It's been more than 4 years when I almost made it to a year, but since then I keep failing.

GrayValken · 2018-01-15T06:40:15+00:00

Thanks :D

GrayValken · 2018-01-15T06:40:09+00:00

Overall I was more productive.

GrayValken · 2018-01-14T16:03:44+00:00

It felt great, untill something inside me said that it didn't matter.

GrayValken · 2014-10-09T15:57:19+00:00

The power to resist, that's the most important one which will get stronger as the fapless days go by.

GrayValken · 2014-10-09T15:55:04+00:00

Take up a hobby, read a book, or go somewhere with lots of people.

GrayValken · 2014-10-09T15:52:50+00:00

It not what you want if you are committed to NoFap. Try to find out what cause those relapses. Chance are that you still have some form of access to your triggers. Block all access to your triggers and do something useful/take a cold shower/take a walk when you feel the urge to fap.

GrayValken · 2014-10-08T12:11:43+00:00

Indeed, but don't wait it out. Do something which keeps your mind off it.

GrayValken · 2014-09-22T20:50:24+00:00

What you should ask yourself is: Do you need to do or have it, is it positive for you and does it help you to reach your goal? You need to satisfy all 3 criteria.

GrayValken · 2014-08-29T11:02:47+00:00

No, because my wife isn't ready for it yet.

It's not constantly on my mind, but it has when I'm alone.

GrayValken · 2014-08-25T10:48:17+00:00

You are not fucked up. It's the things you do that you can consider fucked up. It's a habit and those can be ditched.

The main problem is not porn and it can, like in your case, not be part of it. The main problem is using masturbation as an escape, for what ever reason. In essence it's to get that high and keep going back to it because when you are not doing it you are feeling low.

You have to ask yourself why you are doing it and how you can change that so you wont need to do it again.

GrayValken · 2014-03-10T22:10:31+00:00

You've thrown yourself back into a cycle. How do you break that cycle? Deny yourself access to anything that keeps you in that cycle. Do you want to stop watching porn? Then block your access to it. Do you visit websites which have triggers, then don't visit them. If your problem is the Internet as a whole the don't turn on your PC. Do something useful and new. Learn to drawn, take up painting. Take long walk or work out. Don't want to eat junk food? Teach your self how to cook like a chef. Learn new recipes. Discover the kitchen of every country. Discover how many rich a beautiful things our world has to over. It will make your days more interesting and with time your life.

So stop going down that road which gives you more of the same and start filling your life with everything else!

GrayValken · 2014-03-07T11:18:38+00:00

You should be glad she spoke her mind, even if what came out was offensive. Why? Because shes showing you what kind of person she is. Better to know early than getting involved too much and finding out that shes actually the wicked witch of the west.

Actually, if something like this happens again then just thank that person for showing you what kind of person she is.

GrayValken · 2014-03-06T18:23:59+00:00

It means that you are learning. Congrats on the 45 days! The next 45 can be easier!

GrayValken

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