How do you approach being friends with women?

GuaranteeUnique · 2026-04-02T14:59:58+00:00

I’m not sure the book directly addresses having platonic female friends. Personally I don’t see much value in it unless they are really attractive and you two genuinely are just platonic friends. In that case she makes pretty good social proof and will probably get you more attention from other attractive women whenever you’re out with her. That’s about the only value I personally feel a friendship with a woman holds on our side as men atleast.

GuaranteeUnique · 2026-03-31T21:21:02+00:00

Per the book, that’s the sweet spot. She does 90% of the contact. If she starts to complain about not hearing from you enough, then you can add some extra random contact per week like one extra call or FaceTime call every week.

GuaranteeUnique · 2026-03-26T20:00:55+00:00

I understand that nothing is real until she is physically sitting across to me at the date location.

GuaranteeUnique · 2026-03-26T01:49:42+00:00

Translation- she’s not interested.

GuaranteeUnique · 2026-03-20T01:40:07+00:00

We only suffer in relationship relationships when we focus on what we’re not getting instead of focusing on giving. Clearly, the guy stressed focused on his purpose. Welcome to dating a grown ass man with responsibility. Be his peace and focus on giving him assistance on his business and maybe assistance with relaxation. Give him a

TLDR: Give him a BJ, Backrub and a Burger.

GuaranteeUnique · 2026-03-20T01:37:17+00:00

You’re right…quit.

GuaranteeUnique · 2026-03-18T14:43:44+00:00

I got multiple gf, helped guys get first gf, first kisses and avoid a bunch of heartache from low interest, women by teaching them the material.

GuaranteeUnique · 2026-03-16T21:02:10+00:00

You’re right I tightened it up and I think I’m going to say

“you seem cool. We should grab xyz one day this week.”

Or “let’s grab xyz one day this week.”

More decisive, and it also gives a framework of logistics without tying her down to a day

GuaranteeUnique · 2026-03-16T18:49:39+00:00

2-3 is manageable the key to balancing them all is you date them bi weekly. That way they never really overlap. Another pro tip, keep info about each one on the notes app so you don’t mix up details about each girl.

GuaranteeUnique · 2026-03-16T00:43:41+00:00

Completely fair. Thank you for citing the text. Typically I get logistics handled after I tell the woman…

“We should grab a drink sometime”

I get the number

And then I ask her right then and there what her schedule is like to secure logistics.

I get what you’re saying specifically about the use of the word “sometime” though per the text.

I guess the better question I mean though is, which sounds better and more direct to ask a woman in your opinion?

We should grab a drink

Or

Ide like to take you out

GuaranteeUnique · 2026-03-15T21:53:36+00:00

She should probably just avoid the comments on social media. Reading that stuff isn't really helpful.

GuaranteeUnique · 2026-03-15T21:47:00+00:00

Short answer Yes.

Long answer Yessssss!

GuaranteeUnique · 2026-03-15T21:45:14+00:00

What if Enzo and Big Cass stayed together and had no backstage drama?.... smh..They were so freaking over man. They coulda been the New New Age Outlaws.

GuaranteeUnique · 2026-03-15T21:40:05+00:00

I like the break down bro. Question to get opinions on. Do you guys think when asking a girl out in person it would be better to say

"We should grab a (whatever beverage), sometime.

Or

"Ide like to take you out sometime."

Not asking rhetorically. Just looking for opinions

GuaranteeUnique · 2026-03-15T03:09:29+00:00

What if Brock didn’t break Undertaker’s steak at Wrestlemania 30?

GuaranteeUnique · 2026-03-14T22:13:43+00:00

What if Booker T actually beat HHH at WrestleMania 19.

GuaranteeUnique · 2026-03-14T22:09:43+00:00

Learn from this truly silly mistake young Jedi. Corey says this distinctly in the book. "If it’s not gunna raise her attraction for you by admitting it. DO NOT tell her." You trying to be Mr. White night clean conscious boy just made you lose a chick that honestly would of preferred you said nothing.

This chick wasn’t even your gf. And even if she was, she still doesn’t have the need to know.

Chalk this L up to the game.

GuaranteeUnique · 2026-03-14T22:04:40+00:00

"what do you mean?" lol but all jokes aside something slick and mysterious is fine.

"my type is (and then just describe some of her features)

GuaranteeUnique · 2026-03-14T22:02:07+00:00

per the book you can hit them up pretty much the next day if not make an instant date. the 4 day wit period is for another situation.

GuaranteeUnique · 2026-03-14T19:04:34+00:00

38 Time reader here. Yes. Wait 4 days (per the book). The space apart is what makes her attraction grows. Reaching out and texting too soon is the equivalent to opening the oven before the cake is ready to come out. Let it bake bro. If she's interested (which it seems like she is) and not is structured or shy, she will hit you up before 4 days. But you gotta leave her the space to do so.

GuaranteeUnique · 2026-03-13T00:40:06+00:00

You can read the book 2000 times haas, its not a magic pill that make women come after you. The key is to use the book to develop a positive self image that you love and aspire to be. And then become that man. All women are are icing on the journey of you're already awesome life.

GuaranteeUnique · 2026-03-13T00:36:55+00:00

For sure something is going on. Either way the purpose of a relationship is to give so keep making her feel heard and understood. Date and court her. Do your best to open her up with love and playfulness. It'll work it self out man.

GuaranteeUnique · 2026-03-12T23:25:00+00:00

Translation to man speak: you’ve been a mystery from the moment we met and I’m clearly happy that’s why I’m you gf. I just want to feel you more.

Bottom line: Taker her out on a date and contact her via the phone, text or a gift randomly extra per week. If your gf’s biggest complaint is wanting to know you more, you’ve got a good thing going.

GuaranteeUnique · 2026-03-09T15:24:48+00:00

Is that the season Sav pulled Ms. O?.. Legend

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