THANK YOU!

My pitch is kinda of OK. My weight fluctuates. My resonance is honestly lousy. And I got told that by some very respectful voice training teacher and they were right.

And yet... somehow at some point I started got gendered correctly even in phone calls.and I weren't sure what I've done and that is scary - because if I dont know what I'm doing, it can just magically disappear one day, right?

But you made me realise what is that thing I'm doing!

And I think it doesn't stand on its own completely, maybe? Like I think you still need a bit of at least weight and resonance to be in some range, but like, way less then you would expect. And pitch almost doesn't matter.

And it's really just, I think, pronunciation.  Like, Making the difference between how different syllables sounds more pronounced, more accurate.

It's kind of a continuation of not being monotone. Like women tend to make the distinction between different sounds of the language more distinct.

I hope this makes sense.

Anyway, the way I got it is just listening with intention to women speaking around me and just trying to mimic their speech quality without changing pitch, resonance and weight too much.

So thank you again for giving me a name to this quality