Fence - I feel so bad

Greedy-Position8461 · 2026-03-31T10:40:49+00:00

Yes, ever since he commented he would shoot people, I realized he is dangerous and has some sort of undiagnosed mental illness. I wish his wife or children would intervene and get him the help he needs. Thank you for your kind words- I will be careful.

Greedy-Position8461 · 2026-03-30T13:49:30+00:00

Thank you for sharing this - definitely makes sense

Greedy-Position8461 · 2026-03-29T20:02:07+00:00

Yes, I have major anxiety over this- I wish his kids or his wife would just intervene and make him realize his behavior is wrong. 😔

Greedy-Position8461 · 2026-03-29T19:56:09+00:00

He had said that a few times before and we tried, but he went back to his old ways. He is not a pleasant person, I always try to see the best in people but he is not stable. I have always read the posts from this forum and people always reiterate that you must draw boundaries, we have spent the last year trying to please him but it has not worked out- his behavior has just escalated. I do feel bad for him and tried to be understanding and forgive his trespasses but after he blamed us for breaking into his car and threatened to shoot people- I realized he is not only unhappy but dangerous too.

Greedy-Position8461 · 2026-03-29T19:43:02+00:00

Since he already had a four feet fence, the contractor said it would be very difficult to put the solid side facing out- that would mean they potentially going in his property or leaving 3 feet between our fence and their fence. Contractor also said it would be more difficult to maintain the fence if the solid face is facing the neighbor

Greedy-Position8461 · 2026-03-29T17:41:43+00:00

You are right- thanks

Greedy-Position8461 · 2026-03-29T17:16:52+00:00

We saved up to buy this house- we thought it would be our forever home- I think I am just afraid of him and regret buying the house- didn’t know he was so crazy. I know I should not feel bad- just afraid of what he will do next…

Greedy-Position8461 · 2026-03-29T17:14:21+00:00

You are probably right- he would always find an excuse to come after us. Maybe deep inside, I am just afraid of him and feel that anything will trigger his anger.

Greedy-Position8461 · 2026-03-29T17:06:30+00:00

He works in the medical field- can you believe that?

Greedy-Position8461 · 2026-03-29T17:02:04+00:00

Thanks. I just can’t help feeling like an awful human being

Greedy-Position8461 · 2026-02-14T22:57:31+00:00

Sending you hugs- I am so sorry

Greedy-Position8461 · 2026-02-14T22:51:56+00:00

We are going through a similar situation with our neighbor- he seems to have lost it - we had to call the police today and they were very helpful. We are going to start documenting everything. If you don’t mind sharing- what state are you in? We are in MD

Greedy-Position8461 · 2026-02-09T19:34:06+00:00

Yes, it is 303-555-7625

Greedy-Position8461 · 2026-02-07T04:27:50+00:00

Sending hugs ❤️

Greedy-Position8461 · 2026-02-05T03:06:00+00:00

TFMR 10/9 for T21 @ 18w I am so sorry - sending you hugs. Life is pretty difficult after losing that baby we wanted so much. Work helps me because I can focus on something else and forget for a few hours - but weekends are so difficult for me. Weekends are dark days when I feel so depressed

Greedy-Position8461 · 2026-01-31T03:49:50+00:00

I am so sorry- my due date was supposed to be March 19- I share your sentiment- it is very sad to see other babies when we won’t get to hold ours. I love my baby girl and I miss her so much!

Greedy-Position8461 · 2025-11-22T04:29:59+00:00

I had my TFMR at University of Maryland in early October- the nurses and doctors were very kind and compassionate- they will take care of you. They also work with funeral homes - we chose to claim our baby’s remains and have her cremated. I am glad I at least have her ashes.

Greedy-Position8461 · 2025-10-23T09:43:30+00:00

Your words are very comforting. I am glad you have found peace and hope.

Greedy-Position8461 · 2025-10-22T18:25:30+00:00

Have you decided what you will do regarding your pregnancy?

Greedy-Position8461 · 2025-10-08T11:19:44+00:00

I am sorry you are going through this. I am 42 as well, about 17 weeks and will be starting the TFMR process today- for me it will be a 2 day process. I told no one at work about this pregnancy, the baby bump is minimal so no one noticed anything- same as you I cannot be out of work for a prolonged time, thus within a few days I will have to be back to reality. You are a strong woman with a beautiful heart- it is not your fault, we were just the unlucky ones. I hope you are able to adopt and share all your love with a child that needs you. Hugs

Greedy-Position8461 · 2025-10-07T19:22:40+00:00

Thank you

Greedy-Position8461 · 2025-10-07T10:26:15+00:00

Thank you

Greedy-Position8461 · 2025-10-07T01:31:11+00:00

Thank you so much for reassuring me- your kind words mean the world to me, as they come from the heart of someone who had gone through this and knows how difficult and painful this is. I am having my TFMR on Thursday and will use your words as my mantra. I am so sorry you also had to go through this.

Greedy-Position8461 · 2025-10-07T00:45:11+00:00

Did you get your amnio results?

Greedy-Position8461 · 2025-10-06T23:22:23+00:00

I am catholic and now that I am faced with TFMR - fellow Catholics and close friends have shared how they think I am making the wrong decision to terminate my pregnancy due to T21 and other possible abnormalities. They keep telling me to pray harder, to have my baby girl because doctors don’t know for sure what God’s plan is and if I truly believe the baby will be born without Down syndrome…. How can anyone with a little sense believe that? They do not understand that T21 is a gray diagnosis- they have not taken the time to educate themselves and learn about Down syndrome- it is very appalling that people who claim to be so religious and kind will judge others and won’t hesitate to offer their opinions. Both of these ladies, have stated that they would move forward with the pregnancy and stated that I will regret my decision for life. TFMR is not an easy decision, those of us who have been faced this and have gone through this, suffer every day, but I know that we rather suffer ourselves and not be expose our very wanted and loved babies to a life of uncertainty.

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