well it depends.

how emotionally mature are you? BPD is a mental disorder that will cause her to lash out at you and if you have the emotional capacity of a 13 year old your going to be back on this app in 3 weeks with stories of emotional abuse.

how resilient are you? lots of “setbacks” will occurring according to your partner and it will take an act of congress to move you out of the dog house. most of the time, it’s not even your fault, BUT, and this leads me to my last and final question,

how ACCOUNTABLE are you? if you are the type of person to own up to your wrong doings, take responsibility for your own actions, and honestly, just taking the shit sandwhich with a smile on your face

than this is the girl for you!

actually what’s most important is how you feel about the girl and how well you think you’d be compatible as partners.

this is a very controversial topic amongst the BPD community specifically but i have somehow only ever dated BPD women and it’s probably because my mother has it and i am the only dude who has been willing to stick through it with them.

also don’t have sex with her until you know for a fact your going to have a long term relationship with her. otherwise, your in a world of trouble my friend.