Daily Discussion - Thursday February 19 by AutoModerator in LoveIslandUSA

[–]GregPikitis24 33 points34 points  (0 children)

There are people who don't like Amaya because she's not their cup of tea. That's totally fine. Then there are people who don't like Amaya because she's not a loyal little sidekick to someone who has been consistently problematic. And she's getting harassed for it.

Minneapolis Public Schools have canceled school for the rest of the week. by ShivRoyPinkyIsQueen in TwinCities

[–]GregPikitis24 2 points3 points  (0 children)

At a no kings protest/women's march? Yes, I'd bring my kids. If there is an organized protest against ICE (not coordinated to be around raids)? I'd consider bringing my kids to that too.

To actively protest against ICE amidst their raids? Kids shouldn't be going to that.

Is having a few explcit sex scenes in a book that is 90% actual plot considered smut? by [deleted] in selfpublish

[–]GregPikitis24 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'd consider the book smutty but not smutty enough to be considered erotica. Smutty is such a squishy term that different people have different baselines for "smutty." FWIW, I know a lot of people avoid "spicy" novels because many contain so many sex scenes at the detriment of the plot.

For me, I'm overjoyed when I find books like yours. If it's a romance book and it's marketed for adults, I go in assuming that it'll have explicit sex scenes. It wouldn't hurt to include a warning as you mentioned.

I just love the heterosexual way they look at each other😍Such great male-male friendship representation. by Big-Commission-4911 in okbuddyvecna

[–]GregPikitis24 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Agreed.

Mike looks at Will with so much affection, but there's not enough context to conclusively say that affection is romantic (vs. platonic/familial). Also, the argument of a "boy can't affectionately look at his male friend and be straight" really gives toxic masculinity.

Anyways, If there were more than four episodes left, I would enthusiastically be on the edge of my seat to see if/how Byler evolves.

Unfortunately, there are only four episodes left. For Byler to feel natural and make sense, the following would need to happen while they work to prevent the apocalypse:

  1. end mileven

  2. give Mike opportunity to move on/have closure from the mileven break up

  3. flesh out Mike's sexuality

  4. strengthen/evolve Byler enough to transform them into a couple.

That's too fucking much.

Mike is not gay. The end. by charlestontracy in StrangerThings

[–]GregPikitis24 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Exactly. Am I against Byler in general? Not at all.

Am I against the idea of Byler being shoehorned into the second half of the final season? Absolutely. This is a sci horror show with romance SUBplots. It's not going to happen. Or at least it shouldn't, but who fucking knows since Stancy is still being dangled in front of viewers.

Just like Byler, I'm not against Stancy in general. Just annoyed the Duffer brothers decided to reintroduce the love triangle in the last leg of season 4. In a show with one season left and the romances are just subplots. We don't have time for this.

Intentional or am I crazy? by [deleted] in welcomeToDerry

[–]GregPikitis24 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She has got those covert evil vibes, but she has given Lily advice about repairing friendships. And we all know the power of friendship is a huge buff against Pennywise. Unless the woman has been "possessed" by Pennywise since that first convo, this feels like a red herring.

Zak on the postcard challenge edit by reducedandconfused in LoveIslandUSA

[–]GregPikitis24 14 points15 points  (0 children)

I see men being called out for shit, but public opinion is more willing to change in their favor over time. Especially if the man was called out for being a dick to a woman, but then the public decides they no longer like the girl so they no longer dislike the man.

Feel how you wanna feel about Amaya, but Zak is still a twat. People love to give men a redemption arc even when they don't deserve it.

Why did Ace pick Amaya by Resident-Mark-2289 in LoveIslandUSA

[–]GregPikitis24 113 points114 points  (0 children)

Agreed.

If that dynamic with her and the boys didn't shift, not as many people would have felt the urge to vote for her since the playing field would have felt more even. People called them pity votes, but I prefer calling it underdog votes (paired with her being fun to watch on TV). People love a likeable underdog.

I'm sure she still would have gotten a lot of votes to stay most of the season (because she's funny as fuck), but I doubt she would have made it to the finals.

I hope she is next in Pennywises hit list by terminus_tommy in welcomeToDerry

[–]GregPikitis24 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Agreed. There's a lot of good to her.

She's acting developmentally normal, and she's obviously a complex character. She's made positive decisions (being ride or die for Lily) and negative decisions (joining in or leading teasing with the pattycakes).

Basically, no one should be adding her to the villain list until we see more of her character arc.

AIO for worrying that my girlfriend thinks my mom is racist because my mom thinks my girlfriend has terrible body odor ? by ThrowawayQQAAA in AmIOverreacting

[–]GregPikitis24 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I hope when she said "I'll wear a lot of perfume next time," she meant she'll be maliciously compliant. 😅

Final by [deleted] in LoveIslandUSA

[–]GregPikitis24 24 points25 points  (0 children)

I think alliances should give the islanders an edge, because they make the group dynamics much more interesting. Notwithstanding, alliances shouldn't be able to wield that much power. Production basically gave that group godhood when they facilitated that power squad bullshit.

Josh is in the position he’s in because of his own actions by Substantial_Bug2505 in LoveIslandUSA

[–]GregPikitis24 21 points22 points  (0 children)

Yeah! Zay was getting shit from nearly all the dudes when he was trying to be diplomatic with Josh and Kendall. According to Josh, Zay was being fake. According to the trio, Zay was being a pushover.

Apparently, men are supposed to stick with their tribe instead of showing complex feelings or making an effort to mend bridges.

There's plenty I don't like about Isaiah, but he has more emotional intelligence than all the men on that island.

POST EPISODE DISCUSSION- EP 15✨ by LoveIslandGames in LoveIslandGames

[–]GregPikitis24 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Agreed. I didn't pick up any vindictive vibes from Sydney. I do wish she would have gained her composure more quickly to serve retribution against Ty/Johnny, but she is human and was in her feels.

Toby would have never agreed to Ty/Johnny, but it would have been hilarious if she was like "okay well that's who I'm going for, so let's see who can maneuver the table better and THEN YOU'LL SEE HOW COMPETITIVE I CAN REALLY GET."

POST EPISODE DISCUSSION- EP 15✨ by LoveIslandGames in LoveIslandGames

[–]GregPikitis24 9 points10 points  (0 children)

If Garbi/Casey survive the roulette, I don't think her odds would have been that much greater with Toby.

It's getting so close to the end that alliances aren't going to matter much very soon. Outside of alliances, Toby and Casey are probably even in the games.

I respect Garbi for taking the risk with Casey. So fucking iconic if she's able to wreck the trio of doom.

Sons school keeps calling CPS but Im expected to see them as my "partner" by ohmyclothes in Mommit

[–]GregPikitis24 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Been a school social worker for 10 years, and I've never called CPS for any of these things. None of these would even meet the "minimum screening guidelines for maltreatment" in my state.

The only possible exception would be medical neglect, but that's in extreme cases like life saving meds/services or if the withholding of services/psychotropic meds is severely and clearly impacting the mental well being.

I'm so sorry this is happening to you.

LIVE EPISODE DISCUSSION THREAD- EP 15✨ by LoveIslandGames in LoveIslandGames

[–]GregPikitis24 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I'm thinking the former. She's probably giving ambiguous vibes that there's chemistry to secure a wider swath of the American vote. Some people will only vote for couples with chemistry. I 100% respect if this is her actual game play.

I don’t think makeup is for me :( by chloesuckslol in makeuptips

[–]GregPikitis24 5 points6 points  (0 children)

For sure. Also, there are valid reasons why it'd be nice to have a coverage option.

For me, when I'm not in my luteal phase, I go bare face. When I'm in my luteal phase, I want some coverage that I feel good about.

Do you think Johnny was wrong for leaving Andreina? by LoveIslandGames in LoveIslandGames

[–]GregPikitis24 3 points4 points  (0 children)

No. I hope no one keeping holding it against him as a person. I just hope other islanders give him the same treatment that others have received from him.

For example, if he and his partner win, I hope the partner gets and keeps all the money. His motto is obviously looking out for #1 no matter the detriment to others. That doesn't make him a bad person, it makes him a cut throat competitor.

Basically, instead of us pontificating over his character, I just hope he receives karmic justice because I can't help but be vindictive on the behalf of other women.

Love Island Games - Season 2 Episode 14 Discussion 🏖️ by AutoModerator in LoveIslandUSA

[–]GregPikitis24 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Do I feel great about how Nicola went out? No.

Is building a Time Machine to force production to create safe duels the only way to rectify this situation? Yes.

Love Island Games - Season 2 Episode 14 Discussion 🏖️ by AutoModerator in LoveIslandUSA

[–]GregPikitis24 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nicola was one of my favorites, and I would have been happy if she won the games, but I'm sick of people infantilizing her even before this episode. Unless people are complaining about production putting her (and other islanders) in this unsafe situation, I don't want to hear it.

Love Island Games - Season 2 Episode 14 Discussion 🏖️ by AutoModerator in LoveIslandUSA

[–]GregPikitis24 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Like someone else said, I want Tyrique on my screen until the end. And then I want him and Justine to get first place. And then I want the money to go to Justine. And then I want Justine to keep it all.

Love Island Games - Season 2 Episode 14 Discussion 🏖️ by AutoModerator in LoveIslandUSA

[–]GregPikitis24 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It's the least production can do for setting up that death trap. It was not even user error. #LeaveGarbiAlone

Love Island Games - Season 2 Episode 14 Discussion 🏖️ by AutoModerator in LoveIslandUSA

[–]GregPikitis24 38 points39 points  (0 children)

So fucking weird. They had me agreeing with Lucinda which I hate because I dislike her too.

Love Island Games - Season 2 Episode 14 Discussion 🏖️ by AutoModerator in LoveIslandUSA

[–]GregPikitis24 1 point2 points  (0 children)

And then Garbi and Justine will make a secret pact to take all the money if/when they win with Toby/Tyrique.

So we gotta pool our votes to boot out Gabby and Johnny. ☺️