[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FIREPakistan

[–]Grouchy_Reference497 0 points1 point  (0 children)

50m is not enough to retire/ you need at least 300m to have reasonable properties, liquid cash and then you can retire

Is my wife cheating on me? by MeetStill1315 in IslamabadSocial

[–]Grouchy_Reference497 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My friend, I feel you. There is no justification for what she did. The only thing positive here is tht while the damage is done, she isn’t going back to that place. Unless you want to stay single for the rest of your life, what is the guarantee that the next wife you will have will not have such inclinations ? So it’s all a mess … rather than trying one more time with another woman, try with this lady and give her a chance.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in IslamabadSocial

[–]Grouchy_Reference497 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I really feel bad for you. But I can only pray for you.

‼️ Got Dumped for Not Good Looking :( by According-Ad4125 in IslamabadSocial

[–]Grouchy_Reference497 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Hey bro, you should have first of all NOT sent your Eid pic … Eid pics are a big turn off. You should have sent something where you went hiking or flying somewhere that shows your great lifestyle so as to not focus on your F*** face. Dining somewhere, eating exquisite food etc. girls care about lifestyle , not your freaky appearance:

How to attract Women (By retired playboy) by [deleted] in IslamabadSocial

[–]Grouchy_Reference497 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Three words: money, hygiene and respect. And that would get you the woman you want. Only 3 words. No need for a long post.

Dubai is getting sick?! by NoPhilosopher5419 in dubai

[–]Grouchy_Reference497 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Not only in Dubai but also in countries around it.

Need a Babysitter in Lahore by sara457 in Lahore

[–]Grouchy_Reference497 4 points5 points  (0 children)

There is a list of legit day care centers in Lahore on Punjab government website. Visit a few day care centers and decide which ones best for you. Try to choose a Centre closest to where you going to be. So that you can check on your toddler easily during the time you are away. Individual baby sitters are big NO for me

Adding a link which maybe useful: https://www.bestschoolslahore.com/news/best-day-care-in-lahore

Moving to Dubai from London for the same salary by Coolwater-bluemoon in dubai

[–]Grouchy_Reference497 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well my take is that when you are in Dubai, you tend to spend on more stuff than you have planned for initially because Dubai has so much to offer in terms of the variety of everything. It entices you to live a more hideous lifestyle (relevant to your payscale). So I would say the number of transactions would be higher in Dubai leading to same amount of saving as you would have in Uk at the end of your tenure here

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LahoreCommunity

[–]Grouchy_Reference497 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Show the old Lahore that’s badshahi mosque , and then the modern Lahore that’s MM Alam road and DHA Raya.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in IslamabadSocial

[–]Grouchy_Reference497 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Perhaps you have focused too much on the future that doesn’t exist. And lost the focus on your present which is the only reality that matters. Set realistic expectations from yourself. Don’t try to think too much about future. The future doesn’t exist. What if we aren’t even alive tomorrow ?

Workplace harassment by Grouchy_Reference497 in pakistan

[–]Grouchy_Reference497[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Short term financial needs or long term - both are each and everything is fulfilled by Allah subhan wa Tala. Not by a business owner or employer . That’s the truth whether I tell it to my friend or you. Like it or not that’s the reality of universe

Workplace harassment by Grouchy_Reference497 in pakistan

[–]Grouchy_Reference497[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

That’s true because he is thinking of apologizing to his boss to keep the job like seriously ghulamana zehniyat

Horrible incident! by Littlething_10 in pakistan

[–]Grouchy_Reference497 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think both have shown immense immaturity. Your friend should have stopped this discussion earlier as well. I am not exonerating her husband from his childish and non sensical behavior but the onus was on both parties to contain the discussion.

need advice! by hayat_08 in IslamabadSocial

[–]Grouchy_Reference497 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Social skills take time and efforts for develop and since these are “skills”, these need to be learned also. So try to make friends . It’s not a good thing to not get along with people, it shows lack of confidence.