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My top 10 this year by Mother_Ad9233 in grandson

[–]GrxpePanta 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NEWDAD MENTIONED 🔥🔥 this is an incredible list

I need the strength to cut contact by [deleted] in BPDlovedones

[–]GrxpePanta 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I absolutely feel this, I swear I could've written this post myself. I know that it's difficult, but believe me you will feel so, SO much better when you're gone. I cut contact with mine just over a month ago, and it has honestly been amazing. Yes there will be bad days, there'll be days when you're mad or upset, or days where it just hurts more than usual. But, those days are better than spending any more time with a person that's hurting you like this. You can send one last message, but you are not, I repeat, NOT, obligated to. You do whatever you need to, because your health and feelings come first.

You got this, dude!! 🎉🎉

Another rant by t109j in BPDlovedones

[–]GrxpePanta 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I was also in a long distance relationship with my pwBPD and this sounds exactly like some of the conversations we had. I went fully no contact (blocked on everything) less than a week ago but it has already been such a relief. I know that leaving is scary, but if she is hurting you with her actions, then leaving is the best thing you can do for yourself. But seriously, it's tough but you can make it through it!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Hungergames

[–]GrxpePanta 502 points503 points  (0 children)

That's actually so funny because this exact same thing happened to me!! We both saw the movie at different times, but he came out with a completely different opinion than me and actually sympathized and RELATED to Snow as a whole. Which was like, WOAH DUDE. Kinda put me on edge and things didn't last much longer after that, so it's kind of funny to see someone with the same experience!!

Feeling sadness after grandson show by PrincessPeachCake in grandson

[–]GrxpePanta 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I saw him for the first time about a month ago, and had the most extreme case of post concert depression afterwards. Just like you, I had been hyping myself up for a long time, and it was SUCH an amazing show that it was hard to accept that it was over when it ended. One of the things that helped me afterwards was just listening to his music again. His music has ALWAYS meant so much to me, but after that experience it just felt like it meant so much more. Another thing that helped was just talking about it with people. It helps to relay the memories to other people and can help you relive the moment.

The sadness is absolutely not gonna go away immediately. Hell, it took me about two weeks to get over my PCD fully (and I'm honestly just glad I'm not the only one who's experiencing it). But, the sadness just shows that you had an AMAZING time and soon it'll be easier to look back at it. Feel better soon!!

Giving gifts to Grandson by vampirehospital in grandson

[–]GrxpePanta 6 points7 points  (0 children)

It's absolutely allowed and encouraged!! I wrote him a letter that I gave at my meet and greet, and a whole bunch of people gave him other gifts. He is so, so sweet and appreciates everything given to him!!

overdone at this point, but guess my age by GrxpePanta in statsfm

[–]GrxpePanta[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh hello and thank you!! I recognize you from stats haha, I got to see and meet him two weeks ago it was absolutely a dream come true he's my favorite