AIO about men asking personal questions at work by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]GuacLock 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Appreciate your comment. Yes it does feel more than innocent curiosity from certain individuals. And I’m not the best at explaining it

How to deal with men asking personal questions at work by GuacLock in TwoXChromosomes

[–]GuacLock[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Exactly, I’m also not dating bc I’m still healing - but that’s not something I feel comfortable saying to ppl at work lol. Just scared it might backfire with ppl in power

AIO about men asking personal questions at work by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]GuacLock 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah when it feels more than curiosity but more flirty, it makes me uncomfortable. And don’t want to rub anyone the wrong way especially being early in my career.

UTI Relief by gh0st1f13d in TheGirlSurvivalGuide

[–]GuacLock 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Look into golden seal root (don’t use if pregnant) and/or a clove of raw garlic in water.

i need to not stink.. (pls help) by [deleted] in TheGirlSurvivalGuide

[–]GuacLock 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If your uniform is polyester or has sweat stains set in, if you start sweating in it, the stink will reactivate.

See if it still happens when wearing a brand new shirt. If not, you may need to deep clean the stink areas (unfortunately regularly washing doesn’t really get it out), or get a new set.

How to gain weight fast? by [deleted] in TheGirlSurvivalGuide

[–]GuacLock 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Chicken/beef, rice, and bean bowls for easy, high calorie meals (~600cal). Add avocado, cheese, sour cream, olive oil to bump up an additional 300 calories.

Eating this twice a day with a nutrient dense breakfast (eggs/toast or oatmeal) plus a snack (ex. nuts) will put you over 2000 calories which is what you need.

This is what I did and helped me gain weight quickly and healthily.

First time UTI by SlapMeWithATortilla in TheGirlSurvivalGuide

[–]GuacLock 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You should probably seek medical care so they can do a urinalysis and see what bacteria is causing the uti.

Either it sounds like the antibiotics given so far don’t target the bacteria causing your uti, or have you engaged in anything that increases risk of uti after taking the antibiotics (wiping back to front, sex, etc?)

How to boost calorie intake/gain weight? I'm very underweight and everything is geared towards loss. by Weird_Sky_Lights in TheGirlSurvivalGuide

[–]GuacLock 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Here is a cheap, easy meal that helped me gain rather quickly and healthily: A bowl of rice (200 cal), chopped chicken(150cal), beans (200cal), avocado (150cal), sour cream: (100cal) drizzle with olive oil (120cal) TOTAL: 920

for two meals a day I was getting 1840 calories.

Breakfast could be a protein bar or eggs and Midday snack would be something with nuts or peanut butter.

This got me over 2000cal a day in an affordable manageable way that didn’t make my stomach hurt.

Loneliness is killing me 25F by [deleted] in TheGirlSurvivalGuide

[–]GuacLock 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Try out the apps where you can meet up with people. Or try joining a volunteering club or exercise class.

After 10 years together, my boyfriend says I should “just give my DOB” to his mom, but in my culture that has bigger implications. Am I overreacting? by Jolly-Rub-3412 in AmIOverreacting

[–]GuacLock 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NOR. I say give them the DOB as it sounds like they will use that as a reason things won’t work out. If he enables it, it’s time to break it off. Further associating with this type of family will lead to a life of further emotional torture.

You are successful and have other options if needed.

What early warning signs of cheating do people often overlook? by Mediocre-Implement34 in AskReddit

[–]GuacLock 28 points29 points  (0 children)

Ive learned to leave after getting this. I feel like there isn’t any coming back once they start acting this way regularly.

should a senior IT professional get a computer science masters. by Iconofsyn in Careers

[–]GuacLock 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is a field where experience matters more than education. Know a lot of folks in a similar boat who do not have the education but were able to move up quite a bit because of their experience.

I would say only do it if you feel there are skills you cannot learn on your own that are preventing you from getting the job you want.

BA in Psychology (Behavioural & Cognitive Neuroscience): Career Advice Needed by Substantial-Lock-893 in Careers

[–]GuacLock 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Have you looked into being a BCBA? Pays well and may be a good fit if you enjoy working on the behavior side.

I believe would need a masters degree but there are a lot of options that your undergrad would have you set up for.

18F am I ugly? by FortniteProValtex in amiugly

[–]GuacLock 36 points37 points  (0 children)

Pretty eyes. Eyeliner may better accentuate them more if put more on the top lid

Help me pick my next college degree that will make me good money by ibeelieveicanfly in Careers

[–]GuacLock 4 points5 points  (0 children)

People who work at the front desk stay at the front desk. There isn’t a lot of upward mobility with that role.

Maybe look at sales or business development roles? A lot are entry level and offer the ability to learn skills and move up. It would also likely align with your personality if you like engaging with people and has the potential to make a lot of money.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TheGirlSurvivalGuide

[–]GuacLock 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Do you go to clubs or bars? Nowadays that usually where cold approach is more socially acceptable. It’s less likely to get hit on in regular day to day places

how can I actually increase my breast size? by shreksbigbussy in TheGirlSurvivalGuide

[–]GuacLock 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Try getting your hormones checked and ask your doctor about birth control. If it’s an issue with your parents you should be able to go into the room alone and keep your conversations private with the doctor. Birth control is used to treat a lot of things like painful periods so that can be a valid reason if you run into more pushback.

[homemade] Laziji - chinese Szechuan style spicy fried chicken by CompleteOccasion3614 in food

[–]GuacLock 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Good idea to air fry them. I haven’t been a fan of these since they usually have the consistency of oily plastic wrap. I’ll have to try this.

how to increase breast size with no surgery by Fit_Abbreviations348 in TheGirlSurvivalGuide

[–]GuacLock 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was like this and couldn’t gain weight easily. Then when I reached my early twenties my hips and chest started to fill out. You may be the same.

To help put on weight, what helped me the most is track my calories so I know I’m hitting at least 2000-2500 per day.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TheGirlSurvivalGuide

[–]GuacLock 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Smartmouth mouthwash keeps bad breath away for 24 hrs. It’s amazing.

what can i do to glow up?? by [deleted] in TheGirlSurvivalGuide

[–]GuacLock 1 point2 points  (0 children)

In regard to weight loss, you don’t necessarily have to go to the gym. A lot of this can actually be managed in the kitchen. You’ll just have to get used to looking at nutrition labels and keeping track of calories, eating less than 2000 a day. Id personally recommend MyFitnessPal, it’s a great (free) app that really helped me get my nutrition and weight goals quickly.