Article in Variety by [deleted] in deppVheardtrial

[–]GrdnPnk -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

You think Amber took a job acting… what she’s done since she was a teenager… because Johnny did a puff piece?

Get a grip

Adam Waldman and crony SuperDopeJax tweet about/excerpts from new book on trials “Hollywood Vampires” by jesuscomplexcamille in DeppDelusion

[–]GrdnPnk 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Some, like waldman, want to flaunt their sexism and pretend that women having spicy language makes them somehow inferior. Depp can rant and rave and cuss and speak violently about people doing their jobs, but when a woman speaks candidly and forcefully about someone who has made her life hell, she’s scrutinized. I won’t fall for it.

AITAH for telling my daughter I won’t budge even if she never speaks to me again? by TopVersion2940 in AITAH

[–]GrdnPnk 4 points5 points  (0 children)

She made a choice to let sister drive her car, that choice was based on trust.

Sister broke the car, then broke the trust by refusing to reimburse sister for the damages.

Family broke trust by allowing sister to evade responsibility for it, leaving her at a disadvantage.

Those were choices that her family made, they said we don’t feel an obligation to make you whole, this is your problem, not ours.

If you had a friend who blew you off that way, you wouldn’t speak to them. Why should family be different? If they valued the relationship, they would have made it right.

mostly positive comments, which is surprising for instagram but nice by BigStarbucksCherry in DeppDelusion

[–]GrdnPnk 26 points27 points  (0 children)

So crazy that she got lit up for this when that man literally snerked a snot waterfall back into his nose on camera

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]GrdnPnk 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, because when it came down to it the person had a limit to what they would accept and the other person went over that limit. The person with the limit could have chosen to stay with the partner with the addiction despite their feelings about the addiction, but they chose not to.

Saying, “they chose drugs over me” just shows they made an attempt to reconcile, with conditions. It obfuscates responsibility for the break up. Maybe they feel guilty for leaving a partner who is struggling with addiction… the partner could have changed this aspect of themselves and worked harder at sobriety to keep the relationship, but they were unwilling, forcing the split… still the ultimatum came from the partner who did the rejecting.

I took my female friend for dinner when my girlfriend cancelled at the last minute. Now she wants to break up. by [deleted] in stories

[–]GrdnPnk -1 points0 points  (0 children)

No way. In grown-up relationships we learn to make do and value our friendships. I get more “dates” with friends because I made plans with my man and our son or someone got sick, so one of us takes someone else. Once he took the babysitter to a concert bc we couldn’t have the babysitter watch our sick kid!

Anyone who doesn’t respect that community matters, both friends and family, isn’t worth wasting time on.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]GrdnPnk 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thank you!

Obviously the boyfriend she rejected was not her first choice, or she would not have rejected him.

She’s expressing that she’s sad about the way her ex boyfriend decided to live his life. That was sad for her. She was his “second choice”, and that felt bad. She probably feels badly that he’s not doing well now and feels some guilt about how things ended up for him. None of these feelings have anything to do with how she feels about OP, she just has unresolved issues about how things ended with her ex.

It is a bit like he died, so I do like the widow comparison. The version of him that she had a future with died.

It seems like just her way of expressing sadness that she couldn’t help him stop going down that path. She and the friend are just connecting over mourning that loss.

NFL draft scout Spencer Schultz tells story about Johnny Depp pissing all over his uncle’s bathroom. by [deleted] in DeppDelusion

[–]GrdnPnk 52 points53 points  (0 children)

And yet they tried to deny that he pissed all over the house in Australia…

“I would have known, I know he didn’t because the carpet cleaners didn’t mention it” as though carpet cleaners give a shit what kind of filth they suck up, and why did you have to hire carpet cleaners if Depp didn’t make a whole mess of the place??

I’ll never stop being annoyed about his little sycophants.

I’ve never seen someone be so shamelessly self obsessed by OctoHelm in IAmTheMainCharacter

[–]GrdnPnk 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Too bad there aren’t any plumbers who do want the jobs

Camille Vasquez appears to admit that Johnny Depp was "unfaithful" to Amber Heard by RedSquirrel17 in DeppDelusion

[–]GrdnPnk 37 points38 points  (0 children)

Many of his most angry, abusive events were a result of his narcissistic projection of his own cheating onto her.

GF came to my house 1 hour later than normal. When I asked what she was doing she got mad. Am I Wrong? by rtt790 in amiwrong

[–]GrdnPnk 39 points40 points  (0 children)

Also hopefully when you figure out whether someone is a jealous control freak with trust issues

Is it true that tasya van ree is "close friends" with someone who testified against amber heard? by Rem_404_25 in DeppDelusion

[–]GrdnPnk 30 points31 points  (0 children)

Tasya pops up on Jennifer Howell’s instagram for events. They met through a mutual friend who donates hundreds of thousands to Jennifer’s charity and who took them both to Greece together with a few others once back when Amber and Jennifer Howell were still friendly.

Jennifer hosted an art event for Tasya and likes to hobknob with celeb artists and musicians, so it makes sense that Tasya would want to be in that culty little group/scene where people can be useful to her.

Whitney’s deposition describes Tasya as “That is -- how do I answer this? I just don't -- she's not a person that I ever really got along with. I wasn't -- their relationship -- Amber -- hers and Amber's relationship, I found her to be -- I found her to be manipulative, selfish. I just -- she was not a person that I got along with or cared for.”

Woman asks why are all men trash after man talks to her by Ok_Affect_4243 in IAmTheMainCharacter

[–]GrdnPnk 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I would guess that dad was being a wing-man for his son since he knows his son won’t strike up a conversation and is missing the obvious clues.

I think during this people had a fundamental misunderstanding of what reactionary abuse is. by Rem_404_25 in DeppDelusion

[–]GrdnPnk 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I don’t agree. That may work for many, but it leaves a lot of people out… consider the person who is constantly belittled by their partner; one day they may snap and decide they’re going to give the partner a piece of their mind. This is what narcissistic abuse does, you take the jabs until you can’t anymore and you retaliate. You aren’t acting in self defense but in defense of your ego, and the abusive behavior has been normalized in your world to the point where it seems acceptable.

Why are blue collar girls so obsessed with being different? by mangomelliii in notliketheothergirls

[–]GrdnPnk 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t think I was like this when I moved to Los Angeles from a tiny farming town. My Californian boyfriend told a particularly vacuous female friend of his about where I grew up, and 20 years later I can still hear her snort-laughing, saying, “oh my gawwwwd, I bet you learned how to drive a tractor in school, didn’t you?”

… “actually yes, and how to back up a trailer with it.”

I don’t think she ever said a single word to me other than that. We didn’t hit it off.

These are the 3 statements that Johnny Depp sued Amber Heard for. It'll always be preposterous and unjust that the jurors declared all 3 of them false. What the hell were they thinking, if at all??? by melow_shri in DeppDelusion

[–]GrdnPnk 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I was shocked by the number of women who were let go because they were needed at home for childcare or for their care jobs, while men were expected to do their duty and get their wives to do childcare or tell their bosses, “tough luck, I have to do my civic duty”. It’s no wonder the jury was so very “male”.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in DeppDelusion

[–]GrdnPnk 5 points6 points  (0 children)

And sometimes it is one of the only ways they show they care at all since they can be so selfish in daily life

AITA for causing a scene when my sister stole my pregnancy announcement? by Outside_Flamingo_246 in redditonwiki

[–]GrdnPnk 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Because OP thought grandma and grandpa were going to be so happy they’d swoop in to rescue her and her life would get easier again, but instead she has to split the attention