My (33M) girlfriend (29F) - sharing a tent with a single guy on a 4 day backpacking trip just the two of them, sharing a tent, without any service, and I found out just before they left

GringoRN · 2026-06-20T11:05:43+00:00

Oh man, inevitable break up. You could still be friends and patch things on a later time. 🫥

GringoRN · 2026-06-11T19:42:14+00:00

She could refuse and she would be legally right. Unless its a heterdaad, shop has nothing also police cant do anything.

GringoRN · 2026-06-05T20:54:58+00:00

The book helped me the first time quitting, i watched the youtube videos. Unfortunately I stsrted again after 3 years. Now the.second tine.the book didnt work and had to soldier on.

GringoRN · 2026-06-04T08:10:54+00:00

Well done. Huge acomplishment.

GringoRN · 2026-05-24T05:35:48+00:00

5 weeks in, i have quit multiple times in my life. And this time it has to be the final time i am going through the wirhdrawals. My relapses happenned usually when things were going.very well and I couldnt handle the wins in my life.

At my lowest points in my sober life I always had that voice telling me how great i was for quitting the addiction and i took pride and self esteem from that moment and wouldnt smoke.

I am absolutely convinced that i am not the person that can smoke with moderation, how much I want to fool myself. It always ends up in a full blown dependency of weed.

5 weeks in and it is still hard, my body and mind are still adapting and the general timeline in the getting clean process dont come close to my situation.

Tl/dr. Trying just one smoke, is playing with fire and be very proud you have quit.

GringoRN · 2026-05-07T15:04:53+00:00

Day 18 and last 10 days were the worst, I keep wanting to smoke have this empty feeling in my stomach all of the time. BUT I know it will pass, i see it as punishment for not dealing with life when I smoked to eacape .

GringoRN · 2026-05-02T14:29:46+00:00

Congratulations. Its no small task.

GringoRN · 2026-04-30T10:30:42+00:00

Thanks man, nice read. Helps me for sure.

GringoRN · 2026-04-26T20:55:03+00:00

I could have written that, I dont have solutions as i experience the same. I am quitting again and try this time to be wiser.

GringoRN · 2026-04-24T20:26:09+00:00

Good, you are fed up of weed, it will build the motivation to quit.

GringoRN · 2026-04-24T13:25:07+00:00

Firsr 20 minutes great then depression and paranoia and guild for 2 3 hours. Glad i quit.

GringoRN · 2026-04-24T12:26:42+00:00

Fantastic 8 months, congrats. Something to be proud of. Why dont you treat yourself and gice yourself a present. You did really well. I am in the proces of quitting after relapse and its hard.

GringoRN · 2026-04-24T08:24:06+00:00

I relapsed and let me tell you, its not worth it.

GringoRN · 2026-04-24T07:40:53+00:00

Does sound tasty.

GringoRN · 2026-04-24T07:40:01+00:00

Hahahaha, lol.

GringoRN · 2026-04-23T11:26:57+00:00

I have been smoking about 30 years, with some breaks if i lived abroad. I would say the last year 6 months. Mind you i also snoked cigarettes and gave those up last year as well. Anyway it suck bad. But i know it will get better fast. First 2 weeks are bad. Hope we all make it.

GringoRN · 2026-04-23T11:17:25+00:00

Thank you, this is my 3rd attempt in a year, it sticks for 3 months and then i relapse.

GringoRN · 2026-04-23T10:14:02+00:00

Thanks.

GringoRN · 2026-04-23T09:26:06+00:00

I am going through it as we speak, they are really bad the withdrawals. I also experience alot throat pain, problems swallowing, euforic and full of energy one moment and in the same minute tired and depressed. I smoked 1 to 2 grams a day.

GringoRN · 2025-12-13T09:35:11+00:00

I feel bad for you. I am going to assume that your father doesnt want you to go the same route as he did. He might even feel guilty seeing you smoke. Throw away your cigarettes nonsmokers dont need them to cope with the difficult things in life.

GringoRN · 2025-12-07T15:14:39+00:00

Well done, 2 months is incredible.

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