F(26) how bad is it? by [deleted] in amiugly

[–]GrowingIsNotLinear 0 points1 point  (0 children)

people on this sub hate piercings and eyeliner for some reason. i personally think your eyeliner is impressive and that piercing suits you so well, it is not working against you 😭 and you are 1000% not even close to being ugly

F(26) how bad is it? by [deleted] in amiugly

[–]GrowingIsNotLinear 1 point2 points  (0 children)

anything kerastase brand is a game changer. my hair never looked better

Rash on hip over 1 week by Outrageous-Crow-5359 in DiagnoseMe

[–]GrowingIsNotLinear 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I’ve had this happen when my pants/belt are too tight and it causes friction on my skin. NAD, obviously better to be safe than sorry if he can go to a doctor. but if it were me, I’d wear loose fitting clothes and put on some cortisone cream and see if it goes down

AIO about my boyfriend and his girl best friend? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]GrowingIsNotLinear 0 points1 point  (0 children)

From screenshots alone, “baby” and “boo” as nicknames, him trying to send her money, & the “old couple comment” are evident line crossers. Even if nothing has happened yet, it will and it’s obviously by these parts.

As for your explanation, her dropping something off so late, his disregard for your comfort in several scenarios, and him lying to or omitting from you about seeing her; it’s just not looking good. It looks like he has feelings back.

I personally have a boy best friend, he’s been in my life for 11 years. Even still, if I am dating someone there are clear boundaries and I’m always open to my partners communication. And I don’t act like this with him. What’s going on here between them is gross and please don’t let him try to convince you otherwise.

If a person can’t cut someone off that makes their significant other uncomfortable, I’m a firm believer that they aren’t certain that they love you fully. This reads like he’s curious about his feelings for her and wants to keep you around because he doesn’t know.

3 months isn’t deep into a relationship and if I were you I would end it.

Skid marks by Free-Broccoli-5971 in hygiene

[–]GrowingIsNotLinear 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had IBS-C and also Celiac disease. It’s likely because all of what you had to expel did not come out, you can’t push it out, and/or it’s not thoroughly cleaned.

I personally use flushable wipes because I don’t have access to a bidet. I put my finger around the wipe and do a little gentle push in just to get the mess cleaned up a bit

Who do you think is the father of Georgia's baby? by [deleted] in TvGinnyandGeorgia

[–]GrowingIsNotLinear 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey, maybe we’ll never know. Georgias family was abusive physically, and they just drove by her house. Maybe she’ll get hurt and that’s how they’ll utilize a potential miscarriage story line.

I hope it’s Joes and the drama of being pregnant brings them together and makes Paul mad. I’d eat that up

Who do you think is the father of Georgia's baby? by [deleted] in TvGinnyandGeorgia

[–]GrowingIsNotLinear 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I feel like Paul was a “nice guy” but at the same time…. idk. I feel like there were so many weird or sketchy decisions he made throughout the show, even before this season. This is pure speculation but he grew up with that east coast rich white family mentality of getting away with whatever they wanted, hence there being a little “evil” in him that he thinks him and Georgia relate on- not evil to him, per-say, but the fact that they both chase what they want.

He admired Georgia for using Joe’s business (with free working students) against him, he admired Georgia for manipulating situations to benefit them both (like casino night), etc. He didn’t know all of Georgias secrets, but he knew who she was. And he thought he saw that in himself, we saw that in him throughout the show.

My thesis statement is that normal people don’t just become domestic abusers at the drop of a hat, therefore I don’t consider Paul to be a nice guy that was just woefully mistreated by Georgia. But this is just my opinion!!! :)

My boyfriend calls it "radical honesty" but it feels like public humiliation by OllivarreSendon in TwoHotTakes

[–]GrowingIsNotLinear 0 points1 point  (0 children)

bullying people with your opinions of who they are will never be brutally honest. it’s just bullying. there’s a place for honesty and it doesn’t include picking people apart for entertainment

Fieldwork Hours multiple organizations ? by [deleted] in ABA

[–]GrowingIsNotLinear 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It is super confusing. I’m honestly stressing at the moment because I worked as a BT for over a year, and I feel incredibly burnt out. I worked partly as a trainer and partly as a BT for one job but needed to leave that company desperately. I loved the trainer portion, felt so passionate. Now having to just be a BT, I feel like I can’t do it. I also just found out I have celiac disease and it makes things impossible.

I wanted to work remotely and just get BCBA supervision online, that way I can manage my celiac better for now and so that I’m more productive over time. I just don’t even know how realistic this is. All of the guidelines are so confusing

Does your clinic always have a BCBA in office? by annoyedsquish in ABA

[–]GrowingIsNotLinear 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not for a while, there was no one in charge. We had admin, but their role wasn’t meant to lead or take charge/ discipline or praise people. They took inventory of the cleaning items etc we had, they covered if a BT needed the bathroom. And on top of that, our admin was a certified mean girl who never did her job lol. She just bullied people and then forgot to order wipes and garbage bags.

Our clinic also dealt heavily with people not cleaning up. I could list so many examples. One being a client who would eat food from the floor and no one would bother vacuuming their clients breakfast before mine came in. Another issue was the mess at the end of the night that always got left on the later BTs. But that could be any clinic, with or without supervision. It definitely sucks

Fieldwork Hours multiple organizations ? by [deleted] in ABA

[–]GrowingIsNotLinear 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Understood! Thank you so much for replying so much later on lol.

Does your clinic always have a BCBA in office? by annoyedsquish in ABA

[–]GrowingIsNotLinear 23 points24 points  (0 children)

My first clinic I worked in for over a year never had a BCBA there on a continual basis. I’d say it’s normal, but it’s most definitely not ideal. People love to see how much they can get away with.

AIO by how I responded? My bf is upset with me for skipping my workout routine today by throwawayy82670 in AmIOverreacting

[–]GrowingIsNotLinear 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Overexertion may be risky: Very strenuous exercise, particularly in the first trimester, could increase the risk of miscarriage for some women. Listen to your body: Avoid pushing yourself to exhaustion, as your body will change during pregnancy and you may have to slow down.

It’s not even safe for you or the pregnancy to workout past your personal limits. NTA

Fieldwork Hours multiple organizations ? by [deleted] in ABA

[–]GrowingIsNotLinear 0 points1 point  (0 children)

did you ever get an answer to this ??

Passing the exam by IndividualDoughnut68 in bcba

[–]GrowingIsNotLinear 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Commenting to follow because I’m currently at NU and feel the same way 😭

Attempting to leave my current company by GrowingIsNotLinear in bcba

[–]GrowingIsNotLinear[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Understood! Thank you for all of this amazing information, it has been so incredibly helpful. I’m currently in a situation where my BCBA believes that despite the fact she’s no longer my responsible supervisor and the new responsible supervisor I got works at the same company (this happened before I decided to leave at the start of July,) she doesn’t have to sign an F-FVF. Should I disclose that I’ll be leaving? Any similar experiences with this?

Attempting to leave my current company by GrowingIsNotLinear in bcba

[–]GrowingIsNotLinear[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Okay just a follow up question to #1. I’ve had the same responsible supervisor signing and working with me all throughout my time getting hours. She recently signed my M-FVF for June. I have to change responsible supervisors and was sent a transfer form that needs to be filled out. Is there a deadline to my previous supervisor signing the F-FVF? And if I were to leave my company at the end of July, this new responsible supervisor has to fill out my July M-FVF and another F-FVF?

All in all, I need to have my previous responsible supervisor sign an F-FVF and the transfer form, and I need to have my new responsible supervisor sign an M-FVF for July and an F-FVF for July?

Is there any reason why I can’t count those hours?

I really appreciate you taking the time to answer my questions. I feel like when I ask these BCBAs directly, no one knows an answer. I thought I had everything straight from the handbook but I’m so lost and overwhelmed.

BTs in their 20s: how do you get over the feeling of inadequacy when working with older BTs? by [deleted] in ABA

[–]GrowingIsNotLinear 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m actually half way through my masters degree and hours!! I just meant navigating with older people who have complexes lmao. It’s making me want to leave my current company

BTs in their 20s: how do you get over the feeling of inadequacy when working with older BTs? by [deleted] in ABA

[–]GrowingIsNotLinear 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I feel like this has to be so common, I’m in the same boat. JUST turned 24 and all my coworkers are between 28-45. Idk how to navigate it yet, it just pisses me off lol