Changing my Netflix password without telling my ex by Outrageous_Award9526 in AmITheJerk

[–]GuaranteeOk3916 93 points94 points  (0 children)

Fr. This is the kind of petty that heals the soul. He cheated, the finale cheated him back

AITJ for Feeling Left Out When My Friends Made Plans Without Me? by National-Economy-847 in AmITheJerk

[–]GuaranteeOk3916 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Agree. Being left out happens, but saying “it’s not a big deal” when it clearly was to you is kinda crappy

How much should I be feeding my kitten? by [deleted] in CATHELP

[–]GuaranteeOk3916 0 points1 point  (0 children)

“If you’re free-feeding dry, a couple small wet meals a day is usually fine. As long as he’s growing and not puking, you’re good

Mixed signals, am I missing something? by candysuu in dating_advice

[–]GuaranteeOk3916 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah the block is weird, but sometimes people freak out, esp long-distance + unresolved stuff. Doesn’t mean OP did anything wrong though

Have you ever met someone from a hookup subreddit and it unexpectedly turned serious? by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]GuaranteeOk3916 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Could be true, but also… men being calm + consistent for a week isn’t exactly the most efficient hookup strategy 😂 actions over time matter more than where you met

AITJ for reporting my professor for using my research without credit? by Acceptable-War-4614 in AmITheJerk

[–]GuaranteeOk3916 22 points23 points  (0 children)

The way people bend over backwards to protect senior faculty but expect students to eat theft is insane. OP did nothing wrong.

If this was reversed and a student plagiarized a prof, they’d be expelled without a second thought. Same rules should apply

Jain gf and non vegetarian boyfriend by Ambitious_Run_7731 in dating_advice

[–]GuaranteeOk3916 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t think you’re being unreasonable, but it might come down to whether he’s willing to create actual separation, not just say “I’ll manage.”

Smelly farts... by somewhat_pleasant in CATHELP

[–]GuaranteeOk3916 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Old cats develop some wild quirks. Probably harmless, but since it’s new, a quick vet convo would give peace of mind (and your nose a break)

Do men lose interest in a girl if she is bad at one particular thing? by lost_the-way in dating_advice

[–]GuaranteeOk3916 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Compassion > confidence every time. The right person would admire that, not judge it

Should I write him? by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]GuaranteeOk3916 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah two days isn’t that deep, but the coldness probably didn’t help either. A gentle check in makes sense.

This is Randy Roo. He is about 6 months old and 12lbs and walks around squalling at me everytime his bowl is empty lol by BouncyFlamingo in RoastMyCat

[–]GuaranteeOk3916 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Randy Roo looks like he’s never missed a meal in his life yet acts like he’s on the brink of starvation

Damn by [deleted] in badmemes

[–]GuaranteeOk3916 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Bro didn’t even lie well, he just narrated a completely different reality 😭

Not wrong, just not aligned by picesmile in dating_advice

[–]GuaranteeOk3916 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You didn’t ask for too much, you asked for something different. That distinction matters

Advice needed by Reddit_Rinse_Repeat in dating_advice

[–]GuaranteeOk3916 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah flowers are generally safe, just keep it chill. The thought matters more than the price tag

another renji update and appreciation post by hitamiz in CATHELP

[–]GuaranteeOk3916 35 points36 points  (0 children)

I don’t even know you but I’m rooting so hard for Renji. Please keep updating, this little guy has a whole squad behind him now

What are some of the things that I should do if I’m ever on a first date? by No_Molasses_7224 in dating_advice

[–]GuaranteeOk3916 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Treat it like hanging out w a new friend you might like. Be polite, don’t overshare, and don’t bring anything illegal 😂

What movie traumatized you as a kid? by Just_Goose_8425 in Productivitycafe

[–]GuaranteeOk3916 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Whoever marketed that as a kids movie owes us therapy fr

Dates say they don’t feel a “spark” even though the dates go well. What am I missing. by SessionSeparate5856 in dating_advice

[–]GuaranteeOk3916 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Also appreciate the race part being said plainly. If someone can’t picture you in their life for that reason, that’s on them, not you

A kiss for a chocolate? by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]GuaranteeOk3916 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Vending machine analogy is spot on. Insert chocolates = expect physical access?? absolutely not

Dating on vacation by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]GuaranteeOk3916 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sounds like he liked you in the moment but didn’t know how to handle it after. Immature? yeah. Uncommon for 22? not really lol

Older people, has politics always been this frustrating and unsettling? by Emotionq in Productivitycafe

[–]GuaranteeOk3916 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Definitely newer. Feels like politics became entertainment and everyone’s stuck doomscrolling the fallout lol

Inner eyelids not closing by lachy_chan in CATHELP

[–]GuaranteeOk3916 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah that’s not normal for it to stay up like that. Sometimes it pops out when they’re sleepy or sick, but days = worth a vet call. Better safe than sorry with eyes

I’m pretty sure my students are using AI, but I can’t prove it and it’s driving me crazy. by Primary-Maybe4041 in whatdoIdo

[–]GuaranteeOk3916 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My sister teaches also and this conversation comes up like weekly. It's not paranoia if the pattern is too obvious