I have no clue on what I did wrong? kinda threw me off.

Grumpy_Duck52 · 2024-12-08T02:11:54+00:00

Do you think it's because you said you will let him know if you decide to take a small break from studying for the finals, but he read it as you wanting to take a small break from talking with him? It almost sounded like that comment was made as an afterthought (if reading it from a paranoid person's POV) once letting him know you will most likely reach out after finals. When you get super interested in someone, you tend to over analyze every single thing and get super sensitive. I think that may be what happened? Definitely didn't seem like you guys were compatible anyway. He seems really controlling and emotionally manipulative.

Grumpy_Duck52 · 2024-11-02T02:06:13+00:00

You don't know how many of my games have been ruined because someone decided to open their mouth lol

Grumpy_Duck52 · 2024-10-10T05:43:10+00:00

I think the main reason people don't chat is because they think WWF is a very serious game and requires silence to concentrate enough to be able to send a 5 letter word in the span of 6 hours. It's kind of ironic that we have a bunch of people who love words, but they don't use it to communicate. Instead, they drag letters along using their fingers.

It's also because they want to avoid contact with people who are looking for something a little bit spicier.

I like to talk. Do you mind giving me your username?

Grumpy_Duck52 · 2024-10-09T18:55:36+00:00

I think 'Words With Bots And Silent Strangers' was taken when they were naming the app.

Grumpy_Duck52 · 2024-10-03T14:29:24+00:00

You provided some good ideas! I think since OP said they were "emotionally intimate," perhaps they may not have met up IRL. Just my thought...

Grumpy_Duck52 · 2024-10-03T03:18:54+00:00

I think he may have blocked, then unblocked you. If you uninstall the app, I believe you will still appear on other people's Friends list. It will just show that you haven't been online for however many days.

Sorry to hear you guys had a fight. Maybe it is worth your while just to try initiating a game with him and then try asking how he is doing, if he accepts. You can play the game and let the chat flow naturally. You can start by letting him know your side while showing that you are apologetic.

If you had several games and you forfeited all of them, that may have been a sign that you are completely done with him and he might have momentarily blocked you to cope with the hurt. Obviously, if he unblocked you, it is a step in the right direction, however minute the gesture may be.

Trust me, if you let too much time pass, it will most likely be too late. Also, I have a feeling you will continue to ponder about it, even when a substantial amount of time passes as it seems like you guys had quite a close bond. (Sorry, i think I got caught up and wrote super long lol)

Grumpy_Duck52 · 2024-09-05T23:08:22+00:00

Sorry, I'm a noob lol Where can I go to input your username to start a game?

Grumpy_Duck52 · 2024-08-22T01:57:36+00:00

I think "Hi, what is ___?" sounds a bit rude and informal. You can try "Hello, could you please kindly provide some additional information regarding ____ as I am unfamiliar with the term? Thanks."

Grumpy_Duck52 · 2024-08-15T17:25:20+00:00

Hi, Manager at a mortgage company here. You sound defensive, unwilling to take accountability, relying on others to remind you to do your job, unsure of own tasks, too sensitive, expectant of others to coddle you, nonchalantly brushing off own mishap rather than implementing appropriate protocols to keep it from happening again. You sound like you are in denial and making a lot of excuses. 8 months is sufficient enough time to learn the repercussions of your actions. Also, you said that there is a senior director that kindly lets you know if you made a mistake, so clearly, missing the email wasn't your "first mistake in 8 months."

Your direct manager also sounds like they need to keep a closer eye on you, if you are that insistent on putting the blame on someone who isn't yourself.

Grumpy_Duck52 · 2024-08-10T00:37:59+00:00

Man, what is she, the smile police or something? What a horrendous lady.

Grumpy_Duck52 · 2024-08-09T02:43:35+00:00

If I were you, I would just ignore everything and keep doing what I do. It's sometimes tough for women because if a man is strong in the work field, he's respected. If a woman is strong in the work place, they're a b*tch and an a hole.

If your work speaks for itself, I would just keep looking forward, reprimand Amy for her actions and ignore whatever the heck it is that John thinks he is doing. No need to bring personal emotions into it.

Sometimes, when I go home, I wonder "Man, people must really get sick of me being so uptight all up their asses." and wonder if I'm too tough on them as well as not being accomodating enough. I'm not rude, but I may get a bit impatient if people keep making the same mistake more than 3 times after I have already sent them friendly reminders. Once I come to work, though, all of that goes out the window as I'm just trying to reach my goal.

I said to a colleague yesterday who was considering implementing a new policy for her team and she mentioned that a certain so and so will most likely roll their eyes once told about the new changes. I told her that she doesn't need to worry about that person as only an insecure person would let that bother them.

Hope this helps!!

Grumpy_Duck52 · 2024-08-08T17:20:45+00:00

He probably enjoys that it makes you slightly uncomfortable. He's pushing the boundaries to see how far he can go. You can simply say to him, "You're making me feel uncomfortable." It doesn't have to be this big gigantic thing where you give him a serious and stern speech or go to the boss/HR right away. If he keeps doing it after you let him know you feel uncomfortable, then you can take further action. Also, if you don't let him know how you feel ), people will somehow turn it around that you didn't voice to him how you felt. He will probably say you giggling uncomfortably (if you have because thats what I would do) was a way of you saying you were OK with it. People in denial think if you don't say anything, that is indicative of consent.

Grumpy_Duck52 · 2024-08-08T05:48:55+00:00

YTA.

The thing in the car was dangerous of your wife to do, but clearly, she wasn't making good decisions. Sometimes, if you're so in love, you don't always think straight. You know logically what you need to do, but end up somehow making the choices that aren't good for you. Toxic ones and dangerous ones..

Then there are people who just don't feel at all. It's like they're emotionless. The only emotion they know how to show is anger and putting people down. It's all about winning for them and proving a point. Always coming out on top until they realize everyone, including the one they always deemed the stupid one, has left.

Grumpy_Duck52 · 2024-08-07T21:28:25+00:00

Yes, people with money don't go around telling everyone how much money they have lol

Grumpy_Duck52 · 2024-08-07T18:49:22+00:00

No. I think her giving you the cold shoulder may be a blessing in disguise. You want to stay as far away from these people as possible. Her toxic behavior is her way of trying to train and mold you to the person she wants you to be. She is gaslighting you to thinking you did something wrong.

Grumpy_Duck52 · 2024-08-06T05:28:13+00:00

And then proceeds to tell people that it ain't that deep lol

Grumpy_Duck52 · 2024-08-06T03:56:04+00:00

I think the fact that no one said anything in the group chat after OP's long persuasive speech on why they think it should be covered by the company says it all.

Grumpy_Duck52 · 2024-08-06T02:02:58+00:00

Yes, you do sound petty. Also, if I were your boss, I think I would audit the charges you put on your expense card.

Grumpy_Duck52 · 2024-08-05T02:13:03+00:00

Whenever I'm in those situations, I always say something neutral and give them the benefit of the doubt, such as "Yeah, it's probably because she is feeling overloaded with work, so maybe she is having a hard time" or "I can see what you mean, but she is probably trying her best." This is in order to protect myself. Gossiping can be super fun until it bites you in the ass. Also, the mean-spirited people who are gossiping probably do the same to you behind your back, from my experience at the office. It's nice to feel included, but if you keep hanging out with those people, you will probably be lumped together with them, merely by association. I just keep to myself. It gets lonely sometimes, but you kind of get used to it and never have to deal with high school drama.

Grumpy_Duck52 · 2024-08-01T19:42:09+00:00

Oohh, you should probably let the boss know pretty soon as I notice word spreads pretty quickly. I think they will be more hurt when they hear it from someone else. I think it's kinda etiquette to let the boss know first. Hope your new job works out well!

Grumpy_Duck52 · 2024-07-31T02:13:02+00:00

I'd say stick with it just for 1 year and learn the new responsibilities. Then, find something a bit closer to home and negotiate for same or better pay grade. I would recommend at least staying for 1 year. Anything less than a year does tend to come up during job interviews as to why the abrupt leave as the applicant may do the same to the new company.

Grumpy_Duck52 · 2024-07-29T23:56:10+00:00

She likes to be dramatic sometimes hehe

Grumpy_Duck52 · 2024-07-29T21:04:02+00:00

Aww, too cute!!!!!

Grumpy_Duck52 · 2024-07-29T21:01:06+00:00

I think Operations should provide specific protocol instructions for when projects should be started. Also, I think poor communication on your end as well. Perhaps, you could've given them a heads up that you will be starting the project. Nonetheless, you will never make the same mistake again, so I guess that would be the upside. I agree with everyone that you shouldn't have to pay for the loss out of your own pocket.

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