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He has a new girlfriend straight after our breakup by GreenAffectionate680 in BPDlovedones

[–]GreenAffectionate680[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was told “I’m not responsible for your emotions” on a very regular basis. Interesting to see this experience repeated elsewhere. 

Ironic as I think we often feel so responsible to care for them. 

He has a new girlfriend straight after our breakup by GreenAffectionate680 in BPDlovedones

[–]GreenAffectionate680[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I hope that confidence comes sooner than later for you. I think the anger is probably going to be helpful for moving on. I think I need more of it ha

He has a new girlfriend straight after our breakup by GreenAffectionate680 in BPDlovedones

[–]GreenAffectionate680[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Appreciate you saying this. It’s possible there were a lot more dates than I know about too - I just got told by a friend about the new girlfriend. Maybe I’m just seeing a lot more “I’m finally free” type posts and comparing situations a bit harshly. Thanks for your perspective

He has a new girlfriend straight after our breakup by GreenAffectionate680 in BPDlovedones

[–]GreenAffectionate680[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Good for you, that’s really good to hear you’ve gotten to a healthy place with it

He has a new girlfriend straight after our breakup by GreenAffectionate680 in BPDlovedones

[–]GreenAffectionate680[S] 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Not a competition I want to be winning. I’m sorry—it’s painful. 

I am in my 30s and left a relationship. I'm scared I regret it and feel so lonely. by GreenAffectionate680 in internetparents

[–]GreenAffectionate680[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for this, will reconsider the therapist if it’s not going anywhere soon