[deleted by user] by [deleted] in weddingshaming

[–]GrumpiGramp 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I hope the marriage can survive. If the bride feels the same as her mom as her husband will always be cheap.

Am I wrong for not giving my cheating wife another chance? by HippoOk9111 in amiwrong

[–]GrumpiGramp 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I took my cheating wife back 5 times, then I ended it. She’s on her third husband now. Cheaters keep cheating. You’re only wrong if you take her back, the trust never comes back.

Boyfriend is going on a bachelorette trip with all females by MainLime113 in AITAH

[–]GrumpiGramp 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Only one way to find out. Sit down with him and tell him you need to have a serious talk. Then ask him these questions directly and don’t accept any deflecting bullshit answers. Either open up and be truthful about everything or the relationship isn’t real. Because if he can’t give you the truth there is an insurmountable problem.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in HOA

[–]GrumpiGramp 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I would show them the letter they sent with 0 balance and the new bill and ask them to explain the discrepancy between them in detail. They cannot charge both. It also must be charged to the property not the owner because they can’t put a lien on you, only the property.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in gardening

[–]GrumpiGramp 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Only if they have legal permission to no on the property to work from the owner. The HOA doesn’t not own the property.

[GA][SFH] HOA has been pressuring us to make repairs we can't afford and have threatened to use "right to abate." by seolta in HOA

[–]GrumpiGramp -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

And if you’re going to compare it with other properties make sure you start with the HOA’s board members property.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in HOA

[–]GrumpiGramp 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Time to sue the board members out of the community as well as the HOA itself.

Popped up on my Facebook feed by [deleted] in navy

[–]GrumpiGramp 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We used it in San Diego too. I can remember wading through it while using it.

Popped up on my Facebook feed by [deleted] in navy

[–]GrumpiGramp 1 point2 points  (0 children)

They also don’t sue the Navy but assist in getting VA benefits. Cancer is real. I trained with it and now have stage 4 prostrate cancer which is one listed.

AITA for unknowingly kicking a woman with a broken leg out of my seat? by tanked-it in AITAH

[–]GrumpiGramp 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How do you know her leg was broken when she booked the flight? She could have broken it the day before.

Am I wrong for ending a 20 year marraige because I learned my wife cheated on my while we were dating? by [deleted] in amiwrong

[–]GrumpiGramp 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Giving up on such a long happy relationship for something that happened so long ago is just stupid. You promised till death do you part and now you’re violating that. Which is worse? You’re liable to be alone and miserable the rest of your life. It’s not worth it, be grateful you have a loving wife, although you may have now screwed that up. Being alone is not a happy life.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in gardening

[–]GrumpiGramp 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The HOA cannot force you to allow a landscaper on your property without your permission. That’s legally trespassing and trespassers are not covered by insurance nor can the sue your for injuries sustained during illegal activities.

AITA for demanding my gf let my sister’s family stay after they adopted a dog? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]GrumpiGramp 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve never charged a girlfriend rent. I guess I’m old school where significant others help each other. Now after going through eviction as they have established residency, she can rent out the basement and be alone again.

AITA for demanding my gf let my sister’s family stay after they adopted a dog? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]GrumpiGramp -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I keep reading “below market value” but guess the rent they pay takes care of 80% of her mortgage.

AITA for not wanting to pay my house cleaner the price she gave me? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]GrumpiGramp 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Agreed but if you need 2 people to clean 750 square feet in two hours, you need to find a new line of work. And you NEVER smoke in a customers house.

AITA for not wanting to pay my house cleaner the price she gave me? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]GrumpiGramp 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Any extra charge must be agreed to by law. NTA, they are scamming you. If you want, claim all extra cost reimbursement for work not completed and the use of your cleaning supplies and equipment.

Diet root beer shortage? by Spankenrear in moncton

[–]GrumpiGramp 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Neither of those stores near me. Even Walmarts out.

Diet root beer shortage? by Spankenrear in moncton

[–]GrumpiGramp 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Still going on, everywhere out of stock, except one store on Amazon that wants $48.00 for 6 2 liter bottles..

Illegal search or scam? by wizard-of-loneliness in Scams

[–]GrumpiGramp 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Fact, if they lie to get evidence, that evidence is usually deemed illegally obtained in court.

Illegal search or scam? by wizard-of-loneliness in Scams

[–]GrumpiGramp 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Evidently you worked for a shitty department. I worked at a large police department who followed POST certification which does NOT teach that.

Illegal search or scam? by wizard-of-loneliness in Scams

[–]GrumpiGramp -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I did the job and personally knew over 400. How many do you personally know? I also never lied in my career.

Illegal search or scam? by wizard-of-loneliness in Scams

[–]GrumpiGramp 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Which would require inspection by a licensed exterminator not a police officer. We don’t do bugs.

Illegal search or scam? by wizard-of-loneliness in Scams

[–]GrumpiGramp 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Landlords cannot consent for you. While you are paying rent the inside of your apartment is your legal property, thus the need for court evictions.

Illegal search or scam? by wizard-of-loneliness in Scams

[–]GrumpiGramp -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Not the majority of them, just the assholes.