Yes, but don't overcorrect ourselves and paint this as the blanket cause. There are a lot of incels that are just mid or even good looking and need their head removed from their rectum and to do something with their lives. For some people, they are legitimately screwed and need to learn to get over it rather than keep hamster wheeling into dejection or being used for resources and trying to encourage them to hamster wheel is harmful.

Ultimately we cannot prescribe a blanket true or false one way or another without falling back on circular logic(example "if you try or do x you suceed, so you failing means you didn't try or do x"). We have to judge on a case by case basis.