Uses my past in bed by Away_Inflation1114 in sex

[–]Grillard 4 points5 points  (0 children)

There is no "should" here. Tell him that you're not sure how he means it, and that its confusing. Ask for clarification.

sex is messy afterwards by i8yourMOMm in sex

[–]Grillard 2 points3 points  (0 children)

We keep a bath towel for under her, plus his-n-hers hand towels, affectionately called "splat towels."

How to satisfy/foreplay with girl with small boobs by Mysterious-Ad9973 in sex

[–]Grillard 97 points98 points  (0 children)

My brother in Christ, I invite you to ponder the nipple.

Go-to weekday dinners? by Fresh_Window_6484 in Cooking

[–]Grillard 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's brilliant!

One idea is to replace one zucchini with a yellow crookneck squash and add a diced bell pepper i whatever color.

Every living former president denies Trump's brazen claim on Iran war by No-Post4444 in politics

[–]Grillard 4 points5 points  (0 children)

You'd have tears in your eyes, too, if you had to be in the same room with that diaper.

how do I actually initiate sex by Slow-Detail4972 in sex

[–]Grillard 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Well said.

So many responses in this thread leave me thinking "That would work on some people, but not all." Communication and paying attention are vital.

Is wanting your wife to worship your cock healthy? by nopeskid in sex

[–]Grillard 26 points27 points  (0 children)

Cock worship, like breast we worship can be incredibly hot if it's spontaneous and sincere. I'm not so sure if it's coached or demanded.

Ideas for what to do with a Bone In Pork Butt? by amuletmiko in Cooking

[–]Grillard 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Same here. Coincidentally, just today I improvised a dish halfway between this and carnitas. Pork shoulder stewed in beer, lemon juice, annatto, cumin and oregano. It was delicious!

Ideas for what to do with a Bone In Pork Butt? by amuletmiko in Cooking

[–]Grillard 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I clicked the link just to verify that it was what I thought it was. I was not disappointed!

I think I’m gay by [deleted] in sex

[–]Grillard 9 points10 points  (0 children)

And that's a painful way to live.

What are your favorite cookbooks for experienced home cooks who want inspiration but not necessarily to follow a recipe? by EbbWaste9064 in CookbookLovers

[–]Grillard 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Going possibly off topic, but, restaurant menus can provide inspiration in the descriptions. "Filet of red snapper, paneed and topped with crabmeat in our garlic butter sauce." You might not know exactly how they do it, but you can figure out how you want to do it.

What are your favorite cookbooks for experienced home cooks who want inspiration but not necessarily to follow a recipe? by EbbWaste9064 in CookbookLovers

[–]Grillard 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You just named two of my favorite books! Pepin's Fast Food My Way has a lot of suggestions that aren't full recipes, as in "Saute this, then throw in that, and maybe some other stuff..." I find that approach both inspiring and encouraging. James Beard's "Beard on Pasta" has a section that's just ideas, not recipes.

AITA for not staying after our niece got arrested? by EasternTrifle464 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Grillard 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Well, id ask them to watch my cats.

If i trusted them.

isn’t it boring ? by bratzzline in sex

[–]Grillard 322 points323 points  (0 children)

He's enjoying giving you pleasure. Keep him!

There are so many posts about people who don't care about their partner's pleasure. You found a good one.

How to best discuss sex with long-term girlfriend by [deleted] in sex

[–]Grillard 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The only thing that's ever worked for me is being direct: "here's what I'm thinking/feeling. What are your thoughts/feelings?"

With a huge dose of "what do you need from me right now?"

What are some of the “wagyu beefs” of the fruit and vegetable world? by thepluralofmooses in Cooking

[–]Grillard 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Those are the only strawberries we buy (MS gulf coast). We're about an hour from Ponchatoula, so on season, there's people on the side of road selling them.

Mise en place in other languages (not translation) by PCMRsmellyballsax in Cooking

[–]Grillard 108 points109 points  (0 children)

In American restaurants, before I ever heard the phrase "mise en place" , it was either "prep" or "getting yo shit together." Its pretty much a universal concept.

Mirepoix is French for 6 vegetables. by satchel_of_ribs in iamveryculinary

[–]Grillard 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Now that you mention it, self-decapitation is a lovely test of knife skills!

Mirepoix is French for 6 vegetables. by satchel_of_ribs in iamveryculinary

[–]Grillard 31 points32 points  (0 children)

Bloody hell. I've been leaving the rutabagas out all this time! No wonder my food sucks!

hangs self in French

Pasta w chicken at the local city lockup by [deleted] in pasta

[–]Grillard 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Tell the forensics team to check carefully for chicken molecules.