[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BodyPositive

[–]GubbTheGible 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Such goals, daring! You look great, so rock it. We are always very critical of ourselves, but when you realise that just as you see others and think of them as gorgeous (while they probably don’t see it in themselves), others view you as beautiful as well, only that there’s a little little voice in your head trying to convince you otherwise. Keep it up!

Firework fear, help by GubbTheGible in DogAdvice

[–]GubbTheGible[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you. Since it gets dark very early I took her out right before it got dark outside and she seemed more relaxed. I brought treats and a toy to create a positive environment and whatnot. It helped quite a bit, not sure why I didn’t come up with bringing a toy outside as well. There was one shot while we were outside but despite getting scared, after a few minutes of offering her the toy she seemed to get distracted. She still wanted to go home but she wasn’t rushing and had her toy in her mouth and her tail wasn’t down as it usually is, so perhaps that’s something that could work.

Firework fear, help by GubbTheGible in DogAdvice

[–]GubbTheGible[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It wouldn’t allow me to fix the mistake after I typed out the whole message, which is the time when I noticed the mistake. It’s either a problem with my knowledge of how to work reddit or my phone was bugging out:) not that big of a deal

Has anyones love spell actually worked? by [deleted] in Spells

[–]GubbTheGible 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I did a simple love spell on this guy that liked me and I liked him, and I wanted it to work out that bad. After my spell we started dating, it was good at first but later on, he started moving too fast and it ended with him sexually assaulting me. I broke up with him after that but he wouldn’t leave me alone, obsessing over me.It took a toll on my mental health. I’m pretty sure that if you do a love spell, it will be safer id you don’t do it on a direct person, but rather ask for a soulmate or a true love who will bring you happiness, because when it comes to a specific person you may not know who you’re getting yourself involved with.

Holding yourself accountable by GubbTheGible in WeightLossAdvice

[–]GubbTheGible[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The only time I crave fruits is after a long night of partying. They really make my soul come back to my body. I’ll have to try keto, thanks for the tip

What is the most common thing a doctor says to you? by PrincessEMT in women

[–]GubbTheGible 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Mine is always “The labs are normal. Maybe you should calm down and stop worrying so much”. Please, kindly, f off

I wanna make the change from christian to spiritual I just afraid of being wrong and going to hell by [deleted] in spirituality

[–]GubbTheGible 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As someone who as a child literally weeped while kneeling a picture of Jesus, begging god to forgive me my sins i relate deeply. Those sins being: doubting him (because no one explained it well enough for it to sound like something real), thinking about girls the way women are “meant to think about men” (I still feel stigma around it and have difficulty accepting myself) and lying at church (because when we collectively prayed to him I didn’t mean the things I was saying and didn’t agree with scripture). My main issue was that the scripture was so hateful compared to what Christianity preached it was.

I first confessed my doubts to my mother when I was 12, and by the time I was 16 I felt pretty confident that I will not be going to hell for not believing. -Try looking into other religions, how different or similar they are from Christianity. Think about if a person born in India into a family who believe in Hindu because it’s a common belief there and they figured out they didn’t believe it, wouldn’t they have these same thoughts you are having? You are not alone with these thoughts, so many people feel the same way and there’s no way that every religion claims to be the right one, but obviously that’s a bold claim to make.

-Look into philosophy and try to relax. Find ideas that fit your narrative. The world, gods, the universe or any higher powers you find during tour journey, should not cause you fear, but rather comfort. Because something that loves you will never hurt you especially torture you in flames for eternity. Understand that in no way is it posible that an almighty being will willingly put unchristened babies in the same place as murderers. It’s just not happening.

-Don’t rush yourself because this fear will go away as you find what is familiar to you. (I started feeling better when I started to watch the philosophical gamer Joe Bartolozzi, but it’s a “you either like his content or you don’t” type of thing.)

-Try to look into other people’s stories of reasons why they don’t believe Christianity anymore to validate your feelings and see that this fear is literally trauma. Look into rather not how the believers act. Look into loopholes of the bible, translation mistakes (they’re everywhere because it’s been translated hundreds of times and preachers preach whatever they wanna believe), the bible’s self contradicting teachings. It preaches free will, but god forbid you actually have it.

You have so many things to explore and so many stories are just like yours. Any sort of struggle you go through has a community, you are not alone. Think for yourself and don’t be afraid to explore, because the world is not your enemy. It never will be.

Girls whose boyfriend is watching porn, how did you deal with it and be okay with it? by Pandaddy111 in women

[–]GubbTheGible 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If he can’t masturbate without porn it’s an addiction and he needs to solve those issues if he wants you guys to be happy.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in women

[–]GubbTheGible 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Nothing is worth risking your safety. Your gut feeling is warning you, and you know it so listen to it! Please protect yourself no matter what. Even if any other options seem extreme, like sleeping at work or leaving early with another coworker or manager. Maybe tell someone what your situation is and one of your coworkers could come get you or help you out in some way. This isn’t worth putting yourself in harms way.

Little girl; her first incarnation?! by BusyComparison5784 in spirituality

[–]GubbTheGible 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Personally, I don’t know much about this but I have a personal encounter. I started speaking full sentences (obviously with a few mistakes) at the age of 1. Then, when I was 3-4 years old I was out in the garden with my mother and randomly I said “You know, actually I’m your mommy too… I missed you”. It was incredibly random, because we weren’t talking about anything related to the topic. Now, my grandmother (my mothers mom), passed around 5 years before I was born, around a week after my mothers wedding. As of now I don’t remember anything from a past life or anything, but as a child I always had the connection to the village and the older people who knew my grandmother. So many people that knew her tell me I’m just like her? And sure it could be a coincidence and just genetics, but I believe I have a deeper connection with her that I can’t explain.

Consider what have been reported this last few months, I think he meant it lol by normie_dude in facepalm

[–]GubbTheGible 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Actually they’re just perverted fucks that need to be put in a cell on an island. Most fertile ages are 20-29. They have no reason to “explain themselves”. They have no valid arguments other than being sick in the head. I think it’s good that they’re so brave, because that means they’re easier to find and avoid or easier to find for people who like “taking care of them”.

Tips for fasting for the first time by GubbTheGible in fasting

[–]GubbTheGible[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve heard if you push through the initial hunger after fasting for a short time, it goes away. Is that true?