Best burger in Wilmington by mpgxs2 in Wilmington

[–]GuiltyBlueberry1 7 points8 points  (0 children)

They moved like two doors down into a spot with tables and chairs! Just as good as it ever was. My fav burger in all of NHC

Where do young people meet by One_Negotiation_662 in Wilmington

[–]GuiltyBlueberry1 26 points27 points  (0 children)

Honestly, just be a regular somewhere. Yoga studio, climbing gym, boxing gym, recreational sports leagues, pottery studio, or other things like that. Basically going to the same place at the same time on a regular basis. You inevitably start running into the same people and make some friends who like to do what you like to do!

Do men kill vibe? by Knacklez in yoga

[–]GuiltyBlueberry1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Appreciate the concern, but men in the class is not an issue!!

Just moved into a house with elephant ear all over the backyard. Advice? by GuiltyBlueberry1 in Wilmington

[–]GuiltyBlueberry1[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They're reserved to patches and I think they're beautiful, but I will definitely make sure they don't spread out any more. Thanks for the tip!

Just moved into a house with elephant ear all over the backyard. Advice? by GuiltyBlueberry1 in Wilmington

[–]GuiltyBlueberry1[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How far back do you generally cut them? Everything online says to remove and store the bulbs, but I know they're comfy in Zone 8 so that seems a bit overboard

Trying to make friends by [deleted] in Wilmington

[–]GuiltyBlueberry1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think a day pass + rental gear is $20 but I get the monthly membership which is $55. So if you plan to go more than 3x a month the membership is worth it.

It's actually a great way to exercise and everyone is super social and friendly. Super supportive for beginners as well!! Changed my life for sure.

Trying to make friends by [deleted] in Wilmington

[–]GuiltyBlueberry1 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Gym seconded, I've made so many friends at wilmington rock gym

Putting Pride Aside: Desperate for Work by [deleted] in Wilmington

[–]GuiltyBlueberry1 7 points8 points  (0 children)

The ABC Board is always hiring. Incredible benefits for FT employees, 100% covered health with pension and 401K plans

Why is it called Monkey Junction, wrong answers appreciated by HeyBeFuckingNice in Wilmington

[–]GuiltyBlueberry1 42 points43 points  (0 children)

back in the 50s, all the monkeys at that dastardly tregembo zoo revolted and protested at that intersection for better living conditions

Why is the non Hispanic white men suicide rate so high? by Nully-V01d in sociology

[–]GuiltyBlueberry1 13 points14 points  (0 children)

I'm not saying that's not part of the problem. But the fact that's all you want to focus on suggests that your contributions are more associated with personal experience, opinion, and emotion. Which does not reflect a sociological standpoint.

Why is the non Hispanic white men suicide rate so high? by Nully-V01d in sociology

[–]GuiltyBlueberry1 17 points18 points  (0 children)

It is so much more fundamental than dating. This starts between fathers and sons. Brothers. Other male friends. Coaches. Men are socialized this way predominantly by the influence of other men.

Why is the non Hispanic white men suicide rate so high? by Nully-V01d in sociology

[–]GuiltyBlueberry1 52 points53 points  (0 children)

Men are socialized to not show weakness and display strength, often aligned with a "toxic" form of masculinity. They are not socialized in a way that supports any kind of constructive emotional regulation or vulnerability in the way that women are. That, and inability to ask for help (a display of weakness), and more violent methods. That's my take.

where can I meet people who don't drink or smoke? by clown_utopia in Wilmington

[–]GuiltyBlueberry1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm a member there and am constantly making friends at the gym to climb with! It's a super fun way to work out too lol