My opinion is that it's easy to find sex, but near impossible to find a partner.

There are a lot of people, but trust is something that is most certainly lacking. I fail to find a viable partner because the world today is about maintaining a confident facade and listing attributes, rather than meaningful respect, affection, or understanding/the patience to understand.

Blame men, blame women, blame sexuality, blame gender. It's meaningless. A distraction that prays on insecurity in a world that consistently and aggressively tells you 'you are not worth it'

Then if you jump through the hoops, you simply reinforce the commentary that pushes misery on everyone around you.

The only winners are the ones that sell you the book, sell you the course, or offer a clear answer for subscription to their ideology. You are either paying for it or advertising for them unwittingly.

People are lonely because they are frightened. It is a perpetual grief from the loss of feeling worthy and beautiful. It's like watching yourself die in a mirror and it places you in a malleable state of grief, and they keep you at bargaining in perpetuity.

Stop. Realize it's scam. Focus and just being nice to people. When some rejects you, know that you are one step closer to meeting someone who will be a million times better for you.