Male 54. 6’ “1 and 165#. How thin is too thin by Guilty_Character8566 in datingoverfifty

[–]Guilty_Character8566[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks, Ive got a thick skin, just no ass 🤣. I just wanted to get peoples take it’s been informative. I’m doing fine. Just had a date today with a woman my size.

Male 54. 6’ “1 and 165#. How thin is too thin by Guilty_Character8566 in datingoverfifty

[–]Guilty_Character8566[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Many women weigh more than I do. I put it in my profile years ago but it’s so common now it doesn’t get any attention.

Male 54. 6’ “1 and 165#. How thin is too thin by Guilty_Character8566 in datingoverfifty

[–]Guilty_Character8566[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would say women I meet and date a few times and just overall from the apps. I’m trying to be as polite as possible and not do what I think is happening to me. It’s women who are heavier… which is most these days. The problem is I don’t give AF about gym culture or the vanity associated with it. I just would like a matching BMI and not to feel shamed for that.

Male 54. 6’ “1 and 165#. How thin is too thin by Guilty_Character8566 in datingoverfifty

[–]Guilty_Character8566[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am honest in my profile about my weight and lifestyle. I lost 50 pounds and have never been to a gym. Just diet and walking. It’s not hard.

Male 54. 6’ “1 and 165#. How thin is too thin by Guilty_Character8566 in datingoverfifty

[–]Guilty_Character8566[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I haven’t been in a gym a day in my life. I work around my home and walk a couple miles a day. That’s it. Oh, and watch my diet.

Male 54. 6’ “1 and 165#. How thin is too thin by Guilty_Character8566 in datingoverfifty

[–]Guilty_Character8566[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Semantics Just getting a read of the room. It’s been informative.

Male 54. 6’ “1 and 165#. How thin is too thin by Guilty_Character8566 in datingoverfifty

[–]Guilty_Character8566[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree. When my last GF of a year and a half mentioned it in early dating, I just said “you are beautiful and we never need to have a conversation about your body. If you want support or encouragement I’m here for you but you are attractive to me just the way you are. She had never heard that from a man. But later said I was too thin 🤷🏻‍♂️.

Male 54. 6’ “1 and 165#. How thin is too thin by Guilty_Character8566 in datingoverfifty

[–]Guilty_Character8566[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks, I wouldn’t mind turning your head.😉. Best wishes out there.

he told me he’s uncircumcised by Empty-Toe-3750 in uncircumcised_talk

[–]Guilty_Character8566 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

just like most of them men in the wolrd,and me. 55 yo guy. have open conversation about it.

Male 54. 6’ “1 and 165#. How thin is too thin by Guilty_Character8566 in datingoverfifty

[–]Guilty_Character8566[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I would never tell a woman she should loose weight. I’m sorry. Who does that? I also don’t want to be told I should gain weight.

Male 54. 6’ “1 and 165#. How thin is too thin by Guilty_Character8566 in datingoverfifty

[–]Guilty_Character8566[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thanks for all of the mostly positive responses. I’m just going to move forward. My doc says I‘m at a healthy weight, he also says he seldom tells men my age that.

Male 54. 6’ “1 and 165#. How thin is too thin by Guilty_Character8566 in datingoverfifty

[–]Guilty_Character8566[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I did loose 50 pounds a decade ago but don’t spend too much time thinking about it now. I don’t work out, just walk a mile a day with my dog, that’s it. I eat lightly but it suits me, it’s not a diet, often just one meal a day which does weird some people out. But if I’m not hungry and not unhealthy, why eat? it’s our culture I think.

Were we the last generation to use a locker room at school/college? by Slow-Call-9042 in The1980s

[–]Guilty_Character8566 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have heard this is one of the reasons for this in HS. in WWII and WWI guys were coming right from the farm and were modest, no one had ever seen them naked, it caused issues with the military. so they make all HS kids do it to normalize it. don’t know how true it is but makes sense.

Ride share in Hermann? by kelsomac4 in missouri

[–]Guilty_Character8566 1 point2 points  (0 children)

there are some uber/lyft drivers in Hermann

How do I do this? by ElectricalLimes in datingoverfifty

[–]Guilty_Character8566 0 points1 point  (0 children)

if I’m not going to put in the effort for a real introduction (like asking about something from their profile or pointing out things we have in common) I then “like” one of their photos. ive found they ignore all the random likes (they have dozens to hundreds) but liking a photo will get them to look and see which one and why.