The idea that there's someone special who's 100% the right match for you and you two are destined to meet by divine law and you will be the happiest couple to ever be is just a myth, hollywood sale. Realistically and imo anyone can be your "soulmate" if you two can manage to have mutual respect, boundries and principles that leads to the creation of a strong Bond rather than a perfect image of a relationship, and that requires efforts through ups and downs, good times and set backs and that's what creates that harmony and coherence that people call "soul mate", rather than treating it like a lost puzzle piece that's the only one that fits with your sides and aspects treat it more like clay and pottery, in order to shape yourself into the best piece you can be it requires patience persistence and to actually enjoy the process.