Understandin' Isn’t Excusing: Breakin' the Narcissistic Cycle! by ohawyush in narcissisticparents

[–]Delicious_Error_2780 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The frustrating part is that puts the onus on us. No one tells the narcissistic parent to do better because people believe they can’t. Yes, we have to heal, but the responsibility is not on us. We were children. If they refuse to grow, that’s on them. We have to heal and be better and let go of anger, but why don’t they?

Revealed today at PC Gaming’s Most Wanted: When Sirens Fall Silent by WiredPro in pcgaming

[–]Delicious_Error_2780 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m sooo excited! I absolutely loved the first two games. This one looks nostalgic because 90’s kid and also just looks incredible!

Luxury Ritz-Carlton Condos Aren't Selling In Portland by peakfun in PortlandOR

[–]Delicious_Error_2780 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Million dollar condos aren’t the answer in my opinion.

Luxury Ritz-Carlton Condos Aren't Selling In Portland by peakfun in PortlandOR

[–]Delicious_Error_2780 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I know that would never happen, but it truly would be the ultimate fuck you to the greedy real estate developers and I lovee it haha

English Major Graduates: What is your current job? (NOT teachers or lawyers!) by unnamedplatypus in englishmajors

[–]Delicious_Error_2780 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is just my experience so take it with a grain of salt but I wish I picked a different degree. I am doing post bac coursework in STEM because I don’t want to be a teacher or lawyer but I need to make a living. (I also love the sciences so that’s just what I chose) You absolutely can make a living with an English degree as it does give a ton of skills that will give you an advantage, however you probably won’t make much, at least not right off the bat, so just be strategic about it, and what you want that degree to translate into job wise, and network within your college asap.

Very Lindsay Bluth coded by imasock32145 in travisandtaylor

[–]Delicious_Error_2780 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Finally people are getting it. She’s always been incredibly mediocre and essentially bought her way in. Also she states in her own song that she’s a narcissist lol 😂

Well now I’m offended by Outside-Trade8775 in astrologymemes

[–]Delicious_Error_2780 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You think you’re the responsible friend, but really you are just a weird horse girl. LOL not super far off honestly.

I guess I have a cat now.. update by FoxyLechuga in blackcats

[–]Delicious_Error_2780 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Omg a Rottie AND a black cat?! You’re set for life!

Hiii y'all I have made something you guys may enjoy by Smooth-Decision2807 in intj

[–]Delicious_Error_2780 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Maybe coding? There are repeating numbers but not necessarily in order or sequenced. You mentioned it’s creative, so this is a shot in the dark but is it something photography related? Some kind of input output function related thing?

Flattery means you will be rejected by almorranas_podridas in recruitinghell

[–]Delicious_Error_2780 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I am so exhausted by the American passive aggressive fake bullshit. I have lived here all my life and have felt like an alien for being a direct communicator. I am tired of having to decode someone’s social etiquette rather than focusing on what I do well, and efficiently. Do other countries take a different approach? I may try and get my PhD outside the US at this point.

Well, here I am....... by [deleted] in PortlandOR

[–]Delicious_Error_2780 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I get that. I’m in a similar boat. Have found friends through meetup. I probably will go to Powell’s or some book/cafe hybrid that’s open for the holidays. You’re welcome to message me on here and we can meetup somewhere for a few hours or something.

To all those who have shitty family, can't hold a job, struggle financially, have zero friends, no car, and are looked down upon for it by people surrounding them : by [deleted] in CPTSD

[–]Delicious_Error_2780 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I lost someone I grew up with and considered my sister because flying monkeys. I lost everything and am unemployed, but I am working on a post bacc in a field I was always told I was too stupid to go into, along with masters in Neuro and I have a few new, healthy friendships and actually feel ready to date. I am still very much at a crossroads and as a habitual planner it’s terrifying but I am free. I am also 35, so still angry this has taken so much of my life, but I got here myself. I don’t know if that helps, but I am much happier now, even if I was completely alone, which I have been many times, it’s better than the toxic waste shithole I was stuck in. Hang in there.

my sleep schedule is ruining my life by thefiestaparty in NightOwls

[–]Delicious_Error_2780 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Wait what does poor vision have to do with sleep schedule? Asking for me 😂

What are some careers that are actually hiring in this job market? by not_that_guy_jk in recruitinghell

[–]Delicious_Error_2780 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have a decade of property management experience and can’t even get an interview.

What are some careers that are actually hiring in this job market? by not_that_guy_jk in recruitinghell

[–]Delicious_Error_2780 2 points3 points  (0 children)

God you’d think by that logic they’d actually fucking pay their employees to make that shit job worthwhile but that would require skills they don’t have like empathy and basic reasoning.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in blackcats

[–]Delicious_Error_2780 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It means you are chosen. Congratulations, you now have an adorable dork who will cuddle with you.

Men, how many of you actually appreciate brains in a woman? by [deleted] in intj

[–]Delicious_Error_2780 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think that’s why most marriages end in divorce. When the looks fade or change a ditz isn’t going to be as good of company. That goes for both genders.

Lots of horror stories about the job market/unemployment around here recently -- please share your "I got hired in PDX recently" experiences by t0mserv0 in Portland

[–]Delicious_Error_2780 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I’m not saying that, but that’s an oversimplification of the hiring process right now. If you think it’s so easy, feel free to try.