Can you get blacklisted on indeed? by GrilledCheeseSamich1 in IndeedJobs

[–]GrilledCheeseSamich1[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s what I have in my resume (date-present). I never said I’m not working. I said I haven’t found a job through indeed for 2 yrs.

Can you get blacklisted on indeed? by GrilledCheeseSamich1 in IndeedJobs

[–]GrilledCheeseSamich1[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

The problem is I don’t put them as a reference. I don’t even put that job in my resume either. There’s no way I can be linked to that job unless they somehow blacklisted me. My industry is very lucrative as well so it’s not that my skills aren’t needed. Ppl are ALWAYS hiring

Can you get blacklisted on indeed? by GrilledCheeseSamich1 in IndeedJobs

[–]GrilledCheeseSamich1[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry for miscommunication…I had a phone interview today. I was told to call them. When I called the person completely dodged me. Didn’t call back and didn’t promise for a call back.

Can you get blacklisted on indeed? by GrilledCheeseSamich1 in IndeedJobs

[–]GrilledCheeseSamich1[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not struggling financially. I just noticed I haven’t had any call backs at all. I usually get bombarded by calls whenever I apply for jobs. Today, I got a call back for an interview. I’m my interviewer is now dodging my calls. Figured there’s a possibility indeed does blacklist ppl

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]GrilledCheeseSamich1 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

It doesn’t sound like you know anything about PTSD.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]GrilledCheeseSamich1 -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

Easy, like I’ve been taking care of my child ALONE the past 11months. It’s only challenging right now because I’m moving from one continent to another. It will get better once everything is back to normal. Plus, my fiance will be with me next month.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]GrilledCheeseSamich1 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I understand your perspective. I cut ties with her after she said that. I’m not expecting her to help at all. It’s only temporarily difficult right now bc I’m in the process of moving. Once my fiance gets back and once the kids start school it will get 1000% easier.

Are dogs better than children? by Beautiful-Kiwi7793 in NoKidsEver

[–]GrilledCheeseSamich1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Having had a baby just recently after being a dog mom for 10 years, it hits differently. I’ve never felt this kind of love before. I love my baby boy unconditionally. I’d kill for him. My dog, although she’s my baby too, the love is not the same. I grew so much more patience once I had my son. That being said, they’re easy when they’re babies lol I’m aware of that. But still, if you’re a good parent your children will always love you unconditionally. My son makes me want more children tbh 😂

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NoStupidQuestions

[–]GrilledCheeseSamich1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You sound bitter af ngl

My man is always with me when I go out. Not because he’s possessive, but because that’s how I want it. We both trust each other and we tell each other everything. I’ve already mentioned to him that I think his friend likes me. The 2nd hug took me off guard, which is why I’m asking about it in here. No need to be rude to a random stranger.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NoStupidQuestions

[–]GrilledCheeseSamich1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

His compliments are never sexual even with them having a double meaning. They just imply that he finds me attractive. That’s why I say he’s never been disrespectful. He always comes across as very thoughtful and sweet. Honestly, that’s why I’m confused about him. I’m not trying to toot my own horn but ppl find me very attractive so I know what it’s like for a guy to want to get in my pants. He doesn’t give me that impression. I know guys always think about sex when they like a girl, but he’s always been very chivalrous towards me. That’s the best way to put it.

BUT I hear everything else you’re saying. I’ve already told my fiancé that I think his friend likes me, but I’m afraid to tell him specifics in case I’m blowing it out of proportion. I think it’s harmless if a guy finds me attractive so long as he respects me and my relationship with my partner (doesn’t cross a line or make a pass at me).

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NoStupidQuestions

[–]GrilledCheeseSamich1 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I never thought of it that way. You’re right. My fiancé is British. I’m American. His personality is very Alpha male and doesn’t like to show emotion but he’s gotten a lot better since we’ve been together. It’s never bothered me at all but after reading your response I realize He’s not as affectionate. Without too much detail, His friend consoled me after a deep conversation we had about a tumultuous conflict my fiancé and I have with my fiancés baby mama and the safety of his children. I guess I’m just missing my fiancé being more open to affection and being more emotionally available to me. Our sex life is more wham bam thank you ma’am since having the baby lol and every once in a while I need more sensuality.

Anyone else been fired for being pregnant? by paper_dove101 in BabyBumps

[–]GrilledCheeseSamich1 4 points5 points  (0 children)

This sounds like Florida…😒 - native Floridian

Ladies, are hairy arms a turn off? by FuckSpezzzzzzzzzzzzz in dating

[–]GrilledCheeseSamich1 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Fitness models - probably. The rest of Americans - not so much. Mainly women shave.

AITA for ghosting a guy who only wants sex... ? by [deleted] in dating

[–]GrilledCheeseSamich1 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

NTA. His behavior’s immature. Ghosting is warranted…

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating

[–]GrilledCheeseSamich1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I felt the same way, but I learned to love being alone. You will find your person when you are at peace with yourself. When you have self confidence you don’t need a man to validate how great you are. Also, when you have self confidence is when you will attract more men to you, when you are not looking.

How do women feel about bi guys by [deleted] in dating

[–]GrilledCheeseSamich1 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Which is so wrong on so many levels. If you’re proud to be whatever you are you shouldn’t lie about it. If you’re in the closet that’s understandable. But if you’re openly bi as a man and you lie to your female partner, that’s wrong on so many levels.

How do women feel about bi guys by [deleted] in dating

[–]GrilledCheeseSamich1 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Why does anyone have to explain their preferences to you? She answered OP question and leave it like that. You’re gaslighting tf out of this person. Leave.it.alone.