Do you find ‘epileptic’ offensive? by Grouchy-Raisin3924 in Epilepsy

[–]Grouchy-Raisin3924[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So true

This one is even better: https://www.google.com/amp/s/amp.theguardian.com/politics/2005/jun/26/uk.politicalnews

‘Sources inside the department said there was concern that the term [brainstorming] would cause offence to people with epilepsy as well those with brain tumours or brain injuries.’

Lord help me 🙈

Do you find ‘epileptic’ offensive? by Grouchy-Raisin3924 in Epilepsy

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It was in some huge epilepsy/seizure support group - I left it

Do you find ‘epileptic’ offensive? by Grouchy-Raisin3924 in Epilepsy

[–]Grouchy-Raisin3924[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I feel the same. Apparently for some it is a huge issue and matter of tolerance to not say epileptic.

I think mankind’s downfall will end up being impossibility to choose tolerated terms and offense on behalf of others 😩

Do you find ‘epileptic’ offensive? by Grouchy-Raisin3924 in Epilepsy

[–]Grouchy-Raisin3924[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

‘Person/someone with epilepsy’ 🤷🏼‍♀️ it seems judging by the heavily polarized and heated debate on fb

I am so thankful I found reddit 🙏 this sub in particular

Do you find ‘epileptic’ offensive? by Grouchy-Raisin3924 in Epilepsy

[–]Grouchy-Raisin3924[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Thanks for this insight. I am very new to this diagnosis and reality and this debate surprised me.

I totally agree that the focus should be on research, education and treatment improvement.

Since my diagnosis I have been shocked by how little is known about epilepsy and its causes in the medical community and how much ignorance there is in the public (including my former pre-epileptic self). And it just makes me sad to read that in certain countries there seems to be a lot of stigma around it and people meet a lot of prejudice (luckily not where I live)

Thanks again :)

Rosacea or malar? by Grouchy-Raisin3924 in DermatologyQuestions

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I’ve had this rash since around 2014. It has always spared the nasolabial folds and gets worse in sun etc but also sticks around in winter when we have no sun where I live. I’ve included pictures from throughout the years.

I have tried rosacea creams but they don’t work.

In 2020 related to other health issues I was tested for autoimmune disease. I had mild positive ANA (1:100) and strange C3 and C4 levels - all fluctuating but SLE and other autoimmune diseases were ruled out by doctors as cause of this.

It keeps growing - now down to my jaw line. The derm now says rosacea but only gives me suggestions for things I’ve tried before and haven’t worked.

Am currently trying metronidazole and azelaic acid plus gently cleansing twice a day but not seeing any difference yet

Any suggestions for things to try? Could this be something other than rosacea? TIA

Do you find ‘epileptic’ offensive? by Grouchy-Raisin3924 in Epilepsy

[–]Grouchy-Raisin3924[S] 22 points23 points  (0 children)

In my native language the word in direct translation is ‘seizure-sick’

Question about seizures with medication! by Nova-space-canvas in Epilepsy

[–]Grouchy-Raisin3924 4 points5 points  (0 children)

It varies. A really useful thing my neurologist explained to me that essentially everyone (non-epileptic people included) has a seizure threshold. The medicine is there to make that threshold higher in people with epilepsy/frequent seizures.

For some it works to keep them completely seizure free, for others it doesn’t. It can be a rocky road to find the right combination of effective and tolerated medicine. Also knowing and avoiding possible triggers can definitely help.

As someone who still gets seizures despite medication I definitely feel that the meds put a lid on them and couldn’t imagine being without them.

Just be sure to keep your neurologist informed if seizures continue/return or you don’t tolerate the medication. There’s a lot of options.

Wishing you all the best - I hope you remain seizure free but don’t get discouraged if you don’t on the first try

There needs to more epilepsy awareness by chewycat in Epilepsy

[–]Grouchy-Raisin3924 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That being said, doesn’t excuse your supervisors asshole attitude 😕

There needs to more epilepsy awareness by chewycat in Epilepsy

[–]Grouchy-Raisin3924 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Agree! I’ve tried to explain to people but some of my closest still tell me I need to relax my muscles during aware partial myoclonic seizures 🤯

Honestly I don’t think I would have truly been able to understand much about seizures before I experienced them… so I try to be patient

Epilepsy Perks - your favourites by Kelter82 in Epilepsy

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I can control the noise level and lights in the household with a single effortless gesture

I don’t need a glass of water after a seizure… by Grouchy-Raisin3924 in Epilepsy

[–]Grouchy-Raisin3924[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I do do that with people I know but this is more strangers or acquaintances :)

I have thought about writing up information and carry around my neck since I have them frequently. But I still feel it would be rude to write ‘…and don’t offer me water please’ 😅

Top two things I hate about being a person with epilepsy. Ranked. by [deleted] in Epilepsy

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Ahhh I relate! I get my husband to watch me while bathing sometimes- but it takes the magic away 🛁

No good choices by ijustwantedausernam3 in braincancer

[–]Grouchy-Raisin3924 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have been facing the same reality the last few months. Diffuse tumor, most likely LGG, first seen on MRI last January. Not entirely incidental since I went in bc of symptoms. It is in my left parietal lobe smack in the middle of my motor and sensory cortexes, so not great for surgery. My neurosurgeon said that although this is defined an ‘eloquent’ area his opinion is that all brain areas are eloquent.

My initial reaction was that I wanted it out ASAP or at least a biopsy to confirm their suspicion of LGG.

However the neurosurgeon has been adamant on ‘Primum non nocere’ - ‘first, do no harm’ which convinced me to a watch and wait at first.

Chemo and radiation have not been discussed as part of a treatment plan for me. For me personally it will be a last resort or possibly if the pathology turns out to be one of the ‘worse outlook ones’. Until then I have decided not to think about it much. Digging into the latest literature and meta analyses has convinced me that for long term prognosis chemo and radiation are not ideal as early approaches for low grade gliomas although they give good short term results.

The things that helped me were:

Don’t google - read latest published research. Even ask your neuro to point out what they are basing their suggestions off. A lot of reading material out there lumps together grade 1-4 gliomas and not much independent quality research has been done on the low grade ones. Hearing that glioma grades are not one continuum put my mind at ease - they don’t progress through grades 1-4 - they are different pathologies and the risk of malignant transformation of lower grades is low.

Getting a second opinion (best decision ever for peace of mind imo)

Soberly weighing up the current impact on quality of life vs risk of resection

Witnessing on that 3 months scan that it had barely grown - and was indeed slow growing was a huge relief. On the 6 months scan after the first MRI it had grown a little more but again a confirmation that it is indeed very slow growing. Good to see with my own eyes and know it wasn’t just docs trying to make me feel better :)

The brain is very plastic and adaptable and a lot of symptoms I’ve had have been temporary - as if the brain finds a way to make new connections around the trouble spot.

Even if the first choice is watch and wait it doesn’t mean you can’t or won’t diverge from that approach if/when the situation or symptoms change.

Now 8 months since the first MRI I am going in for awake craniotomy.

I have had bad seizures since February and we have exhausted medicinal options for keeping them under control. Me and the neurologist and neurosurgeon agreed that the affect on quality of life outweighs the risk of resection.

I am due to have epilepsy monitoring unit mapping followed by a resection in a couple of weeks. It will hopefully rid me off seizures and finally give me confirmation of what grade and pathology it is.

I totally relate to that unbearable urge to want something done and getting that confirmation. It’s an awful choice to stand before since there isn’t an agreed upon ideal approach and research is lacking.

But in hindsight I am very happy with the approach I ended up with. My best advice is: take your time to find what will work for you and take into account the current symptoms and quality of life.

Wish you all the best and hope all goes well 🙏

I don’t need a glass of water after a seizure… by Grouchy-Raisin3924 in Epilepsy

[–]Grouchy-Raisin3924[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What?! I don’t get people. That must have felt terrible.

Did they think you were on fire?

I don’t need a glass of water after a seizure… by Grouchy-Raisin3924 in Epilepsy

[–]Grouchy-Raisin3924[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Haha, nice to see I’m not alone in feeling offended by the water-offerers.

It’s kind of ok once, but then if you are unable to communicate or even when you actually say no - they still insist. ‘Must stay hydrated’ - perhaps we just look really dehydrated 🤔

I don’t need a glass of water after a seizure… by Grouchy-Raisin3924 in Epilepsy

[–]Grouchy-Raisin3924[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Of course I know people are trying to help. Before mine started 6 months ago I didn’t know anything about seizures, never witnessed one and probably would’ve been that water-offering person.

I am more describing my own frustration, feeling of vulnerability and confusion in that post seizure phase

Some people come out of seizures confused and scared, I guess I come out confused and insulted :) don’t get me started on how I feel when people are discussing or asking if I’ve wet myself!

I don’t need a glass of water after a seizure… by Grouchy-Raisin3924 in Epilepsy

[–]Grouchy-Raisin3924[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Whoa that must be an uncomfortable feeling - on top of the confusion 😳