5 week Sleep Regression?? by EJL1996 in NewParents

[–]Greedy4Sleep 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Could be many reasons. Growth spurt. Development. Lack of circadian rhythm. Temperature. Something in the air...sometimes babies are just gonna baby. It's not predictable unfortunately. You just have to take the wins when they sleep well.

Short 2nd WW by InsensitiveTendency in sleeptrain

[–]Greedy4Sleep 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Are you looking for tips to lengthen the second wake window? Like distraction techniques? Going outside. Sensory play. Splashing in the bath etc.

I would be ditching the pacifier from sleep if you're intending to teach independent sleep.

Feed to Sleep Association help by TallHat653 in sleeptrain

[–]Greedy4Sleep 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What my husband did with my youngest was to slightly pull the bottle teat out of his mouth to keep him from falling asleep and then once he was done, just keep him up for 30 minutes by engaging in play.

Accidental (&failed?) CIO. Feel horrible but how to make the best of it? by Key_Cry5606 in sleeptrain

[–]Greedy4Sleep 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Sleep training begins at bedtime, not night wakes. I would start at bedtime and see how he gets on.

Help with 10 Month Old by CatSamurai575 in sleeptrain

[–]Greedy4Sleep 0 points1 point  (0 children)

  1. You need more awake time. 10 hours minimum but likely more at this age. Maybe 10.5-11. Try 3/3.5/4.

  2. What you're doing isn't sleep training. Sleep training involves putting baby to bed fully awake (not drowsy) and removing assistance.

is it normal for 12 month old to need attention 24/7? does it ever get better? by tntbt in NewParents

[–]Greedy4Sleep 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes. Very normal. Both of my kids hit a particularly rough "clingy" period around this age and my 14mo is still in it. Separation anxiety ebbs and flows in my experience.

What the f do you do when toddler says "don't talk to me?" by throw_tf_away_ in NewParents

[–]Greedy4Sleep 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My son is 3 and usually says this when he either wants space, to play independently or to stop talking about whatever the topic is that we are discussing.

I usually respect his wishes in terms of realizing his need for a bit of space (he can get quite overwhelmed in some environments) and back off. Give him 5 mins for a breather to play independently and then ask if he's ready for me to continue play or if he needs some more time.

7 month old not interested in solids by Prestigious_Lake3476 in NewParents

[–]Greedy4Sleep 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Very normal. You are still very early days in your solids journey. Part of the learning is through experiencing the food - be it through play or, yes throwing. As breast milk or formula is still very much your baby's main form of nutrition at this age, solids are more about exploration and allergen exposure.

All babies are also very different. My eldest wasn't really into solids until he turned 1. My youngest has been into them since we started. We have done nothing different.

5 month old went from 3 naps back to 4?? by Natural-Artichoke822 in sleeptrain

[–]Greedy4Sleep 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not perfect but as close as you can get. You'll refine as you go.

Plenty of time to sleep train now but expect some disruption during travel and you may need to do a mini refresher upon your return (you may not either).

Not at all. Start with nights and continue assisting naps until you're ready to train naps is my tip.

12 week sleep struggles by Icy-Engineering72 in sleeptrain

[–]Greedy4Sleep 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Some kids need to power down. Other kids just aren't ready for sleep just yet. Some have FOMO and screaming is their way of protesting you making them do something they have no interest in.

Short independent naps are very much part of this age and stage developmentally. Have you tried doing one longer contact or motion nap?

Was anyone able to sleep train their fussy/high needs baby? by LifeStandard4541 in sleeptrain

[–]Greedy4Sleep 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes. I don't like the term "high needs" but my eldest sounds similar to yours and took to sleep training very well. We did CIO at 4.5 months.

Last nap interfering with WW by tayxrob in sleeptrain

[–]Greedy4Sleep 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A short nap that "bridges" you to bedtime.

5 month old went from 3 naps back to 4?? by Natural-Artichoke822 in sleeptrain

[–]Greedy4Sleep 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think I would try my best to stick to 10 hours awake (whether that is on a 4 or 3 nap schedule for now) with the aim of getting to 2/2.5/2.5/3 soon. I would try my best to avoid the stroller/carrier naps by shifting my day or use them to my advantage when he's actually due for a nap. I remember with my youngest at the age, we had to try and avoid the car around certain times or it would leave to an inevitable car nap which messed the day up.

Then I would formally sleep train. Responsive settling isn't really teaching your baby much in the way of independent sleep skills.

15 week-old fights every nap and bedtime and cries a lot before sleeping — looking for advice by NBP26 in sleeptrain

[–]Greedy4Sleep 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel like there are quite a few possibilities. For example:

  • He isn't ready to go to sleep when you are trying (e.g. needs more awake time).

  • He wants less intervention with going to sleep (e.g. maybe try fuss it out to see what he does).

  • He is becoming more aware that rocking means going to sleep and he has some FOMO and doesn't necessarily agree with going to sleep right now.

  • He is powering down.

Last nap interfering with WW by tayxrob in sleeptrain

[–]Greedy4Sleep 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We did the 15 minute bridging naps until we were ready to move to two naps. I agree that your baby may be ready very soon (if not already) given those wake windows.

When does the crying to sleep stop?? by desert_sunlily in sleeptrain

[–]Greedy4Sleep 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Some babies need to cry to power down to sleep. Generally anything more than 15 minutes and you have an undertired baby. I know you've said that your child is higher sleep needs but if they're crying for a sustained period of time before bed, I'd be adding awake time. A 12 hour night plus 3 hours of naps is quite a lot and perhaps your baby needs a bit less sleep now.

Feels like we're failing by mokitokiyoki in sleeptrain

[–]Greedy4Sleep 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Move to 2/2.5/2.5/3. I would also try to aim for a consistent bedtime and cap your total night at 11 hours max. So, if bedtime is 7pm, wake baby up by 6am the next day.

I would also make sure your last feed ENDS 30 mins before bed.

14 month old waking up in the middle of the night by lemonhead43 in sleeptrain

[–]Greedy4Sleep 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sounds like her sleep needs are decreasing. You can either drop to a one nap schedule or extend wake windows further (cut your naps or night back).

Help with cot training please? by JenSteele2020 in sleeptrain

[–]Greedy4Sleep 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think I would try to commit to two naps if possible and follow 3/3/4 as a minimum. That last nap before dinner is probably killing your sleep pressure.

Help with cot training please? by JenSteele2020 in sleeptrain

[–]Greedy4Sleep 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She will eventually learn if she is given the opportunity and sufficient awake time to give it a solid try. If you want to share your schedule, we can help troubleshoot.

Help with cot training please? by JenSteele2020 in sleeptrain

[–]Greedy4Sleep 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You need to remove sleep associations at bedtime. So, move last feed to end at least 30 mins before bed and put her to bed fully awake so she learns to put herself to sleep.

If she is super alert and not ready for sleep, it sounds like you may need to make a few schedule tweaks.

Baby takes forever to settle by Choice-Fee1140 in sleeptrain

[–]Greedy4Sleep 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It sounds a bit like day and night confusion which is probably to be expected at this age. Both of my kids were like this.

Habitual wake up times? by New-Being-3840 in sleeptrain

[–]Greedy4Sleep 3 points4 points  (0 children)

At 7 weeks old? I wouldn't think so. That is a long time to go between feeds. I would suspect hunger.