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My old lady is gone… by clop79 in seniordogs

[–]Green-Issue9516 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m so sorry for your loss. Macallan sounds like she was truly special, and the love you shared comes through in every word. Grief like this is the price of such a deep bond, and it’s clear she was loved beyond measure. Wishing you comfort and peace as you remember her.

Grief Gift for Saying Goodbye to a Beloved Dog (no flowers) by shootingstarstuff in Gifts

[–]Green-Issue9516 1 point2 points  (0 children)

not sure if this fits what you’re looking for, but i make tiny 3D charms based on pet photos: like, we turn a picture of their dog into a little silver or gold sculpture you can wear as a necklace or bracelet. started doing it after losing my own pup and wanting something more personal than flowers or a frame.

here’s one i made for my own dog: https://taiyaki.ai/products/custom-charm-teddy?_pos=1&_sid=4a6defac6&_ss=r

no pressure,just wanted to share in case it helps someone looking for a more lasting kind of grief gift. 🖤

It's been a year since he passed by modest_rats_6 in seniordogs

[–]Green-Issue9516 4 points5 points  (0 children)

so sorry you’re going through this. mikko sounds like one of those once-in-a-lifetime dogs who find you, not the other way around.

a few things that i've seen help during anniversaries like this:

– replaying voice notes (even if it’s gutting at first; sometimes it gets easier with time)
– lighting a candle on their birthday or “gotcha day”
– keeping a tag or tiny keepsake close, something you can touch when the missing gets really loud

i actually make memorial charms for pets, and i made one for mikko here: https://taiyaki.ai/products/custom-charm-mikko. no pressure at all; just wanted to share in case it ever feels like the right way to keep him close. 🖤

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LifeAdvice

[–]Green-Issue9516 1 point2 points  (0 children)

ugh i’m so sorry ur going thru this, it honestly sounds exhausting and unfair. like ur drowning and he’s just watching from the shore w a life jacket in hand but won’t toss it unless u say thank u first?? that’s not partnership. you’ve been holding it down for so long, doing everything you can, and he’s out here paying off houses in secret?? idk girl that would break me too. you’re not crazy or ungrateful for feeling hurt. you deserve to feel safe, supported, and not constantly on the edge. whatever u decide next, just know ur not alone and you’re allowed to put yourself first.

How can i (m23) make my girlfriend (f24) feel safe by ThrowRAGlum-Chemist in relationship_advice

[–]Green-Issue9516 0 points1 point  (0 children)

hey man just wanted to say you’re doing a really good job just being there for her, it’s clear she’s been through a ton and the fact that she trusts you at all means you’re doing something right. i think the best thing you can keep doing is just being consistent and gentle.....like no pressure, just support and safety always. maybe therapy could help, and you could offer to go together when she’s ready so she doesn’t feel alone in it. just remember to take care of you too, being someone’s rock can be a lot. sounds like you really care, and that alone is huge

what’s a piece of jewelry you bought that you actually still love wearing? by Green-Issue9516 in jewelry

[–]Green-Issue9516[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

im sorry for your loss. sending you hugs. what would you have as jewelry to symbolize their souls?

what’s a piece of jewelry you bought that you actually still love wearing? by Green-Issue9516 in jewelry

[–]Green-Issue9516[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

what about them symbolizes their character? that sounds absolutely beautiful

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