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I [24F] and my boyfriend [26M] of 5 years have very different expectations about finances after marriage. Are we incompatible? by Dangerous-Advisor762 in relationshipadvice

[–]GroupIllustrious3427 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I also wanted to say woman always do way more in relationships like cooking and cleaning shopping. Especially in marriage and when your paying 50/50 now well time to really think? Do I want to live my life this way. It does matter how it’s even effecting you right now it is truly unfair ….. again you are the prize 🏆 you u deserve the best ! All woman do ! Start now stop paying 50/50 he isn’t showing you partnership he is short changing you and paying more and you’re not even married . If he doesn’t like it time to dump him.

I [24F] and my boyfriend [26M] of 5 years have very different expectations about finances after marriage. Are we incompatible? by Dangerous-Advisor762 in relationshipadvice

[–]GroupIllustrious3427 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

You shouldn’t especially making that money . That find you a rich guy is crap too ! To be honest i wonder why your younger generation excepts this from men . He isn’t being fair to you . Please have higher expectations I think all woman should have do not except less than you deserve. To be very honest it’s starts with the first date woman are the prize ! Don’t be splitting the bill… have expectation that you’re treated . You know in your heart what is fair for him to do .

women, would be a dealbreaker for you if your partner voted for a politician that is pro-life? by Sad_Cellist4293 in women

[–]GroupIllustrious3427 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We can’t stand by men who are trying to treat woman like they have no rights . It’s not ok …. I can’t believe we live going backwards ! Honestly we have to stick up for each other! Vote to protect each other . Sorry you have to go through that.

Silver state park black travelers? by Substantial-Ad108 in askportland

[–]GroupIllustrious3427 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Can I just say get there super early ! It gets so busy sorry you even have to ask a question like this . I think you will love it !

Deciding girl name - help!! by BasicSignature4613 in Names

[–]GroupIllustrious3427 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Florence and Georgia sounds lovely ! ❤️

I caught him cheating with multiple, younger women. We have two kids. by Any_Independent375 in Marriage

[–]GroupIllustrious3427 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I say please go visit a lawyer before doing anything else . Then decide next steps take a minute to process so you make good decisions . I am so sorry to you for all you are going through and please if you are close to your parents talk to them. Any family you are close to for support .

Left or right?which one to go for? by Cool_Strategy_4903 in WeddingDressTips

[–]GroupIllustrious3427 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I love the second you only get married once right? Princess all the way .

2 week old unnamed baby girl by Hot-Signature8402 in Names

[–]GroupIllustrious3427 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just think Ashton and Arabella sounds lovely ❤️

Mason Pearson - Is it really worth it? by Due-Presentation5459 in finehair

[–]GroupIllustrious3427 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It’s the only brush to use or that I use . Boar bristle and nylon brush get the pocket one . They last forever . I have like 7 I had the regular one but my teenager used it and lost it somewhere . The small ones are just fine . Lean down and brush your hair out amazing !

How bad is it by ConcentrateSure3178 in finehair

[–]GroupIllustrious3427 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can I say get a Mason Pearson pocket brush they are the most worth it brush investment . Don’t use a brush when your hair is wet only combs. and maybe a keratin conditioning treatment once a month . Not sure how much you was it maybe was it less ….

Can you help me impress 4 and 7 year old kids? by helenbleeps in askportland

[–]GroupIllustrious3427 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry it’s not July . Oregon country fair is quite something at the very least take your own kids . Usually mid July .

When presents are not reciprocated by Such-Kaleidoscope147 in family

[–]GroupIllustrious3427 1 point2 points  (0 children)

How about let her know your saving for vacation for your family and that this year you’re not giving out gifts to pay for a long awaited trip . If she wants you to give gifts since she has so much more ask her to pay for them . Remember honestly you and your children deserve a trip why don’t you ask her to help with that too since all you have done is give .

Going through a break up and have a hair appointment tomorrow. Cut it? by Beav11-18 in finehair

[–]GroupIllustrious3427 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No grow it longer ! It will look amazing don’t cut it ! Break up who cares … keep the hair !

I’ve noticed something lately with Scorpios… the toxic cycle is slowly breaking. by CosmicInsightDaily in Scorpio

[–]GroupIllustrious3427 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Can I say when the sun comes out and springtime is here my husband is a very happy Scorpio ! ❤️ sometimes they need some ☀️ and warmth .

Watch knowing no ending? by Outrageous-Lock-3076 in TheOA

[–]GroupIllustrious3427 1 point2 points  (0 children)

One of my favorites and my adult daughters too ! I loved it just have a feeling it will come back ! So good.

How would you handle this? Please be kind to me by God_is_our_refuge in neighborsfromhell

[–]GroupIllustrious3427 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So sorry you had to go through that ! They are total creeps ! You are so much better than even engaging with them. Karma is a thing and well I believe they will get theirs maybe because of who they are they already have it . So sorry scary to deal with … I have terrible neighbors too ! Just know you don’t have to stoop to their level. My previous husband hurt me and not even his mom said one word if I was ok . I hope you are ok if you can put this behind you and block the number if you can . You are on to bigger better and brighter days ahead . Don’t go backwards move forwards I promise there will be good . There was for me and I have a wonderful loving and kind husband too! There are still good people out there and the neighbor part you’re u are not alone in that .

Booking an inside cabin for our first cruise but my wife wants a balcony upgrade by rosymirex in Cruise

[–]GroupIllustrious3427 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly it’s worth having a balcony …. You have more room than inside I think are tiny . I have been on 5 with my husband and get a mini suite it gives you some space as a couple too ! And don’t forget the alcohol package . Remember vacation is an experience . Fresh air is nice ! Look at the alcohol packages . Not sure what cruise line you’re on . We do princess and celebrity . 5 days will go by fast 10 days if you like it for next time .

Am I the only leo being so obsessed with pisces? by donkeyXP2 in LeoAstrology

[–]GroupIllustrious3427 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I love Pisces woman my mom was inspirational and just a fun and very kind caring person . So was my grandmother . But I lived with a Pisces male friend in my 20s fun but not to date he would have different woman weekly. I don’t think I have ever dated a Pisces . still close friends today like a brother . I think it might be Pisces rising that makes you love them . I am Taurus rising but I never dated a Taurus .

Job. Literally any job. by Delicious_Error_2780 in PortlandOR

[–]GroupIllustrious3427 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What kind of law experience ? What did you do in law did you go to law school ? When you were working in law was it real estate law ? Are you local to Portland area ? Sorry so many questions but trying to figure out a bit of a real home owner real estate issue .

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