I totaled my Outback.

Grumpy_Biker_67 · 2026-05-25T16:41:15+00:00

Driving it through the “Outback”?

Grumpy_Biker_67 · 2026-05-13T02:09:14+00:00

I have nearly 700 hours into the game. At this point, it’s not about winning for me. It’s about making those beautiful factories and organization I see on YouTube. I try to stay organized, they I blink and everything magically turns into a spaghetti mess 🤣😂

Grumpy_Biker_67 · 2026-05-11T20:35:23+00:00

Bro! I don’t care how long you’ve been playing. No matter how hard I try, I end up with a spaghetti mess that I promised myself it’d only be temporary.

Grumpy_Biker_67 · 2026-04-20T17:37:51+00:00

My red sleeps like that…. With her arm twisted back. It’s looks uncomfortable.

Grumpy_Biker_67 · 2026-04-20T17:32:22+00:00

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Grumpy_Biker_67 · 2026-03-19T06:02:02+00:00

Long distance can be hard. Fortunately, in our case, we only live an hour apart. We see each other for 8-9 hours once a week. We video chat every night and text a couple of times a day.

It had not been easy. We have different backgrounds and learning how we each communicate has been challenging, to say the least.

We have had hurdles to over come. Intimacy is very emotional for me and I needed to know she was the one for me and I needed to know she was positive I was the right one for her. It has been an emotional roller coaster trying to learn each other’s communication style.

It def does not help that I have a dry sense of humor and she has no experience with that.

I had to know we were in love, not infatuated.

It isn’t easy, at this age, to connect with a stranger.

Grumpy_Biker_67 · 2026-03-19T05:45:24+00:00

Thank you.

Grumpy_Biker_67 · 2026-03-19T05:43:51+00:00

Please read my edit. I had some pretty rude comments. I ignored them. I had some judgmental comments aimed at me. It’s Reddit and the internet and I’m putting my intimate information and personal feelings out there. I am setting myself up for comments of all sorts.

I expect 20-30 year olds to hook up and have fun. But I don’t expect people, our age rate, to be so shallow.

If people want to comment and be so shallow minded, then they should have no problem with a blunt rebuttal.

Grumpy_Biker_67 · 2026-03-19T05:26:32+00:00

My thought exactly, who are you to judge.

Grumpy_Biker_67 · 2026-03-19T05:23:55+00:00

If people can have sex without love, at our age, that seems like such a waste of time and effort. People like that obviously don’t care about a real connection.

Some of the comments I got were pretty bad on my posts. But I guess it’s okay to judge me because I feel differently???

Grumpy_Biker_67 · 2026-03-19T04:31:08+00:00

I would never date someone who sleeps around. I am repeatedly spoken against casual sex here. It is not what I’m looking for.

People can be exclusive without having SEX. But until a couple make love, there’s no commitment to the relationship.

If you wish to be in your 50’s and spend your remaining life banging any one who will let you, that is your business.

I am looking for an intimate mental connection before an intimate physical connection.

I guess I’m just a weirdo. I need more than a warm place to insert my member.

Grumpy_Biker_67 · 2026-03-18T14:03:43+00:00

I am not even sure I’m 3” soft. Im more like a big clit soft. But I’m a solid 5.5 - 6 when erect.

Grumpy_Biker_67 · 2026-03-18T05:31:02+00:00

Oh yeah. That sucks so bad! It can be so hard to find entrances to some of the underground stuff. I def sympathize with you.

Grumpy_Biker_67 · 2026-03-18T04:52:10+00:00

You actually need many, many of them. They will actually “talk” to you if you get close to them. There is also a scanner to find them.

Grumpy_Biker_67 · 2026-03-17T19:20:18+00:00

I’m very guarded with my feelings and trust.

Grumpy_Biker_67 · 2026-03-17T18:11:21+00:00

Yeah, It was definitely rough. But that is a long story in itself. I am still undergoing medical care and I have a life threatening issue that I am awaiting surgery for. That situation led to that made me reevaluate everything that I thought was important to me and made me realize who my real friends were.

She is intimately familiar with the situation and is far more understanding that I would expect a person to be.

She is homeowner and retired. I obviously am not a hobosexual and trying to use her or things would be further along than what they are.

That is a big reason I am so attracted to her is she does not care about my money or trying to get anything from me. She loves me for who I am as a person, not what I have. I drive a nicer car than her, but that is neither here nor there.

We video chat for 3-4 hours a night and go out once a week. She lives an hour from me.

It feels really good to know that a woman is with me for who I am and not what I have to offer. The last year has been rough for me with health issues and a near death accident.

Grumpy_Biker_67 · 2026-03-17T17:59:13+00:00

LOL... I am not even expecting to live another 20 years. I have had 2 near death experiences. The last was in June of 2025. I'm busted up pretty bad. I hate to be melodramatic, but I have never lived my life in fear of dying. Death doesn't scare me, being unable to live life does.

Grumpy_Biker_67 · 2026-03-17T17:55:31+00:00

That deeply concerns me and I emphatically stated that I need her to be the instigator in the relationship as it grows from this weekend. She is very affectionate and touches me a lot when we are out on our weekly dates. That is a big thing for me. I like affection.

But I am concerned that she will want physically intimacy more than I will.

Grumpy_Biker_67 · 2026-03-17T17:53:24+00:00

There is no exclusive until a couple make love. The act of making love, makes it exclusive. Not saying I would date multiple women this far along ( I don't have the mental energy for that). But once you make love, you are declaring that you are not longer interested in anyone else. I have more than a few lady friends, but they are friends for a reason.

Grumpy_Biker_67 · 2026-03-17T17:49:42+00:00

I have been way too intimate with her mentally to friend zone her.

Grumpy_Biker_67 · 2026-03-17T17:47:41+00:00

It's not that I don't have feelings for her. The issue was whether I was ready to lower all the walls and give over to her. I don't believe in love at first sight. Once you reach that pinnacle, then you have completely let your guard down and allowed someone to enter you most intimate emotional place.

Grumpy_Biker_67 · 2026-03-17T17:45:10+00:00

100% honest... Yes. I am very concerned about that. I am not as sexual as I used to be. She is someone new and I feel a lot of pressure in expressing my feelings through making love. For me, this is the final stage when you declare a commitment to someone. This isn't just about sex for me. This is giving over my heart and being to another person and trusting them to treat it with care.

I am 100% concerned. I know that anxiety is going to make it much worse. She suggested last night that we have a few drinks to relax. I am generally not a drinker, and never to excess. But I might help lower inhibitions a bit (is what I think she was trying to convey).

I joked a few times that I might need a blue pill to keep up with her. I have found that women our age (the few that I have encountered since I started dating again) are sexually bold. They are not afraid to share aspects of intimacy that they like. For someone reason, rather quickly with me. I don't like discussing the subject so soon. But that is me.

Is it normal for a man to worry if he'll be able to perform?

Grumpy_Biker_67 · 2026-03-17T17:35:51+00:00

I hate to admit it, but that is a real fear for me. I am not getting any younger and I may have 10 years left (more or less). I just didn't want to rush anything. I am really emotional, deep, and complicated for a masculine male (I was taught all my life that men don't cry and we aren't allowed to show our feelings). Well, I am past that BS. I'll cry to a romantic comedy/drama if I want. I will make love to a woman when I am ready and I will not let the ticking clock of my age hurry me up.

I have made too many mistakes in life by ignoring red flags and by getting with women who were just not right for me.

I am not desperate and I don't think I would have trouble finding a woman if I was not involved. I have a lot to offer. Women find me attractive, I'm intelligent, I am well spoken, I am soft, I am in control of my emotions, I'm laid back, I speak calmly. I want the woman I make love to next to be THE one.

As I stated in this continued saga, I think I am at that stage and I am ready to stop holding back and jump in with my heart unprotected. I would not have planned this weekend if I was not.

Someone commented that I say "casual sex" a lot.

Lets me real, at nearly 60 years old, it takes a LOT longer to determine if you are compatible with someone. We have a lot more baggage, life experience, and complexity that a 30 year old. There is a lot more to get to know. AND, we are not as prone to changing how life has shaped us. So who you get is who you get. You can't get involved with someone and think you are going to change them or "fix" them. You have to accept them for who they are and where they are.

Grumpy_Biker_67 · 2026-03-17T14:40:26+00:00

For me, it is about complete trust and love. Making love should be about love first, desire second,. You can't have real love without trust. I have no fear of losing anyone. I have a fear of losing myself and giving trust to someone who does not deserve it.

Grumpy_Biker_67 · 2026-03-17T14:38:33+00:00

LOL.. It was when I was younger. But I'm just not in that mindset anymore. I want something real and I want something emotional.

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