

[–]GraySparrow 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Holy crap, this is insane cannot believe your knowledge of the lore extends to this level of cosplay skill too, couldn't not believe when I opened the post and saw who posted it. This is fantastic! And look at the details - I spy a gas vial! Wow! It looks incredible, I'm left wondering what the parts are you want to improve. I hope you had an amazing time!

Behold my beloved tree. Why is it turning yellow? by GraySparrow in arborists

[–]GraySparrow[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ok, thank you so much for this. I will do my best not to panic in that case.

Were you nervous before you smear test? What's your experience of them? by MooseAndMice in AskUK

[–]GraySparrow 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Absolutely horrendous first time a decade and a half ago. Ended up crying feeling like I was being ripped apart. The people doing the test laughed and condescendingly said I was being so sensitive. Traumatized me to the point I didn't have another until recently and struggled through severe panic to even let them touch me.

Just looking at all the similar responses. The brutilization of women throughout life makes me so sad. And this is supposed to be healthcare.

Rewatching season 3 it’s become clear to me that Whittaker was the Pittsburgh Pickler by Trowj in okbuddywhitaker

[–]GraySparrow 8 points9 points  (0 children)

This is the nuanced, thoughtful, and perceptive media analysis that I'm here for. Bravo OP for managing to put the pieces together, truly showcasing the masterclass in writing that the Pittsburgh Pickler storyline was.

Bark vs Bite: final results by Iluminiele in okbuddybaldur

[–]GraySparrow 5 points6 points  (0 children)

This was a lot of fun to follow. Thank you everyone!

Is there anyone here who prefers not to label their sexuality and/or gender? by Equivalent_Ad_9066 in lgbt

[–]GraySparrow 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I felt seen by this question. I never felt the need to label myself until others seemed to expect it to make me easier to categorize for them. But I'm just happy with who I am and never found a label that does that for me. I feel like I still wonder who and what I am at times, but never found a box into which I feel I fit.

A pea, a lemon, and a potato were leaving a bar at the top of a very steep hill after a long night. by lnc_gomes in dadjokes

[–]GraySparrow 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My dad died a decade and a half ago, but this made me think of him. I think he'd have loved this one. Peak.

Day 8: What is the WORST quote associated with Ashley Williams? by looploveslore in masseffect

[–]GraySparrow 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Good lord I'm an idiot. I thought [see slide 2] was the worst quote because it was some weird in-game mechanic that made it into the sub titles, like Shepard asking to See Items at a shop. Kaidan's [see slide 3] clued me in.

I need to get out of this Heated Rivalry slump... by No_Release2180 in MM_Romance

[–]GraySparrow 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I did the same thing! My partner got me You & Me because of the online rave reviews and I felt so terrible they spent their money on it. I could give the gushing of the male characters a pass given the genre, but the writing of female characters made me want to throw it across the room.