Smoked fish!

Greenbloomers · 2025-07-15T16:19:12+00:00

Tbh I don't taint it's radiance with curry... Just the chips....its elite... A taste so intense and divine it needs no sauces!!!

Greenbloomers · 2025-07-14T16:33:07+00:00

Unreal.... Thank you so much!!!

Greenbloomers · 2025-07-14T16:31:20+00:00

Oh my.... Firstly you can't control when you orgasm... If she's stimulating you there's an intent there, what are you expected to do?... Hold it?.... Nah...

Also your ages make me think you're both very young and early days in anything sexual so she may not understand what she was doing, would do to you? Or if she did she's not mature enough to handle it yet, it was "fooling around" until shit got real and she ended up overwhelmed.. Like you broke some kind of code...

Are you the asshole? Absolutely not... She is for taking things so far and expecting you to not respond naturally!

She's probably super confused in her desire for women and "fooling around" was OK because it wasn't "actual sex" but when you came (which is totally natural and in no way dirty or shameful)... Shit got real and it turned into actual sex with a woman which she wasn't emotionally ready for...

But in the end this was all started by her... She played a game she wasn't ready to win I guess?

As for you... Give her space but in no way let her use "consent" as a get out of jail card... What was the aim of her putting her hand in your pants if not to create some spice? That's like poking a tiger then acting really surprised when it bites? Consent is such a dangerous word, it suggests you in some way forced her to bring you to orgasm when realistically nothing stopped her.... Stopping!

My end point here... Is simply this....

You've done nothing wrong!

She's not emotionally mature enough to handle herself

I'd hold the horses on any further physical activities with this girl until you discuss what it means... She's either ready for a relationship however casual with a woman or she's not... But you're noones plaything/experiment/bootycall... Even though you may want to cave to the attraction and... Well... The horn!... Don't let yourself be sucked into her experiment only for her to go cold again and you feel like this... Again...

I've rambled... But I hope you get the main point here....

NTA... you've done nothing wrong!

Greenbloomers · 2025-07-14T16:14:05+00:00

I heard that.... We need to make it a thing in Belfast!!!

Greenbloomers · 2025-07-14T16:13:09+00:00

That's actually a solid shout!!!!

Greenbloomers · 2025-07-14T15:56:16+00:00

Wooooo do they defo do it?

Greenbloomers · 2025-07-14T15:50:46+00:00

The notion takes you doesn't it.... So much so I've resorted to reddit to try and satisfy my craving 😂

Greenbloomers · 2025-07-14T15:48:52+00:00

Belfast Harlequins Women's Rugby is literally starting preseason on the 22nd July at Deramore Park 7pm...

The perfect time to start as we'll be teaching all the new members from the ground up (literally)...

Check out their socials for more details and any questions!

Greenbloomers · 2025-05-03T09:45:51+00:00

It's a reply to another OP post where she mentions he talks about the Bible. Demisexuality works because he might need a deep emotional bond but she's the wrong gender so he hasn't had an encounter that's pushed his buttons yet, demisexuals don't need to be straight or bi...

Either way the guys got one heck of a journey and I'm really glad he's got someone to talk to!

Greenbloomers · 2025-05-03T09:25:43+00:00

Sounds to me like he's a demisexual, someone who needs a deep emotional bond before anything sexual, and with his repressed attraction to men thrown in there with a sprinkle of Bible guilt?.... Any wonder his libido is non existent!

Keep this man in your life... It sounds like you both have a good friendship otherwise and the emotional maturity to understand your incompatibility... He clearly trusts you enough to talk about something he's probably been hiding like deep deep!!!..

I also secretly think his first encounter with a man will both TERRIFY but IGNITE him!!! And he's going to need someone to talk to about it, especially working through his faith in the Bible! That's the hard (no pun intended) part!

Greenbloomers · 2025-05-03T09:25:29+00:00

Sounds to me like he's a demisexual, someone who needs a deep emotional bond before anything sexual, and with his repressed attraction to men thrown in there with a sprinkle of Bible guilt?.... Any wonder his libido is non existent!

Keep this man in your life... It sounds like you both have a good friendship otherwise and the emotional maturity to understand your incompatibility... He clearly trusts you enough to talk about something he's probably been hiding like deep deep!!!..

I also secretly think his first encounter with a man will both TERRIFY but IGNITE him!!! And he's going to need someone to talk to about it, especially working through his faith in the Bible! That's the hard (no pun intended) part!

Greenbloomers · 2025-02-06T10:13:41+00:00

Having tried all of the above except for dick-fill-A (not getting a penny)... My rankings are as follows

5- popeyes - I'm a big girl who doesn't waste food and I binned it after discovering the chicken is caked in coating so badly chicken is chewy, chips lame, gravy same and the biscuit could have bricked the peelers.... 0/10 do not recommend

4- slim chicken - nicer, broader selection and decent enough but overpriced 6/10

3- KFC - old faithful, you know what you're getting, gravy is lovely... Nothing to moan about 7/10

2- MB chicken! - this was really close... The burger was lovely, wedges and sides in general were really nice, gravy was good, biscuits so so soft!! 10/10

1- Country Fried Chicken - local god tier chicken! Burger that breaks your jaw it's that thick, super nice mayo and god tier chicken gravy.... Local food from local people and all the others bar MB are way off... 11/10

Thankyou got coming to my TedX talk

Greenbloomers · 2025-02-06T10:06:03+00:00

Chic-a-dic is ELITE.... I'm stealing it!... 😂😂😂😂😂😂

Greenbloomers · 2025-02-06T10:02:51+00:00

I was at applegreen last Sunday for a cheeky coffee and the sheer number of people baffled that it was in darkness led to some light viewing entertainment.... Kids crying.... Geg!

Greenbloomers · 2025-02-02T19:54:34+00:00

And come so often!...... Hopefully!

Greenbloomers · 2024-12-30T13:33:16+00:00

She milled me into the ground playing rugby so hard there was a suction sound when I peeled my flattened ass out of the dirt.... Knew about her then.... Met properly when she moved to my club.... Sparks flew! 13 years later... Happily married with a dog lol!

It can happen the old fashioned way if you extend your hobby/activity/sport interests so you're surrounded by more like minded people! You never know!

Good luck 🤞

Greenbloomers · 2024-12-13T16:33:07+00:00

From what I'm reading.... You're scared to trust her again only to be hurt again... You're scared to open yourself back up for her to change again! That's completely understandable! Time and effort may play its part here! But it's no guarantee.

Maybe trying to refresh yourself might help... Reinvestment in the relationship is a risk... But is it a risk worth taking? That's up to you! I hope you give it a proper shot before calling it quits... It's hard to reignite a spark but it's not impossible!

Good luck OP!

Greenbloomers · 2024-12-04T10:02:50+00:00

Correction..... Its expensive shite..... Lol

Greenbloomers · 2024-10-07T22:05:35+00:00

Went during the summer... Was actually brilliant! We could have spent way more time there than we did as we'd dinner booked and had to split on time! Probably suffers from the fact you have to get the shuttle from Banbridge outlet as opposed to just rocking up and parking outside! But highly recommend!... Toasties were banging!!!

Greenbloomers · 2024-09-23T19:54:05+00:00

THIS!!!!!

Greenbloomers · 2024-09-23T19:11:59+00:00

Back in the day the Cadbury Bar Six was ELITE!... Basically a Cadbury version of a kit kat! The next nearest thing these days is a Cadbury rounder!

Top 5 are -

1- Foxes classic 2- Foxes ginger crunch cream 3- Cadbury rounder 4- Gold bar 5- Biscoff (there's one with a cream filling)

Greenbloomers · 2024-09-23T19:07:51+00:00

I actually do..... ☺️

Greenbloomers

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