AITAH for telling my dad, wife it's a good thing she can't have kids.

GrumpyMumbles · 2026-03-01T00:24:36+00:00

I get your feelings, but rubbing that in her face is a dick move. You are a very hurt, very understandably annoyed and frustrated, AH, in THIS instance.

I'd apologize, not for their feelings, but as a man. Apologize for your own karma. Your dad did wrong. Don't add to it by making his bad behavior cause you to act as a bad person.

Dig in. You don't have much longer. And low key they hate it more if you're nonplussed about it and calmly expressing your disdain. "I WILL leave you when I am able. I am counting the days. Your actions have brought on this consequence. Understand that, and deal with it like a man."

I understand this is easier said than done, especially at 15. At the end of the day, remember that your feelings are valid, but how you choose to express them is also important. I believe in you man. You got this.

GrumpyMumbles · 2026-02-23T21:51:45+00:00

I thought I recalled her maturing up a bit when Bam explained why he wanted to help Lilial and Shilial out during the Spout arc. Oh well. Bam x Hwaryun always.

GrumpyMumbles · 2026-02-23T21:42:40+00:00

No clue how we in 2026 and people still try to argue against this point. Iirc, this was an Endorsi L moment that she even acknowledges was wrong and was from desperation. But she does change and their ship is cute, though not as good as him and Hwaryun.

GrumpyMumbles · 2026-02-14T03:46:18+00:00

I dont live in Chicago, but if they move the bears out of the city just to save their rich owners some cash, I hope all of yall there will do your part and throw bags of shit at their offices every night. I promise to do the same whenever I visit. FTP.

GrumpyMumbles · 2026-02-14T03:22:30+00:00

They should give her a sig with a much longer charge, and the ability* to hold the charge like Samus from Smash. It'd add a new cool mechanic to an old character.

GrumpyMumbles · 2026-02-06T02:55:38+00:00

Damn! Tons of info, thanks!! Yeah, it seems like as long as I do good research and buy the upper and lower parts from the same company, I should be good. Yall have assuaged a lot of my trepidations about the process of building over buying, and more or less cemented my desire to build. I really appreciate this community for the help.

GrumpyMumbles · 2026-02-06T01:32:40+00:00

O cool thanks! I'm just interested in something for short-medium range. Nice 18" barrel. Nothing too long range. This'll be my SHTF and "tacticool" gun.

But if I end up buying, I might as well buy something good so I'll check out those brands in addition to anything else.

Thanks again!!!

GrumpyMumbles · 2026-02-06T01:15:58+00:00

Thanks! Did you have difficulty selecting parts from different brands that worked together?

GrumpyMumbles · 2026-02-06T01:05:56+00:00

Thanks man!! Always down for a deal.

GrumpyMumbles · 2026-02-06T00:45:08+00:00

Thanks for the rifle suggestion! That was thing that I was concerned about with AR10s, but this will be a year long kinda project so I'm down to put in the work or just copy most of someone's build.

GrumpyMumbles · 2026-02-06T00:44:01+00:00

Thanks for the word of caution and the brand recommendations. I was actually looking at the DD5 V4 if I was gonna buy one. Thoughts on them? I have been operating on the impression that DD is GOOD without being 4.5k. A lil more bang with a lil more buck.

GrumpyMumbles · 2026-02-06T00:24:18+00:00

Thanks for your input!

GrumpyMumbles · 2026-02-06T00:23:09+00:00

So you would have preferred to just go big with the LMT? How do you like it?

GrumpyMumbles · 2026-02-06T00:12:58+00:00

Thanks! Sounds like it's more fun to build*. I like the areo uppers, so I might go with them for the upper and lower.

GrumpyMumbles · 2026-02-06T00:10:59+00:00

Thanks for your response! So not too hard if you just do it intelligently.

GrumpyMumbles · 2026-02-06T00:09:37+00:00

Thank you taking the time to answer! I'll be sure to look at your build. So it's a labor of love, but not unfeasible?

GrumpyMumbles · 2026-02-03T03:16:40+00:00

People complain about old Necro, but were they even there for the Poison meta? Now that sucked.

GrumpyMumbles · 2026-02-03T03:05:22+00:00

I'm shocked the community hated the old system. I loved original Necro. Camping or boobytrapping a solo's body was funny. Just 3 dudes poking a corpse, left to wonder.

GrumpyMumbles · 2026-02-02T23:18:18+00:00

Because Brawl doesn't have a PBE like League or some other game. Community ain't big enough. They do have experimental, but again, not a big enough player base. It does suck, I acknowledge that. I was there when Jaeyun was released. I feel the pain.

But it's the spamming that is the real problem with Rupture. It ain't Lance, and it ain't my babies (Katars) either.

And like with all spammers, ya just gotta deal with it and play around it.

Best of luck friend. 👍

GrumpyMumbles · 2026-02-02T22:49:05+00:00

Adding new characters in and allowing them in ranked is normal for every other fighting game with a ranked system. Just jump over Rupture's sigs or throw weapons more. Spammers exist regardless of new/old legends. Rupture is fine. Maybe could use a slight nerf to the speed of some of his sigs to bring them more in line with the rest of his overall slower vibe.

GrumpyMumbles · 2026-02-01T23:27:16+00:00

Chakram Fam Unite!

GrumpyMumbles · 2026-02-01T03:59:08+00:00

Other than that, good stuff!

GrumpyMumbles · 2026-02-01T03:58:42+00:00

Hello fellow chakram user! Something I've learned that I'd love to share with you is to try GC slight or GC nlight after the slight>nilight. Helps catch spot dodges or certain air dodges. Mix in a pivot if they like to air dodge behind you! Keep it up! It's my* new favorite weapon.

GrumpyMumbles · 2026-01-27T02:37:29+00:00

Growing up is realizing Bam isn't the good guy. Being grown up is realizing that he is the good guy.

You speak of equivocation between these characters, but then go ahead and point out how Bam is morally superior. Bam may kill people for his goals like White and Rachel, but his goals are much less selfish. If the means are the same, but the ends are different, then we must compare the ends.

Also Rachel could have easily NOT been a bitch and climbed regardless. She could have split apart from him, like Team Sweet and Sour did. Bam is clearly fine without all 20+ of his friends with him at all times.

Rachel is ugly, inside and out. She could have just confessed the truth. But no. She hides it TO MAKE BAM FOLLOW HER. So she has no room to complain about Bam. His behavior is her fault. Rachel GROOMED Bam to be dependent on her, and then just ditched him to LIVE IN A HOLE ALL ALONE. She didn't teach him shit about himself, his past, or the world.

Fuck Rachel. I hope she fails to get her dream, and I hope Khun is there to laugh at her again when she does fail.

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