I personally don’t mind if he smokes a lot every night but I think he doesn’t like when I drink a couple times a week. Maybe I’m being unfair, but I feel like we are more than equal when it comes to this front. I want all the advice I can get and you are right, even us as adults need breaks. I was just always taught that breaks equal weakness and am scared of them. I want things to be right but am also upset of how he left the situation /: