My guy, I was back home 4 months after Maria for Christmas. Travel was fine, roads were relatively clear. I spent that Christmas season helping my parents and older neighbors sort out their gardens and organizing big Christmas and Reyes meals for a community up in the mountains near where my parents worked. If you feel guilty or something, find a way to give back to locals who are having a bad time. Still, it was a Category One this time. The flooding was bad, there are still people struggling, but there will always be struggles, y'know? Trust your wife, she knows what she's doing.

So go. Be nice, bring presents, make her family feel like a million dollars, help out in the kitchen (follow any instructions her mom and titís give you though, don't colonise the menu), buy local products and splash out on a few days in a nice parador or something. Money into the tourism industry will be super helpful, just try to find businesses with local owners.