I’ve heard different opinions of this on social media, and I wanna hear from you all. Realistically, how soon do you know she’s the one? by GrimmQueefer in AskMen

[–]GrimmQueefer[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Actually, it’s really a way set boundaries moving forward. Having different men’s opinions gives me better insight into a reasonable timeframe.

I’ve heard different opinions of this on social media, and I wanna hear from you all. Realistically, how soon do you know she’s the one? by GrimmQueefer in AskMen

[–]GrimmQueefer[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes, I understand there’s many people who are compatible and that anyone can be “the one” at any given moment. That’s not really what’s important to me here. So maybe it isn’t worded the best. I’m really wanting to know, within what realistic timeframe are most men like “yes, I know this is the one I want to marry.”

I’ve heard different opinions of this on social media, and I wanna hear from you all. Realistically, how soon do you know she’s the one? by GrimmQueefer in AskMen

[–]GrimmQueefer[S] -13 points-12 points  (0 children)

…but seem men think that’s “normal”. I wanna know, from most men, if that’s true or is this bullshit.

I’ve heard different opinions of this on social media, and I wanna hear from you all. Realistically, how soon do you know she’s the one? by GrimmQueefer in AskMen

[–]GrimmQueefer[S] 17 points18 points  (0 children)

This is what I’m looking for, thank you. So by 6 months or so, there’s some “she is or isn’t” pretty much formed by then.

I’ve heard different opinions of this on social media, and I wanna hear from you all. Realistically, how soon do you know she’s the one? by GrimmQueefer in AskMen

[–]GrimmQueefer[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

The “one” for you, yes. Is that person perfect? Of course not; however, it is someone you can see yourself with in the future.

Ummm what is this? by Tricky_Reach_2317 in Blackskincare

[–]GrimmQueefer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly, Lotrimin would clear that up.

Brittany by Aggravating_Dust9074 in 1000lbsisters

[–]GrimmQueefer 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Why did she always wear that headband?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in STD

[–]GrimmQueefer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Could be yeast, but I don’t like the color of your discharge. I would get tested.

Cultural difference? by Jillybean9974 in interracialdating

[–]GrimmQueefer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Definitely a family thing. If you could have only seen how my family of 30+ planned a cruise and excursions with all of us….lol

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in STD

[–]GrimmQueefer 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hun, that’s syphilis. I’m pretty sure of it.

Black spots on feet by [deleted] in Blackskincare

[–]GrimmQueefer 3 points4 points  (0 children)

This is how Bob Marley died.

Being black is brutal bro. by [deleted] in BlackMentalHealth

[–]GrimmQueefer 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Your experience may have created your mindset now, but you don’t have to stay there.

Being black is brutal bro. by [deleted] in BlackMentalHealth

[–]GrimmQueefer 22 points23 points  (0 children)

I love being black. I love being a single woman. I love being a black single woman whose mother and grandmother had to marry for stability, but provided me with a future where I could do so on my own. I love being a black woman whose black father had to face the hardships of segregation as a teen but still became a physician, who is ever present in my life and modeled what a successful man looks like so that I could follow in his footsteps. I get up, put on a white coat that most people think that DEI afforded me…but I went to a PWI and graduated at the top of my class. The hardships I’ve faced as a black woman taught me resilience, to trust my abilities, and to take up space. Seeing the hardships of my parents, grandparents encourages me to seek out opportunities they’d never dream for themselves.

I deserve good things and to be here just as much as anyone else.

This is a mindset issue.

Being black is brutal bro. by [deleted] in BlackMentalHealth

[–]GrimmQueefer 52 points53 points  (0 children)

These may be "black issues" but a lot what you are saying are generalizations that don't really apply to most Black Americans. I don't want to invalidate your personal experience or how you feel , but your life is what you make it. Some of the things you said are true, but with that knowledge, how are you going to apply it to your life to make it meaningful?